Tell me why you are single

So much whining.

Funny how guys don't like being objectified.

Go figure...lol

I simply can not find a woman I can actually fall in love with.. I am 45 and I got tired of women 10 yrs ago.. Plenty of women like me, but I simply can't fall in love.. My ex ruined the whole concept of love for me I guess...

OP is most likely a demon

You are awesome.

I don't have what it takes to give,to make a relationship work.

Well, in my case, I'm simply too ugly to attract anyone. Not even women who are ugly themselves want me.

Plus, I have a disability, and that seems to be the kiss of death where trying to form relationships is concerned.

So much for the idea that love exists. I'd love to be proven wrong on that score, but I know I never will be.

In a funny and twisted way it is probably a blessing for short men that women don't want them bwahahahaha!!

In the modern world, I was never going to be a "great catch". I have remained single due to early emotional scarring - normal male personality shortcomings. I figured out the following and abandoned hope - with the occasional slip-up....

I can not fathom why ANY man is suckered into marriage when the cards are so heavily stacked against him; let alone bringing kids into the world!

A man "pear bonds" through sex. Women look for a provider, and need to procreate for six months to two years, after which the discontent / selfish / promiscuous gene kicks in.

A single woman with another man's child is an even bigger liability, and even larger, more complex, and dangerous emotional gamble (or just easy for sex).

For women, modern life means simple survival is relatively easy with either the state or wage garnishment to support child and mother.

Women are programmed to keep men tantalised with a combination of sex and emotional blackmail, and will play to men's weaknesses.

Decent women find a good partner and stick with them. The many emotional parasites spread their drama and sex far and wide. On the other hand the good looking "alpha male" also spreads his chaos far and wide.

The rest (male and female)are emotionally crippled by their genetic programming which is not fit for purpose in modern life.

We all have fantasy perfect soul mates, reality will never fit expectation in our modern overstimulated world.

Men become jaded realising they are better off finding sex without emotional emasculation - or managing without.

Women generally become child bound, bonding to their offspring while striving to find a provider. The state being the provider of last resort.

Millennia of genetic programming has been destroyed by modern life, where only money speaks, and fulfils the necessary requirements.

mid-40s female
single 4+ years

Men become clingy, controlling drama queens when they get older, full of expectations and insecurities... kinda like teenage girls.

It's just easier to be single.

The modern world places much too high an emphasis on physical beauty. But those who are truly beautiful see inner beauty as well. Blessings to you in our superficial society. And may you find love for yourself and with another.

Not you again. I recognize the bwahahahaha.

the bwahahahaha is my signature; I am the nobody.

But all kidding aside, don't you think short men are blessed because women don't want anything to do with them? bwahahaha!

Not really. Short American guys are absolutely scorned by women. It goes beyond relationships and sex. The only exception might be if he looked like Micheal J. Fox in his prime and had significant wealth.

i do not know why either

nothing personal

just trolling

Yeah that is what I am saying. If women wanted short men then short men would have to deal with the female wrath. Since women shun short men, short men are spared. the tall guys gotta deal with their shit bwahahahahahaha!!

Poor, short, sensitive, nerdy, and nice. The main reasons why any man is single. The only thing I got going for me is that I'm good looking but only in a cute, adorable way. Im 24 but look 16 to 20 years old depending if i shave or not. Had a few girlfriends, most were emotionally dependent on me because of the mental abuse they had in the past. Those were very draining relationships. A few of them cheated on me, mostly with ex boyfriends. The constant txting was a sign of cheating like AC said before. Now I find it hard to fall in love now and I fear my heart has grown cold. I've dated some nice girls, but one was way too submissive and the last one i dated I couldnt really open my heart to even though we had a lot in common. Really don't know what I want now. I don't wanna be alone but I don't wanna give my heart away again either. I also feel so detached from modern society that it will be hard to find someone to melt my heart and spark my interest. I guess I want too much.

5'6''

You want to hear how dumb women are? So obviously I am a short male, I am 5'5". You want to here the #1 reason women give me as to why my being short is a problem? They say, even though they are shorter than me, usually 5'0" through 5'3", if they wear heals they will be either taller than me or just too close to my height. They are telling me that because of a heal they are willing to alter their entire future and not date me bwahahahahaha, and they actually say it with a straight face as if this is a great answer. I don't know what is worse, being told I am not tall that simply that is not attractive, or being bumped aside because of an inanimate object, the heal. That would be like me telling a chick I am sorry, your hair and eye color don't match the drapes in my living room so you are out bwahahahahahaha!!

Yes. I heard that before. The shithead AC35 in the other topic writes that her husband is a little taller than she is. She's probably 5'10 and he 6'1", that's my guess. Females come into these topics and exaggerate, leave out facts that expose them as liars and blame guys for everything.

Rule #1....all sex is by permission...women control all the sex...

Rule #2....If you marry them they now have control of all the sex....and your entire financial future...

Rule #3....In a divorce they get half without a fight...the fight will be for the half that's left and they will get half of that...


ONLY Idiots & women get married today..

Because...
A) I'm a computer engineer.
B) Full time job.
C) CmpE program was full of dudes ... fml
D) No addictions , no smoking or drinking ( No bars)

Because people(both genders) are scum. Take, take, take and gove nothing in return until the well runs dry.

Stupidity, selfishness and disloyalty are the order of the day. Just try amd carry on an intelligent conversation with someone these days. Make an intuitive leap and they look at you like you suddenly switched to German mid-sentence. Make a mistake and watch them leave your ass out in the rain after proclaiming themselves your "BFF".

Got wrecked in my marriage and, after 17+ years(my entire adult life) was crippled emotionally, mentally and financially post divorce. Found out I had zero social skills in this "brave new world" we live in these days.

because i want to be.. dating generaly doesn't appeal to me at all .plus , i don't like dating just anyone,
there's only one person in the world i'd consider having a relationship with and they aren't available so neither am i.

at the same time i'm not stubburn and closed to new things and allowing fate to flow freeley and open new doors.
and at the same time, i don't want to just rush into things
in the name of health normalacy and "what's right and expected" and rob myself of my true destiny.

Yep...that was my douchebag ex.....a freaking teenage girl. Wtf?

I second that!

And well said :)

well:

-there's not a high standard anymore..or any for tht matter
-guitarbuilder,veternarian,fulltime musician
-it takes time
-and i'm not in the mood for another person in my life, first need to find myself

I find that most women are as shallow as most men. One word answers to simple open ended questions turn me off. They spend more time on trying to find men that will carry them through life and therefore don't develop into the person that they truly could be.
So, I usually get bored and walk away.

A relationship would just mess up my sweet life.

I am a simple woman, and live a good life.