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Anonymous Coward User ID: 27558514 United States 03/31/2013 01:28 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Re: Father punishes daughters after finding out they put a twerk video on facebook. (Some may find this Video Offensive) That's fucking abuse. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 18516714 This thread and youtube video have been reported to DCF. And, of course, it's commie, hippie, horse shit like that that turned this country into a bunch of Obummer-tards. Anytime that anything happens... don't stand on your own ground... don't right the wrong yourself... just run to DADDY GOVERNMENT and get your 'ba-ba' and bankie. Do you need some ninny too? |
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Anonymous Coward User ID: 24537404 United States 03/31/2013 01:42 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Re: Father punishes daughters after finding out they put a twerk video on facebook. (Some may find this Video Offensive) CPS advice on corporal punishment is that it be done over the clothing, with an open hand only, on the bum, without causing physical marks or injury, without excessive force, and only at the age at which it is effective - you are not to use any objects such as whips, paddles, boards, rods, switches, etc. These cause welts and cuts and bruises and are forbidden. These girls are not only a bit too old to be using corporal punishment on as a tool - they have brains, after all - and what he did was not only emotionally traumatizing and terrifying for them, but it was physically damaging and therefore falls under the definition of abuse. I do not disagree with his feelings as a parent over what they did, but the actual outcome of it will not benefit him, or the girls in the best way. Quoting: Geo777 It may or may not have been optimal. It's a heck of a responsibility for an outsider to know what is optimal for those kids and quite a presumption to assume optimal behavior by the parent. There are no perfect parents. It was noted on GLP a while ago that discipline of black children should be decided by black parents (in the context that white parents should not adopt black children) because black parents know the proper discipline, which is often stricter. It was also noted that when Child Services steps into these situations because of "excessive" discipline, they create future criminals. So without going so far as to assume that no white should be allowed to adopt a black child who needs parents, I will go along with this punishment. Father was scared for the future of his daughters, and maybe this punishment is the most effective for them. |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 37166753 United States 03/31/2013 01:42 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Re: Father punishes daughters after finding out they put a twerk video on facebook. (Some may find this Video Offensive) Oh for chrissakes you fucking libtards this is not child abuse, it's called 'corporal punishment'. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 1721958 If he beat them all the time just for the hell of it, then it would be child abuse. My hats off to this gentleman, he should win' father of the year'. Betch'ya those ho's don't go postin' no mo twerk videos. They probably won't post another video, but they'll probably become strippers when they leave the house just out of spite. I bet he didn't even provide a better reason to not do that other than "you gonna get da belt..". He should have sat them down, explained why it's improper and why they should have better standards and then threat to ground them or something if they did it again. The point is to have adjusted children BY THE TIME THEY'RE ADULTS, not treat them like a caged animal only to unleash a beast into the world once you can kick them out. |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 24537404 United States 03/31/2013 01:45 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Re: Father punishes daughters after finding out they put a twerk video on facebook. (Some may find this Video Offensive) That was CRIMINAL ASSAULT. Quoting: Nancy (Lazaryan) Hutchison Children are people with RIGHTS. Yes, parents need to discipline, but there is a difference between discipline and assault. Not to sound like I'm a "know it all", but I did spank my children. After they got repeated warnings. Then he/she would have to go choose the wooden spoon they where going to be spanked with. One whack on the butt, then a very long talk about how they could change their actions. My grown daughter told me awhile ago, "It wasn't the spanking that was bad, it was that TALK." The decision to have children means you take the responsibility to raise and teach them. Disciplining a child requires that YOU are disciplined and make the commit of time, thought and YOUR actions so that the child can learn from the situation. Grounding a child to their room is hell. It means YOU are grounded, because you have to be there to make sure the kid stays in their room. But, it gives everyone a "time out" to consider what just happened. The man in this video was not acting as a parent. He was punishing his CHATEL. In the past, legally, women and children were CHATEL of the man: his property to do with as he pleased. We are faced now with a "new society" of temptations, advertising and social manipulation of our children...and adults. Solutions within the family structure need to be restored. IMO those solutions come from people RESPECTING each other and COMMUNICATING what is happening around us...and what our reactions will be...as a FAMILY. As a child, I was beaten (repeatedly) in the same manner these children were beaten. It is a horrible and terrifying experience to be physically beaten by the person who is supposed to love and protect you. Takes a long time to heal those scars. I've made my share of my own mistakes, however, I decided my children would never be beaten. And they were never beaten. My guess is the man in this video was also brutally beaten as a child. However, he did not make that decision to break the pattern of abuse in his own family. Today there are lots of adults locked into the emotional scars from being physically abused as children. They are unable to relate to others, are triggered by certain words and actions. And then we have an entire society that is abusive. Watch for those triggers, people. "Something" is pushing us all to violence in our human society. We need to step back and evaluate. Are we going to be triggered into responding with violence (just as this man was)? Or are we going to step back and evaluate. Find a different course of response to those that want to digress humans into violence? Think about your emotional response in viewing this video. Did you want to beat the crap out of the man that was hitting the children? Did you want to get right in there and hit the kids for their "bad behavior"? Why? Why did you react this way? And what can you personally do to help this family? Now you know why my kids "dreaded the talk after the spoon". Peace. Be well. SHut your hole u go discipline your kid with time outs. This father will determine his kids punishment! WHo the hell are you to decide anything for that family? You don't walk in his shoes you don't put food on the table and they Ain't your kids. I for one think you are a bad parent because you don't discipline your kids and you need to have them taken away. HOW dare you ever interfere in another man's family. GO take a vaccine u we definitely don't want your children breeding. As I was pointing out-- WHAT is your REACTION to this video? Why do you believe that assaulting a child is okay? Why do you believe that brutally whipping a child is "proper discipline"? You state, "This father will determine his kids punishment." You believe that the children are CHATEL, his property, and have no rights. Do you also believe that the wife is the property of the man, and if she "get out of line" that she should be beaten? Where did you learn these things? Did I say NOT to discipline? I said that discipline is necessary. There is a difference between discipline and brutal assault. I've been there, done that. Taken kids out of gangs. Fed and clothed them, when I had no money. Gave them a safe place to be. Talked with their parents, who became my friends. Accepted the children and parents both as human beings and helped, listened and showed a different way to communicate. We worked towards solutions that were not violent. There is a force greater than violence. as long as you choose violence, you will never learn that force I believe that children should be the property of parents until majority. It's not that way legally in our country, but it should be. I didn't learn this from anyone else. I figured it out AS A CHILD because obviously my parents were more suited to supervise me than the adult legal system. It has nothing to do with a man owning his wife. |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 24537404 United States 03/31/2013 01:47 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Re: Father punishes daughters after finding out they put a twerk video on facebook. (Some may find this Video Offensive) Oh for chrissakes you fucking libtards this is not child abuse, it's called 'corporal punishment'. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 1721958 If he beat them all the time just for the hell of it, then it would be child abuse. My hats off to this gentleman, he should win' father of the year'. Betch'ya those ho's don't go postin' no mo twerk videos. They probably won't post another video, but they'll probably become strippers when they leave the house just out of spite. I bet he didn't even provide a better reason to not do that other than "you gonna get da belt..". He should have sat them down, explained why it's improper and why they should have better standards and then threat to ground them or something if they did it again. The point is to have adjusted children BY THE TIME THEY'RE ADULTS, not treat them like a caged animal only to unleash a beast into the world once you can kick them out. Maybe he cannot watch them 24/7, has to go to work or something. And he was almost certainly scared about their future, trying to do anything to get them to stop. |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 28678242 United States 03/31/2013 01:50 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Re: