Why are YOUNG women so superficial/shallow?

They are spoiled by the media (sitcoms, reality shows, magazines, internet etc. ...TV in general)

they think that men have to live up to those unrealistic shows, and they love the drama of those shows. they think the unrealistic world is the real world. they've lost their sense for reality. they think it should be like in those tv shows and men should be as perfect as those in the media; but this can never happen because it is fictional...not real.

btw: i'm form europe

*yawn*

Most people are shallow and superficial and always have been.

The fact that you refer to only young women shows how shallow you are.

They've been hypnotized stupid-tv, music, expensive stylish clothes, stupid airhead mags, stupid waste of time schools where you have a conglomeration of idiocy, brain damaging cell phones, peer pressure to do stupid things, shopping malls, lack of exercise, poor nutrition, stupid airhead fashionable freinds, mercury and fluoride to name but a few. The point is the focus is on stupid and how to achieve it-a lot of thought went into achieving stupid, but not by them.

This thread has violated a GLP term and condition...

No generalizations.

I thank you.

Instead of posting all these stupid asshole whiney "boo hoo, women evyyyyyyyylllllllll" threads, why do you get off the computer and find a bathhouse where thousands of men just like you want their pole smoked. Get your queer angst out somewhere else. Fucktard loser.

The fact is that especially young women tend to be like that. Older women not so much; since they grew up differently.

Because all they want to do is suck cock

instead of trolling and insulting...why not answer the question BITCH?!

For the same reason that men are?

There are alot of shallow people of both genders. I think TV has alot to do with it.

What was the question? I was too busy watching The Hills to notice....

I blame the Media ...

DUH! I must have hit a nerve! I'll ask critical question when ever i please to ask! You must be one of those I described

So why not answer the question TROLL?

you reading comprehension as well as your behavior and attitude sucks pretty much!

Here it is again young lady!

Why are YOUNG women so superficial/shallow?

Because they CAN be. Why don't you stop chasing them and find a WOMAN?

You're calling THAT and answer? LOL

Ok at least you admit that you are more of a pubertal childish teen than a women.

As a guy in his 20's I only chase the ones in my age group...that would be women from 18-25.

BTW: I certainly wouldn't chase YOU...your character, behavior and attitude would turn me off big time. You are probably not even slightly good or average let alone natural looking...even if so...your character would be a no go...it's not only the looks you know.

Superficiality is not exclusive to young women.
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OUCH!

they're not born that way. they just settle for the superficial in a world which has taught them that it is the best way to survive in. when they get a little older they gain wisdom. they start to be the real person they are and realise this fake stuff does not matter

it's similar for guys and their post social programing.

the first thing we are all taught in this life is to not be who we are. almost everything else we are taught afterwards is contributing to the same goal.

I'm 38.

I'm tired of old bastards that think 16 YO girls are supposed to fall in love with their hateful old ass, and that's not going to happen. In the past, when women were slaves they were forced into those types of "relationships", but it's the nature of girls to be playful.

You really need to find someone around 30 if you want to be serious. Young girls are just that, GIRLS, they haven't fully developed and like to try on different hats until they settle down. Why do you have such a problem with that?

maybe not; but it's more common.

another aspect is youth itself. young people want to have fun they do not want all this heavy "real sh*t" to pander to.

You're a child to me. I am attractive for my age. You're just pathetic in your petty insults, and you're probably not very good looking as you seem to be unable to get laid. Why else would you be here instead of cuddling with a loving woman?

It's the way the media forms their minds




It doesn't look bad, but as you start to absorb the thoughts of others as acceptable, you become what you accept.

I'm in my 20's...not what you'd consider an "old bastard". I'm tired of all this silly drama with girls my age.

Then find "girls" not your age. You're the one with the problem, obviously. It's up to you to solve the problem, not the people around you.

I am a young 23 year old women.

Why do you think I am shallow?

I was a very popular cheerleader back in high school, had a large social group, always interested in History, Physics, Mythology, Chemistry, people and their feelings.

Always was in the mood to work and have worked always, partied smoked weed and still do on weekends. Always in the mood for a concert or a nice club.

I always talked to elders, heard their voice and teachings, loved to debate more philosophical. Learned 4 languages by 11, read countless books... Went out with cute boys, and acted silly and stupid...

Isn't that just a phase we all go through in life, evolution, learning... Women and men yes it is more confusing now to discover who you really are but never the less we do as women and men.

So it is society that is making it hard to come about into adulthood as women or men, we stay confused and disoriented longer into our puberty years. But not just women also men.

