I'm making my daughter move out of the house because she's acting like a prostitute.

I'm pretty sure that putting her out of your house is not going to help her in any way, -though it might make you feel better. How does your wife feel about this? I think that you and your wife are allowed to make the rules, since you pay the bills. If she wants to live there, she has to follow your rules about visitors.

I have 3 daughters, and each one is very different from their sisters. I brought them up with love and taught them a lot of common sense. Other than that, I didn't restrict them much and showed them I trusted them not to mess up, -even when they sometimes abused the privilege. One of them, in senior year of high school, has a boyfriend and sex, (which is not unusual), -and she's been responsible about it. I'm not very worried about her, because I know she has common sense. She knows what the repercussions of getting pregnant would be for her.

I don't know how you brought up your daughter, -how much about life and the value of quality relationships you've explained to her. Off hand, I'm more worried that she hasn't had a sustained relationship, rather than a lot of short-term sexual interludes, than I am about her sexual preferences. Most women have sex within a stable relationship, rather than having short-term relationships in order to have sex.

Although she would reject any suggestion from you to see a counselor, that is probably just what she could most benefit from. You could frame it in a way that shows you don't necessarily see anything wrong with her, but that since her lifestyle is unusual, she could benefit from discussing it privately with someone. You could offer to pay for regular sessions and explain that you wouldn't know anything about what is talked about.

Why no story about her mother?

throw her out

No matter what you think of her silly behavior now, OP, keep these things in mind:

Our society gets more dangerous for the young and stupid every day. She is a girl? Is she white? Is she pretty? Triple the danger. There are worse predators out there than those two boyfriends you caught with her.

If your kid is living in your house, she doesn't have another place to go already lined up, does she? Has she a job? Money in the bank? A school dorm room ready? If you put her out on the streets, she could end up a crime victim very quickly - as in dead. Did you think of that? Of course you didn't. Men almost never do, unless they're cops.

She can go to the cops and then to a lawyer and sue your idiot ass for endangering her life, and I promise you she will be advised to do so. You cannot legally throw her out with no notice and no time to get a place. Even if she were not your flesh and blood and you let her live with you, depending on state, for over 90 days, you still cannot do that without a court order! Moran!

I hope she sues your pants off, not because I approve of her behavior, which I don't, but because your stupidity and lack of caring deserves to be punished. If anything unpleasant happens to her, she'll never forgive you - kids never do forgive something like that - and when you're old and nobody gives a fuck about you but your child - over 90% of children caring for a parent full time in the USA are women - you're going to regret it.

You can argue, fight and make rules and that's okay, no hard feelings, but you will never live down throwing her out on the streets. She will spit in your eye when you're old and weak and sitting in your own piss helpless.

shut up you liberal freeloader piece of shit, if she is 18yo or over she can hit the road and nothing happens

I think job 1 if I walked into that, would be to grab the two guys by the hair and drag their asses out of the house (hopefully naked as well) and introduce their nads to my boot.

As for the girl, once word got around, I MIGHT not have the problem anymore.

So you snuck into her room.. found her in bed naked with two guys & you kick 'her' out of the house.?

You could have put an end to the whole thing by simply zip-stripping the guys to the headboard..

A few hours of 'Old-school' intimidation & the 'hardy-boiz' would'a spread that around campus faster then she could spread her legs.

You're not very good at this are you..?

OP WAS CUCKED BY HIS DAUGHTER!!!

Cash me outside Dad?

Ahh.. the good ol'daze. I used to sit out on the front porch & when the boyfriend dropped my daughter off, my wife would yell 'Don't kill him..'

OP, you got any pics?

I may need a roommate.

THIS!

PERIOD!

I'm a mother and would never do that to my children, sons or daughters, relatives, even our boarder.

Talk, yes! Argue even. Yes! But endanger their lives or make them homeless?

Would die first.



Prayer works by the way. We have never had a problem, where prayer did not have results. They didn't always seem like a miracle, some where immediate, next day melt downs and intense escalation, which then resolved the entire situation and the person got help, willingly, and the prayer was answered.

So it often gets worse and melts down, but then the good happens.

Never give up on anyone. Especially family. And start to listen, understanding, not approving, but finding out what makes her tick inside, what she likes, who she follows, what influences her, what does she dream of?

Good luck!

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IN BED NAKED UNDER HER FATHER'S ROOF WITH TWO MEN IN THE BED WITH HER?

