What happens when your spouse drinks too much

I love when my old man gets drunk with his friends.

He gives me money to leave him alone, lolol

I don't know but I get shit faced off of 2 Zimas and jolly ranchers.

Yes that's fine and all, but did you make him a sammich?

Buahaha. The good ole days!

Yup, that's all most the ladies would drink in high school. That and Boones. Not sure if either are around anymore.

You are a cheap date.

that is so fucking hilarious and appropriate for your avatar!

It's a cycle. It'll break itself one day, or it will break the excessive habitual drinker.

Nick

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what do 75,000 abused women every year have in common?

They don't fu*king listen!

My wife gets chatty. Thinks everyone is her friend including strange guys. So if she starts yacking at some dude I dissappear and find a cute 21 year old to talk to. Later she comes up and is like who the F is this? Then she gets pissed and turns I to a bitter bitch.

We go home and fight and her female brain is incapable of computing that what is good for the gander is also good for the goose. Double standards are perfectly acceptable to her. And she especially gets pissed if the girl is cuter than she is. I simply tell her don't go yapping to guys and I won't let some young chick entertain me. For whatever reason that pisses her off.

Women are like selfish children.

He is broke, I hold the wallet around here.

sounds pretty correct

i think all men have had this happen

He pulled a knife on me a couple times, but my late husband taught me how to take a knife away from someone. I quickly grabbed it from him. He is mean nonetheless. He is worse when he drinks. As soon as he gets a job, and some money saved, I am going to get him out.

Both of these are free.

So you guys have different accounts? Is he unemployed or just bad with money?

Yes, he refuses to work, I pay all the bills.

Eff that! If he pulls knives on you kick his ass out now!

Kick his loser ass out then.

Nah ..they have friends and family and a society who tell them what to think and what to do and be.

They need to figure out who they are what they want out out of life and and have the balls to go for it other wise they will be dominated and abused all their living days.

and that goes for any other fucking dumb ass.. myself included

Nice.

this dude is a fucking moran. why dont you just leave his broke ass? you late husband sounds cool tho.

hes never getting a job anyway. not long enough to have some money saved and all that.

this stuff pisses me off

I hid his knife last night, he laid it on the countertop, and went ballistic saying, "I just had it right there." I didn't expect him to go combing through the house looking for it. I didn't put it in a good spot, and he found it. He eventually passed out and went to sleep, after yelling at me for a while. I had told him earlier today, if he wanted me to value his opinion, he needed to get a job and contribute. He is still fuming over that.

Do you think I am wrong to say that? That a man should contribute to the household. I compared it to a company that has share holders. I told him right now I am the president, because I hold most of the stock. My boys hold the other shares, because of their late father (SSI), and my husband holds no shares, he does not contribute to the board

this is so true.

everyone says to strife for what you believe in. chase you dreams. blabla but almost none ever do it.

people just want that damn iphone. or that tabled. or the nicest car. or the dude with the coolest job. the hottest girl. but when you dont know what makes YOU happy and you just chace the common dream that it portrayed by media. you will never be happy. not while chasing it and neither once you have that hot girl or the dude with the car. cuz thats not what a relationship is about.

and i think we all know that the hottest people usually dont make the best sexpartners anyway. so yea
just find out what makes you happy. and go for that. even if other people dont agree with you. cuz guess what. they like other stuff. so you shouldnt care about their opinion about your love anyway..

Well if you don't kick him out and let him stay with you after all that it's all on you.

I lived this life. I understand where you are coming from. I kept making excuses for him. He didn't work, bounced my mortgage payments, etc. He was 6'5" and 300lbs. Big guy with a short fuse.

One day he turned his anger on my kids. That was the last day he stayed in my house. That was almost 7 years ago. I have been single ever since and relish every moment of it.

I wish you strength and if you need someone to talk to, pm me.