Women are more shallow today about their image and relationships.

Men are more shallow about their image (behavior, beliefs), communication and fear. And mostly these label do not apply as it is individual relevant only, however these are the labels that media advertises.

A BLUNT MESSAGE TO MEN

You men were designed by God to benevolently rule the Creation. You were designed to first; rule yourselves, your lust, your covetousness and your behavior; then, having properly ruled your own lust, you were designed to benevolently rule over that which God has placed under you. However, your lust has enslaved you. Your unwillingness to abstain from your sexual desires has made you into a lower animal, a mere beast, rather than a man. Your beastly behavior has robbed you of your birthright, your honor, your power and your authority. You cannot stand on your own two feet because you have become a dog and not a man. I speak to you as a dog because you have become a dog. No dog is fit to rule God’s creation, and neither will any dog inherit the Kingdom designed for redeemed men from the foundation of the world. Your life is miserable and your culture is fallen because YOU cannot control yourself. Just once let God’s servants take control over their sexual behavior, and they will also once again be seated properly on the throne that God has provided for them. If you are a Christian, God has called you a King and a Priest of the Most High God, but you are only a King if you have properly ruled yourself. You are only a King if your subjects do not rule over you. You are only a King if you have not bought the “50-50” power-sharing lie. You are a King when you benevolently and Biblically rule over that which God has given you. Until such time as you rise up and put off your beastly behavior, you will be nothing but a slave, and the worst kind of slave at that, a slave to a woman who evidently has no respect for you… only disdain.

A VAGINA DIALOGUE

I hate to use offensive verbiage, but it is necessary and no worse than that vocabulary that spills forward from the modern culture… that same culture that has used the sexuality of a woman to enslave men. The wicked and ungodly worship of women, of sex, of harlotry has turned the man into an animal, and it is to these men that I address this rebuke. Your father, Adam, put a woman before God and lost everything he was given and brought death upon all men. Can you not see that this is the same wickedness that prevails in your culture, in your worldview and even in your homes? Ask yourself why God uses the shadow-picture of the woman as the fulfillment of all that entraps and seduces man? Why, you have become a dog and you don’t even know it! Let me speak plainly to you for awhile; maybe I can talk some sense into you.

You men out there who call yourselves “christian”, I’m speaking to you. Why do you learn the ways of male/female relationships from the world? Why do you partake of ungodly and unbiblical mating rituals like “dating” and “going out”, when the Bible knows nothing of these concoctions? Why do you put your hands on Canaanite women? Why do you take them to yourselves as wives? Why do you look on them with lust instead of scorn and derision? Is not the Holy Spirit of God within you? Has God not asked you to come out from among HER and be ye separate? Isn’t the admonition to abstain from ungodly women throughout all of scripture? I don’t have to scold and rebuke women to ask them to quit dressing like whores and seducers; why, if you men would refuse to play their game, if you would refuse to look upon them except with sadness and pity… they would soon have to change their tune AND their clothing. Yes, it is true that women even dress inappropriately and immodestly in churches and in home groups. Yes, it is true that they often dress like the Canaanite women and unbelievers. Why should you be shocked? Where are their leaders? Where is their head? You will not lead them because you are too busy sniffing around them as if you were a dog in heat. You follow them wherever they go. Is there any doubt that they will lead you around by the nose if you act like a base beast? Stand up on your feet man! You’ve been enslaved by a silly chemical release in your brain. You’ve been enslaved by a physical act that has no eternal benefit to you. You look down in disdain at crack addicts and coke-heads, while you slither around in the dust of the earth for a chemical release that isn’t any different. You think you have to have sex? You think you have to have a woman’s attention in order to function? You are under a curse, man! I will tell you this… The day you stand up on your feet and act like a Godly man, you will find that God will lift that part of the curse off of you.



[link to www.lazarusunbound.com]

You sound like one to ME.

Really? So why do you feel the need to jump on a thread on a online forum and answer a serious question with insults? sorry that is NOT what mature women do. That's what spoiled brats do.

Oh, I get laid enough You make me laugh with your ridiculous responses. It seems like the OP really hit a nerve with you. The first posting you made was the one a young girl would make. Sorry I don't buy that you are 38 as you claim to be. Your reactions here tell another story.

Your character certainly isn't...ehem...I don't buy that you are indeed 38. Mature women don't behave like 16 year olds sorry.

It's easy to ignore your own bad character and just blame the men...I know. You sound like a spoiled 16 yo princess with an arrogant attitude.