Father punishes daughters after finding out they put a twerk video on facebook. (Some may find this Video Offensive) Sorry but that type of punishment never accomplished anything except rebellion. I myself try to talk and explain to my kids what they did wrong and the consequences of there actions. Pretty much teach them right from wrong in the first place to avoid them going out and do whatever "Twerking" is. Quoting: Donthaveone 12465121 That class of individuals are destroying our society. It is all about making the almighty dollar to them and to fuck with Morals. Fuckin' libtsrds are the reason America is going to shit. "Spare the rod, spoil the child" You'll be talking to your kids over a telephone while looking at them through a bullet-proof glass window later on in life, bet on it. Beating childen only teaches them violence; if your goal is to turn them into serial killers or sadists this is the route to take. My ex sis n law [ex husbands sister] would beat her kids like that.As time went by they just got tougher and both her sons were in prison before they were 18.They just accepted that beating people was okay I guess. |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 30075865 United States 03/31/2013 01:51 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Re: Father punishes daughters after finding out they put a twerk video on facebook. (Some may find this Video Offensive) This man was arrested for child abuse in Chicago! The crime the children committed, was failing to make this mans dinner when he came home (btw - he was unemployed)! This type of so called discipline in this family occurred all the time too! I suppose according to all the posts here that this man is a hero that looks out after his family and should be free from prosecution too - RIGHT!!! |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 33753048 United States 03/31/2013 01:52 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Re: Father punishes daughters after finding out they put a twerk video on facebook. (Some may find this Video Offensive) You have all failed to research! Quoting: Anonymous Coward 30075865 This man was arrested for child abuse in Chicago! The crime the children committed, was failing to make this mans dinner when he came home (btw - he was unemployed)! This type of so called discipline in this family occurred all the time too! I suppose according to all the posts here that this man is a hero that looks out after his family and should be free from prosecution too - RIGHT!!! do you have a link? |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 24537404 United States 03/31/2013 01:54 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Re: Father punishes daughters after finding out they put a twerk video on facebook. (Some may find this Video Offensive) This is bullshit. If you beat some arsehole who's pissing you off you get charged with assault, but somehow you all think that because it's your child it's acceptable? Beating another adult is wrong but beating your child is fine? Wtf? He's obviously a shit parent, if he'd raised them right and taught them self respect they wouldn't have done it in first place, then he compounds his shitty parenting by lashing out with violence. Quoting: ming ... Betcha you're not an actual parent are you? |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 35941980 Bahamas 03/31/2013 01:55 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Re: Father punishes daughters after finding out they put a twerk video on facebook. (Some may find this Video Offensive) That cut ass most likely saved their asses in the future from being hoes and strippers. I commend the daddy for bringing his daughters in line. That cut hip wasn't abuse. The reason why the black community is what it is because of no daddy in the homes to discipline the children. Only left with the mother. Children in black homes with good father figures always turn out well and disciplined than those without fathers. If my daughters get outta line believe me their asses will see that belt. |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 35941980 Bahamas 03/31/2013 01:57 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Re: Father punishes daughters after finding out they put a twerk video on facebook. (Some may find this Video Offensive) You have all failed to research! Quoting: Anonymous Coward 30075865 This man was arrested for child abuse in Chicago! The crime the children committed, was failing to make this mans dinner when he came home (btw - he was unemployed)! This type of so called discipline in this family occurred all the time too! I suppose according to all the posts here that this man is a hero that looks out after his family and should be free from prosecution too - RIGHT!!! Now if that's true then I change my position. |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 33753048 United States 03/31/2013 02:02 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Re: Father punishes daughters after finding out they put a twerk video on facebook. (Some may find this Video Offensive) You have all failed to research! Quoting: Anonymous Coward 30075865 This man was arrested for child abuse in Chicago! The crime the children committed, was failing to make this mans dinner when he came home (btw - he was unemployed)! This type of so called discipline in this family occurred all the time too! I suppose according to all the posts here that this man is a hero that looks out after his family and should be free from prosecution too - RIGHT!!! Now if that's true then I change my position. I "think" it is bullshit but I am waiting for a link. |
