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janedoenut User ID: 76051972 ![]() 10/10/2018 07:55 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | damn. “If you'll let me tell you what I imagine about myself, you'll find it a lot more interesting” –Anne Shirley "Seemingly your father nor mother taught you that as a man, it's your job to protect and provide for women and lead strong families. As men, had you done your job, you wouldn't be living in a matriarchal society." - Janedoenut, 2018 |
Just Being User ID: 76811534 ![]() 10/10/2018 08:14 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Father, we pray for Brian McFry's mother, that she be comforted and relieved of all of her pain. If it be Your will, Father, please restore her to perfect health. Reverse her cancer everywhere it is found. May Your will for Her be done today in Yeshua's Holy Name Amen. ![]() ![]() ![]() Surfs up John 8:32 |
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Lance Roseman From BC User ID: 30616576 ![]() 10/10/2018 11:52 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I will pray for her comfort, as well as yours. If you are not busy weaving your own magick, you are trapped in anothers spell. “It’s time you realized that you have something in you more powerful and miraculous than the things that affect you and make you dance like a puppet.” – Marcus Aurelius |
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Anonymous Coward User ID: 76923611 ![]() 10/11/2018 04:51 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | My mom passed on around that age (54) - also due to complications from breast cancer that had metastasized... Happened suddenly/unexpectedly while I was away at school... Also my first experience having a close family member pass on... I was 20 at the time... |
Drei Hump Nachers User ID: 72795234 ![]() 10/11/2018 05:17 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I’m really sorry, OP. There are no words. Stay strong. Be your Mom’s champion after she passes on. Let your Mom’s light shine through you to help illuminate the world around you. The good person your Mom is is reflected through you. Much love and comfort to you, my friend. Apollo astronauts could not have passed through Van Allen’s Belt; Van Allen wore suspenders. Joanie Loves Tchotchke. “No puppet. No puppet. YOU’RE the puppet.” |
Only Me Strawberry Girl User ID: 29487835 ![]() 10/11/2018 06:20 AM ![]() Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | My mom passed on around that age (54) - also due to complications from breast cancer that had metastasized... Happened suddenly/unexpectedly while I was away at school... Also my first experience having a close family member pass on... I was 20 at the time... Oh wow :'( I just cannot imagine that. I'm so thankful to have my mom still. My dad died when I was in my mid-20s. He had pre-senile dementia - it was Pick's. Pretty rare. It was awful. My mom is starting to show the first signs of dementia herself and I'm sorta trying to make plans without her realizing I'm doing that. I want her to live with me. Goodbye, halcyon days... There is a theory which states that if ever anyone discovers exactly what the Universe is for and why it is here, it will instantly disappear and be replaced by something even more bizarre and inexplicable. There is another theory mentioned, which states that this has already happened. |
Concorde Warrior F-BVFA User ID: 76997923 ![]() 10/11/2018 07:10 AM ![]() Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Cancer has spread to multiple organs. Further treatment is futile. She's being taken to hospice today to make her last days more comfortable than the ICU which would only prolong the inevitable. She's only 52... I'm the only child... Her parents will outlive their second child, their first born son died not long before I was born, 25 years ago. After helping them through that grief, it looks like I am meant to help them through this grief, also. This will be my first experience losing a close relative. Nothing could have prepared us for this day. Quoting: BrianMcFry Life can be really cruel at times. We are with you OP. Prayers sent. I came. I saw. I Concorde. For once you have tasted Concorde you will walk the earth with your eyes turned skywards, for there you have been and there you will long to return. "I would say today we can integrate all religions and races EXCEPT ISLAM." Singapore's founding father Lee Kuan Y ew |
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Anonymous Coward User ID: 76445703 ![]() 10/11/2018 07:36 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Our hearts go out to you Op. There is nothing you can do now bar keep her as comfortable as possible. Her own pillow would help. Hospital pillows are awful. You are there with her and that is the biggest blessing to her and you. Da died of the same he was 57, again too young. Funny story though, he went around the room telling us that he loved us but he forgot to tell Ma. Ma piped up "Kerry, I love you too you know" Da "Sure, why wouldn't ya!" Funny right up until the end, we all broke our hearts laughing in the room. He died that night. She was so annoyed it kept her going right through the funeral. |
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grumpier User ID: 76875027 ![]() 10/11/2018 10:34 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I just checked and her final death moment, most people have several but there is a final one, is more than 6 years away. That is hope giving, she is getting help now. If you think a thread is important enough for others to read, go to page one and click on the green pin!!! |
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wisconsin User ID: 76970251 ![]() 10/11/2018 01:26 PM ![]() Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | OP, I really do mean it when I said you can talk to us about it here. Any time you want to update us - we're here. Quoting: Only Me . ... ![]() . . Our family celebrates The Lord's Feasts: [link to www.grafted-promise.net] