25 and lead a depressed and lonely life

there is nothing wrong with you op its the society and wich the elite have created since after the the 2 world war

come on over, plenty of room in hell.

Come to California and surf

Last Edited by Nexus-9 on 02/07/2013 11:50 AM

excuse me but you could be completely unaware of life and death and still have your hormones. Then you would not focus on suicide so Im laughing as I hope your realize its not your hormones.

Seriously Loner just be happy as a loner, drifter. Plenty of people are by job or just by choice theres nothing wrong with it and most people are anyway. I struggled when I realized I had no friends too but all my many childhood freidns were outcasts just like me and they are probably no different now. Look around you, think about it. I was the kind of person in school who hung around with a different person every few months and we all intermingled separately. There was tons in my year and others like that, I was the kind of person who was neutral with everyone but mainly got on all round. Now Im a loner and Im almost proud because of so many reasons.

Fix your diet and get some sunlight and exercise.

Get the Genotype diet book by D'addamo and get a full-spectrum allergy test.

Speak to a NATUROPATHIC doctor about a body detox.

Also consider taking a class on meditation.

In three months, you'll be a totally new person.

bide your time until super hot robot fuck dolls become availble???

Scientists have documented depression in RATS depending on their diets and hormones levels (like insulin). Don't pretend to be an endocrinologist or research scientist. You're ignorant on the subject. Ever been to an animal shelter? Go see what a depressed, caged animal looks like. If they had self awareness, maybe they too would extend their depression to suicidal ideations.

Some people are social butterflies and love life and are happy to be that way. Some people are loners and love life and are happy to be that way. OP is obviously NOT happy.

There's nothing wrong with being a loner like the above AC claims he is proud of, but you, OP, are obviously not happy with your situation. You have gotten some good suggestions in this thread, and I hope you try some of them out.

Life is what you make it. I am similar to you in many ways but I found a way to deal with what seems like a black hole you just keep falling deeper and deeper in.

If I had to give you 3 points I would suggest this.
1.Find a Church. Does not have to be big. You don't even have to socialize. But you need the message of Life. (Jesus)
2.Don't be afraid to go see a doctor. Just tell them what you feel. You are dealing with stress, loneliness, etc. Trust me they will understand and not think you are strange.
3.Do some form of exercise for at least 10-15 minutes a day. It will cause changes in your body that will eventually affect the mental and emotional aspects.

But yeah man don't let life get you down.

The samurai's were famous for falling on their own sword and ending their life when the enemy had them finally backed into a corner. Don't be a samurai. Be a warrior. Be a Spartan! Don't be afraid to call out for help and don't ever be afraid to face the force of loneliness and that inner emptiness that wants to just gut you.

Last I want to just leave you with this advice. Just wait until you are 27. I can't explain it but I was once told this and I am in my last week of being a 27 year old and I can honestly tell you that Life Does Get Better. Something just happens and you "find yourself". You seem to know your limitations, your desires, your dreams, and you seem to understand this earth and it's inhabitants so much better.

You have probably seen right now the worst life will hand you. So take that into perspective. Be like Lazarus who Jesus raised from the Dead. How can you scare a man who has already seen death? How can life do anything to you now that you have not already felt. Rise up!

Bro I really hope this helps you. My prayers are with you.

Seriously bro just find a girlfriend or go join a club that you are interested in.

Volunteer.....................there are way too many people who have less than you hav e described and who do not have options.

When you offer something of yourself in behalf of other people or supporting those who are dependant upon people, say animals or such, you become involved and have purpose.


When you gain purpose you care less about yourself amd more about something outside of yourself and you have living and from there you can gain community.

Take a baby step by changing one thing in your day as you have outlined it.

People dont seem to find the loner life appealling well, you can still be a loner and know people.

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Hi. You are very young, so have no fear. Many people your age are in a sort of slump stage, not at all uncommon.

FIRST, you need to make a family for yourself. You need to find friends. Go where you meet people. Can you find a:
- book club
- volunteer work (it could be something fun, like history presentations for kids or a museum)
- people who like to play board games who meet
- library activities
- take a class (learn a language or something that interests you)
- religious organization (church, wiccan group, whatever)
- volunteer to help garden or do natural preservation
- help the less fortunate

If you don't have one, really get a HOBBY. Get interested in something. Read books! Having a few things that you find interesting can really be a lifeline, and you'll find joy in these. Interests are a great way to meet friends, too.

Avoid television and popular music. Honestly, they are designed to make you depressed, lethargic and trapped in self-pity. Pay attention to the emotional effects any sort of media or music has on you...and only let healing things into your life.

Talk a walk in nature or a beautiful place.

Every morning, make a gratitude list of those things that you appreciate in life...however small. It will help to change your thinking.

Good luck. You may not realize it, but these low points are actually turning points in your life.

change your play ground of life.. Do new and different things,, and try things that are new.

Like has a way to pin us in a corner,, but you are not held back by 30 family members or 10 friends.. Your alone so chart your own coarse of life.

Sodbust

There's lots of "I's" in there my friend. Your existence is only pointless if you choose for it to be.
Try volunteering. Just once a week to start. Retirement communities are a good place to start. People there are lonely also and would love to have a friend to talk to.

I'm taking my kids to play bingo with the old folks tomorrow. When I first went, I had NO clue how important it was to these folks. WOW. They love people coming to see them.

Anyhoo, I always worry my children will feel hopeless one day, so I've started them early to think of others before themselves. Sometimes we get so stuck in ourselves, we lose sight that its not just all about us.

I've been there my friend. Someone snapped me out of it long ago and said, "get over yourself. It's not all about you. Go fill someone's bucket and quit worrying about your own." Lol. Tough love I suppose, but it worked.

Good luck and know you are not alone.

Summer Glau version for me thanks.

if you have a job then you're better off than most

thats like saying someone who just got raped, on some level was asking for it.


the secret is nothing but hogwash

op you have lived ~33% of you life, no so long to go now

Smoke weed all day, every day and take some magic mushrooms on occasion. You'll be doing great after that.

just like there is pain in the body when there is something wrong with it physically, depression is the mind's way of letting you know that something is wrong with your soul, and consequently with your life.

...that there something right in front of your nose that you have been ignoring for too long. You are being forced by your higher self to stay alone and confused so that you may find the answer. If you would pretend the problem isn't there and just go on with your routine, then you would not find the answer in time, which would result in some kind of tragedy.

be thankful that your higher self is letting you know that something must be corrected... Some don't even get this opportunity.

do not listen to this person.

take martial arts training, be humbled by the new knowledge you will attain, and begin to respect yourself once again.

or, of course, you can try the fuck doll alternative.

when depression hits, it's either meditation or fuck dolls.

I chose meditation

masturbate

join a cult.

democracy is popular these days

masturbation? Are you cRRaZyy?

every time a man ejaculate he is expelling great energy from his body... This in turn weakens him greatly, and if nothing is done to break the habit and replenish the lost energy, then it's his health that starts going downhill.

sorry, but relief is not for free.

Reality is harsh, but in harshness you find strength.

Don't waste your sexual energy.

HA! Like that will help.

Yup.