Don't Tread On MG User ID: 34994001 United States 03/31/2013 02:03 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Re: Father punishes daughters after finding out they put a twerk video on facebook. (Some may find this Video Offensive) Anger does not justify abuse. He should have found another way...there are a million other healthy options. He was just embarrassed....pure ego b.s. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 36928750 This. Violent abusers are motivated by their own intolerably painful shame. Probably they did nothing to deserve being sevetely shamed ad children. Just born into families of injured people. Agreed. & way to be a positive male role model in these young girls lives, who are blasted with sexual imagery on a daily basis. Imagery that permeates the subconscious leaving most women vulnerable to the desires of perverse, demonizing acts in order for social acceptance. Yes, I'm sure beating their asses with a cord while calling them a "motherfucker" will show them how you're just angry out of love. Not pride, not spite, but love. I got the belt plenty when I was young. I was, however, never called a motherfucker or anyone vile name. I was sat down, talked to, and had the spanking explained to me. I then knew to never do it again. "Twerking" is a part of hiphop, rap culture...which is mostly enjoyed by black people. & judging by the way this man chooses to punish his children, his inflection in which he speaks, and the jargon he uses, it is safe to say that he too is most likely submerged himself into this culture. The result being, his daughters actions are most likely a symptoms of a culture he embraces. Making him none other than an ignorant, temperamental hypocrite. You assume quite a bit...maybe he is a "dad" who gives a damn about the well-being of his daughters. Yeah, I could picture him thinking in his head that he cared so much about them as he yelled motherfucker at them. Whether enraged or not, he should of taken a fucking breather before he went in there videotaping his ego for the world to see. |
eatinmraw User ID: 13951732 United States 03/31/2013 02:05 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Re: Father punishes daughters after finding out they put a twerk video on facebook. (Some may find this Video Offensive) i read many of the comments before watchin the video just to see. i figured those yelling about abuse were just the usual whiners on here that sound like they live or want to live in hippie communes. so after finally watchin the video i'd have to say the punishment was not proper. there's no good lesson to be learned by the girls when they're chased by what looks like an out of control adult whipping around what looks like an electrical cord or rope. i only watched it once and i believe the second girl was gettin hit in the face a few times. that whipping instrument will leave scars on faces and other areas of the body that could mentally scare the girls for life. how do they go about life and explain why they have scars on their faces or other exposed parts of their bodies? many muslim men as well as other male dominated cultures love that kind of shit and we've probably all seen pictures and videos of horribly scarred girls in them. they do it for family dignity and shame without any care of whether the punished have any respect towards them or learn a lesson from it. i know it's not exactly the same punishment here, but now these girls may have lost complete respect for the adult. i don't know for sure, but i'm feelin like maybe he was punishing them more for him than to really teach the girls a lesson. any thought of those girls went out the door when he rapped the cord or rope around his hand and then flew into an uncontrolled rage and went for the face. with him bein so cold and totally out of control during the beating, the girls really only learned about pain delivered by an out of control person they love/d, resentment and fear. respect through fear is just not the same respect learned through a more controlled punishment. i'm not sayin they should not have received some form of corporal punishment, but how this adult went about it just ruined much of whatever good relationship he had with the girls. i wish we had a way to keep track of these girls over the next 5-10 years and see how they fare. You're absolutely delusional or intentionally being hateful, anyone with any knowledge of Islam or Muslims can tell you there's nothing Islamic about beating your children, your wife or anyone else. It's amazing how obsessed ignorant bigots have become with Islam, they're too ignorant to read and learn about it for themselves or just too stupid and believe practically anything other hypocritical bigots say; who also seriously lack any real factual knowledge or understanding on the subject