My narcissistic mother has ruined my life. | |
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Anonymous Coward (OP) User ID: 25530521 United States 02/05/2014 01:34 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | No not a drunk but very very self centered, doesn't give a shit about me ( her daughters feelings). Lies about things like she told everyone that I won;t let her see her grandson, when in fact the truth is I have asked her many many times to come see us and she wont, she lives 45 minutes away. She hasn't seen her grandson who is handicapped in over 4 yrs. |
Rawrss User ID: 28866057 United States 02/05/2014 01:35 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | She has lied to all my siblings about what I have said to her, now I'm hated by the my brothers and sister and nieces and nephews. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 25530521 This is what they do, they are experts at it Luke 6:22 Blessed are ye, when men shall hate you, and when they shall separate you from their company, and shall reproach you, and cast out your name as evil, for the Son of man's sake. |
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Phennommennonn Forum Administrator 02/05/2014 01:43 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | She has lied to all my siblings about what I have said to her, now I'm hated by the my brothers and sister and nieces and nephews. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 25530521 admit it op, ur an oedipus wreck political correctness is a doctrine.... fostered by a delusional, illogical minority...... and rabidly promoted by an unscrupulous mainstream media; which holds forth the proposition that it is entirely possible to pick up a turd by the clean end. |
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Anonymous Coward User ID: 37746843 United States 02/05/2014 05:56 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Do like my Mom did once and take out a front page out in the local paper asking people for tips on who your biological father is....on second thought, don't. Or, you could invite the entire familv for a group therapy session with a family counselor or minister. A cookout with shooting also works well. |
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Anonymous Coward User ID: 51532225 United Kingdom 02/05/2014 06:02 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | You need to take responsibility for your life and not blame how you feel on others. That only makes you a narcissist yourself. You need to set boundaries and stop pointing fingers after that. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 20246011 ^^Spoken by someone who clearly hasn't been through such shit, OR spoken by an actual narcissist. Emotionally unhinged parents cause more damage to their offspring than you would care to believe. Yes, it's appropriate to take responsibility for your life, but easier said than done when you are so screwed up that you can't function normally. |
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Apocalypse Troll Trollicus Apocalyptus User ID: 19827255 United States 02/05/2014 06:04 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Then you can say "Fuck you mom" in front of them, give her the finger, and storm off dramatically. (Film that too, and post it so we can all make fun of your mom.) "Honor the Texas flag; I pledge allegiance to thee, Texas, one state under God, one and indivisible." [link to www.statutes.legis.state.tx.us] |
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Anonymous Coward User ID: 53470668 02/05/2014 06:08 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | [link to outofthefog.net] a great support forum where you will find validation and support as well as great info on recovery steps. Sounds like you have been the chosen family scapegoat to be painted black but she will choose a new target if you are now out of the picture. In time your sibs and family members may wake up and see her for who she really is but that is up to them, nothing you can do about that for now except get on with your own life. Easier said than done I know but one step at a time. Check out these articles on a borderline disordered mother's effects on her offspring:- [link to www.mentalhelp.net] [link to www.mentalhelp.net] [link to www.mentalhelp.net] Sorry you are facing this. |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 6671871 United States 02/05/2014 06:09 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | You need to take responsibility for your life and not blame how you feel on others. That only makes you a narcissist yourself. You need to set boundaries and stop pointing fingers after that. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 20246011 No, thats not what a narcissist is. Opie doesn't become a narcissist hy accusing her mother. It is hugely painful to have a narcissist mother. If you cant be supportive please shut your mouth, refrain from typing, and leave the thread. |
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