My Girlfriend Left Me for another Man. What should I do?

Sounds as if you both were not meant to be together. You freely admit you did not treat her well and were bored and took her for granted. This is your problem that you need to work on. She left for another man, so she was not 100 percent into you either or she would not have left. It appears that neither of you were ready for a commitment. Just be happy you were never married and move on. Fix your problems before you get into a new relationship, but dont try to get this old GF back, it will not work out and you would never trust her again and she will never respect you again. I agree with another poster, if you were bored, it came from within.

Send him a 'thank you' note and a bottle of Jack. He'll probably need it.

Imagine her getting fucked by someone else.

Imagine her cries of delight, being given to her by another man.


Then get on with your life.

bang her mom

celebrate. NEXT

get a new stripper girlfriend !

She could have been planning to leave for years then, for all you know.

Consider yourself lucky - seems this chick was only hanging around for something better to come along.

Whatever you do, don't compare the new girls you meet to her. First off, you'll end up repeating the same patter, and second you'll likely look for where they fall short.

Also be sure you REALLY miss her, or that you just miss the security of the relationship and had neglected the rest of your social life in the meantime and are now just seeing the consequences of that.

forget it, you will be better off.

You just miss her because you want what you can't have now.

In actuality you really don't give a shit about her and will soon forget her once some other piece of ass strolls by.

OP. Pull your head out of your ass! You fucked it up! You don't love her and you know it. You're just desperate and just miss the sex and all the shit she did for you...that you're spoiled little ass didn't deserve. SHe's lookinf for a real man to to spend her energy on...someone that gives back atleast soem of what she gives! You're a user/loser.

Get over your stupidity, learn from it and move on. It's too late now. You had your chance...you just plain "pissed" it all away. Do you actually believe everything in this world is FREE and requires NO EFFORT on your part? Yes? Ok, well then here is "YOUR REALITY" now. Get used to it...after-all you earned it.

I can only speak for myself, but I cannot stand to be proposed to every single week by the same guy I keep saying "no" to.

Every week he thinks my answer might change.. and it won't. NO WAY to I want to be his "partner" but he goes on and on and won't accept my answer.

It's as if he thinks.. "well if there's no one else why NOT?"


ARRRRGGHHH!!

The answer was NO the first time and will always be NO!!

On the other hand.. if you say something like.. "we COULD get married" and she doesn't say no, or respond to that.. it doesn't mean no.. it means.. I'm not ready for that now, or you're not really asking you're just setting up a possible scenario."

maybe she has to get used to the idea.

I'm just saying.. it's all very subtle and difficult to comprehend.

D ate her best friend!

in all honesty let her go and find a new woman. you fucked up, learn, and now find a better girl which there are. if your old girl comes back, she comes back

i know sometimes we need to hear opinions, but the truth decisions must come inside of you. Look deep in you and answer this quetion: do i love her? do i imagine being happy and love her for many years? if your answer is yes, i think you should fight for her and bring her back to your arms. ok, you've just realized that you love her after she leaving, but sometimes it's like that, you just have to go and clear your mistake. if you love her, call her and try to conquest her heart again. try to go out for a last talk :) :peace:

good luck

I have been through simalar situations and i think the only way you can move on is by finding someone elso to hang out with. It is very difficult to deal with. It may just be a test to see how much you really love her if you keep calling her she may feel sorry for you as we are all human beings and have a heart. Sometimes you have to fight for what you want. You appreciate it better when you get it. On the other hand she may have just found the perfect person she was looking for all her life and may never come back. She will try to avoid you because she feels guilty for what she has done but cannot face you because she wants her new life.

Find a hot Babe that makes your girlfriend look like 100 pounds of ugly.

Unfortunately that is a true statement. I should know...it happened to me.

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If your girl leaves you for another guy, you have to thank God that it happened now. Imagine getting married to something like that and all the crap you'd have to deal with to get out of the marriage. I've seen too many guys have to deal with financial ruin because the skank they hooked up with and married turned out to be the kid of floosie that would run around behind his back and hook up with some joker who told her everything she wanted to hear.

Believe this, the grass isn't greener on the other side. That's why so many people get in "rebound relationships" with the same partner. The woman thinks she has it so bad with the guy she's currently with that she goes out and has an affair, or cheats with a guy who ultimately finds out that she's not a keeper anyhow! So she runs back to what she know and the poor chump who was cheated on takes her back because the low self esteem she caused him makes him feel like he needs her in his life...... what a sorry scenario.

If you're in a relationship with a girl like that....RUN!!!! Do NOT take her back. Do not respond to anything she asks of you.....no texts messages, no voicemails, no emails...NOTHING. If you do, she labels you as a CHUMP who she can have as her fallback whenever she feels the need to try some other guy on for size.

What you're feeling is a void. She wasn't as great as you have built her up to be in your head. Remember everything she did to you? Remember how she broke you apart without any consideration for your feeling? Remember how cold she was about it?

She wasn't the one. You'll find it if you can get rid of this disaster of a woman. Only then will you know what true happiness and a blissful relationship really is. Been there, done that. In time, she'll be the one on her knees begging. She'll realize what she had in you and that you were a better catch than anything else she'll find.

write the new man a thank you note, he did you a huge favor...

Because she could have left you for another man after you had 10 kids and you would be paying every penny you make in child support and spousal support for the next 18 years.

Then write your ex a letter and thank her for having enough respect for you to tell you straight, instead of leading you on forever and wasting your time and hers...

Last Edited by B-Flat on 04/10/2010 12:50 PM

THEN QUIT BITCHING AND MOVE ON

You dont love her, if you did she wouldnt have left, your ego is hurt becuase someone else is making her happy. You would have made her happy and she wouldnt have left if you loved her. Grow up and move on.

I will say the same for this situaton. If you loved her, you would have kept her, but you didn't. Move on

Invite some friends to watch sport with beaz and stuff and feet on table and burb and fart.
That´s my fantasy whem I would be a guy.

ones shes gone with another man i will never bring her back.

Take it as a blessings in disguise and move on. Likely, you may meet someone else new and feel better, and perhaps, a much better life! All the very best.

lock and load mother fucker.. you know what needs to be done..

don't call or text...write your thoughts down on paper and mail her a letter so she can read it over and over in the letter apologize to her and promise to change(a change for the better!... try hard)...men take women for granted sometime also send her favorite flowers to her...and don't forget a christmas card and a gift of maybe jewelry...like a heart locket(if the new beau gets her nothing for christmas your 1 pt. up!)Good luck kiddo...also get a chinese horoscope book it will teach you what girl you'll be most compatible with if you date again...My husband treated me really bad for 20 yrs. because he didn't like our home and wanted to move back to his county...i should have ended it a long time ago.

you know what they say...absence makes the heart grow fonder...

Wouldnt that be considered thirds?