of Islam, the Arabic language and Muslims. If that were the case, Christian men would certainly LIFE for beating their wives and sleeping with their children if they literally practiced the Bible but it's not. Domestic violence exists in all cultures and religions, notice those two are divided as Islam is not a culture it is a religion. Take a look at the domestic violence compared to predominately Muslim countries. The US far outweighs many Muslim countries combined on rape, sexual assault, domestic violence, murder. So it'd seem your men are the leading examples of domestic violence and violence against women, but I'm sure they don't "love" to do it like those evil Muslims. By the way, studies on the honor killings you're discussing shows that Christians and Hindus outnumber Muslim honor killings usually 3 to 1 depending on the area. Neither of these religions condone such behavior and neither does Islam. permanent facial disfigurement IS predominately a middle eastern and sub asian country punishment for females that is meted out to save the family name. you can bring other forms of violence against women into the conversation if you want AND i have no good explanation why anyone would want to do that to others too. but with islam or hinduism supposedly bein religions of peace...i am also perplexed as to why that type of punishment and dominance over females is ever condoned. i also don't give a rats ass or have any real respect towards islam OR any other form of organized religion. anyone that needs to be told how, when or why to do something written in books by domineering men i'll never understand anyway. that's okay though, as nothing in your religion or any others holds sway over how i act or react in any situation in my life. amazingly enough, i've found that i practice 6 out of the 10 commandments even though i never had any religious person command me to. i find myself automatically practicin 5-10 but do not follow 1-4 as they're just fantasy. i also don't beat my wife, kids or grandkids for going against my wishes or for not following any religious dogma that you and others prescribe to. i just never found myself bein so weak that i need others to continually pound their beliefs into my head in order to raise my own or live my life. i do wonder however...are the christian and hindu honor killings combined or do they still out number muslim honor killings individually? Also...of these christian and hindu honor killings how many are in the western world and how many are in the middle east and/or asian/sub asian countries? I still find it amusing how the religiously slanted get all bent out of shape when they see assumptions made against them and/or their religions yet go about name callin and assumin about the person they're angry at. go outside, take a deep breath, look at the early spring flowers and watch the birds fly by. let the world and it's beauty be your religion and let go of the anger that fake/fantasy books have instilled in you. |
eatinmraw User ID: 13951732 United States 03/31/2013 02:07 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Re: Father punishes daughters after finding out they put a twerk video on facebook. (Some may find this Video Offensive) wow what a bunch of hypocrites Quoting: Anonymous Coward 36856980 theres constantly threads about young black youths being gangbangers or assaulting someone or just acting like total idiots then this vid of a parent ACTUALLY disciplining their kid comes out and you all groan about it Damned if you do, damned if you don't You can't discipline your child and then you wonder why blk kids are running around wild. did it ever occur that he's beating their ass so they dont grow up to be lashawnda at MCD's or this! so then, you're puttin gang bangin and assault in the same category as a shakin your ass video? ooookaaaay. |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 28678242 United States 03/31/2013 02:09 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Re: Father punishes daughters after finding out they put a twerk video on facebook. (Some may find this Video Offensive) You have all failed to research! Quoting: Anonymous Coward 30075865 This man was arrested for child abuse in Chicago! The crime the children committed, was failing to make this mans dinner when he came home (btw - he was unemployed)! This type of so called discipline in this family occurred all the time too! I suppose according to all the posts here that this man is a hero that looks out after his family and should be free from prosecution too - RIGHT!!! Now if that's true then I change my position. Its called little man syndrome. They are a failure in life so they take it out on people that is weaker than he and has some power over.My dad always said that ass was meant for an ass whooping when you got out of line and thats the only place we were ever hit when it came to punishment.There is a way to administer punishment and it should never be done when someone is a mad as he is in that video.He is lashing those girls like they use to do cattle.Someone needs to show him how that feels. |