Boy let me tell you something. I know a little girls ass that would have been wore out. If I was you, there would have been a triple ass whoopin' so bad.... oh, god.

I'm so glad I don't have children.

I've seen people I knew since they were small children turn into absolute beasts in college.

It didn't seem to matter how well raised they were in good intact families.

One sweet little girl who used to play around my house became a stripper, prostitute, and drug fiend.

One girl, with very conservative parents went through a phase like that, and the last I heard of her she said she was cutting off all contact with her family because they were Trump supporters.

Lost to humanity.

The brainwashing power of colleges could make the devil jealous.

If she's 18 or older, OP can do whatever the fuck he wants to. I guarantee the daughter uses that same excuse for doing what she wants...."I'm 18 dad, I can run a train in my room if I want. I'm a grown ass woman."

Not and be human. Demons can harm their children. But you wouldn't harm any relative at any age any time ever.

You have something wrong with you, and need to start to wisen up, help others, listen to them and gain some love and wisdom. Thats negative energy, and I felt it. You have to heal it and actually live to help others. Thats the whole purpose of earth tests.

Last Edited by Sungaze_At_Dawn on 05/19/2017 11:46 PM

hope you got good health insurance to pay for all the penicillin and the like.

kick her out.

my parents tried to kick me out, but out of pride, i beat them to the punchline and did it my way.

never asked a penny from them, slept in my car, learned strength. figure it out

now we are cool.

and we laugh about it.

Wrong! Even in Canada, I bet there's a case a day of innocent and unsuspecting property-owners and lease-holders who discover to their horror that they can't just throw somebody out who has been living in their home - unless they can show possible threat to their persons or property requiring forcible eviction.

And you're always expected to call the cops if you needed to use force. OP can certainly throw out his daughter's 'guests,' but not her too.

I didn't say I thought this was always a 'fair' arrangement, I just happen to know how the law can work against you, even if you're 'in the right.' You can't even evict a real 'freeloader,' who isn't related to you at all, just on a sudden whim. And don't you all have Twinkletoes Trudeau now? Canada must be freeloader heaven. :)

I would have been EXTREMELY upset too, but I wouldn't kick her out.

Don't turn your back on your daughter OP. Find another way to get your point across.

Yep, plus the girl isn't going to move out. These Millennials can't take care of themselves.

If all the Millennial parent threw out their hooker daughters and girly sons, our welfare system would be over run with crying kids who need EBT to full up their baby bottles.

The gift of feminism that removes the parenting responsibility and instead has the educational system coddle the little snowflake tykes with coloring books and safe spaces.

On the plus side, maybe these adult infants will get a dose of reality and shut their rat traps.

Prostitutes get paid, she's being a whore.

Yeah, yeah..typo. Too tired to care more than that.

Demons fuck 2 dudes in their parent's house.

You fit the liberal agenda mold. OP's daughter is the one acting out of line and you act like she is the victim. There are repercussions for doing things and OP's daughter will experience that and hopefully learn from it.

People like you are the reason Muslims are raping women and blacks are calling racism on everything.

Throwing her out isn't turning your back. It is removing that stuff from your house. I'm sure OP still loves his daughter, but would you want that stuff going on in your house?

Set boundaries and enforce them. Not a good idea to kick her out. She'll be worse off on her own. At least you can offer her personal protection.

Stop partying with her and her friends if you do. And no overnight flings for you if you have various people over.

In closing, strangers spending the night with you not meeting them first in your house is simply not safe. You should know who will be spending the night in your house. It's not normal not to know.

OP, very simple, you did the right thing.

1. She lives at home rent free (free money).
2. She takes on student debt (free money).
3. She may even work a bith (additional money).

This is a life she would never live without your support.

The government is giving her free money to do whatever she wants and you have to compete against it.

Quit paying for anything and kick her out of the house, let her hit rock bottom, and once she hits rock bottom, to call you, because you love her and want to help her.

Then, pack her bags, and leave them at the front door.

When she calls you, tell her she had one chance to learn the difference between right and wrong, and you already gave it to her.

She'll learn very quickly.

It takes more to raise daughters than sons.

Relax pops.

No, I wouldn't tolerate it either, but i'd find another way to enforce the rules.

Noone is talking about landlord tenant laws here moron, its pretty easy to make it uncomfortable for your kid to stay at home and they will leave willingly, now I don't know ops exact situation but id throw some ass whoppin on the 2 mutts that she dragged home and give the daughter an ear full