starbattle User ID: 883251 United States 03/31/2013 02:10 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Re: Father punishes daughters after finding out they put a twerk video on facebook. (Some may find this Video Offensive) This is bullshit. If you beat some arsehole who's pissing you off you get charged with assault, but somehow you all think that because it's your child it's acceptable? Beating another adult is wrong but beating your child is fine? Wtf? He's obviously a shit parent, if he'd raised them right and taught them self respect they wouldn't have done it in first place, then he compounds his shitty parenting by lashing out with violence. Quoting: ming ... Betcha you're not an actual parent are you? So, being a parent involves periodically beating up your child? |
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Anonymous Coward User ID: 35948338 United States 03/31/2013 02:12 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Re: Father punishes daughters after finding out they put a twerk video on facebook. (Some may find this Video Offensive) yeah, lets beat these little whippersnappers Seriously, are you people all over 80? This is a failure at parenting, it's not something to be lauded If you have to beat your kids when they're 14, 15, 16 and up, you have failed them as a parent. They're almost adults at that point. You should be beating yourselves. |
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Anonymous Coward User ID: 25786721 United States 03/31/2013 02:26 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Re: Father punishes daughters after finding out they put a twerk video on facebook. (Some may find this Video Offensive) Oh for chrissakes you fucking libtards this is not child abuse, it's called 'corporal punishment'. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 1721958 If he beat them all the time just for the hell of it, then it would be child abuse. My hats off to this gentleman, he should win' father of the year'. Betch'ya those ho's don't go postin' no mo twerk videos. it is child abuse, and more than that, didnt you hear him calling the kids bitches and Fu$% you! Corporal punishment was old school and speaking of which, it was back when the school principle had paddles to spank kids. Would you be ok with this ass hole beating your child this way? I didnt think so now go and leave the human race. YES I WOULD!!!I am 38 yo grew up in a very small town in central Iowa.The K-12 school I went to had 380 total students.The principal had in his window a hickory paddle that every person either coming in or out of the school had to walk by.everyone's parent in that school signed a waiver giving the principle full authority to beat the behinds of any kid in that school from 7-17 and old spanky only got used less than 2 times a year.The fear of having it leaving you sleeping on your stomach for a week was more than enough to not fuck up past a warning..All you bleeding hearts who hated your dad because he didn't let you become a bunch of truck stop horrors and now are letting your females run wild in the streets,was your upbringing so fucking bad??I wouldn't trade my childhood for anything resembling what you .'..upset I want to be your friend not your parent evolved and cultured parents consider parenting today are proud of.think about society then and now...but I am sure if you just talk to them like adults the behavior will do an 180..please revolution God..HURRY!!!!!!!!!! |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 37102563 United Kingdom 03/31/2013 02:28 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Re: Father punishes daughters after finding out they put a twerk video on facebook. (Some may find this Video Offensive) Fucking pigs.. The lot of them.. I hope they have a casket in one of those FEMA camps waiting for them! LOL gross.. I think i'll stay celibate for a while longer Celibacy seems to be a curse of most GLPers! Most women (but not all) seem to give more of a shit about "the big house", "the fancy car", "their makeup and clothes" etc etc, Than the real world that we seem to be so interested in! Computer says compatibility denied!!! |
eatinmraw User ID: 13951732 United States 03/31/2013 02:38 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Re: Father punishes daughters after finding out they put a twerk video on facebook. (Some may find this Video Offensive) CPS advice on corporal punishment is that it be done over the clothing, with an open hand only, on the bum, without causing physical marks or injury, without excessive force, and only at the age at which it is effective - you are not to use any objects such as whips, paddles, boards, rods, switches, etc. These cause welts and cuts and bruises and are forbidden. These girls are not only a bit too old to be using corporal punishment on as a tool - they have brains, after all - and what he did was not only emotionally traumatizing and terrifying for them, but it was physically damaging and therefore falls under the definition of abuse. I do not disagree with his feelings as a parent over what they did, but the actual outcome of it will not benefit him, or the girls in the best way. Quoting: Geo777 it's to bad as they will now solve wrongs done to them by others with an ass whoopin too. all emotional animal instinct without a thought of how all involved will feel later. |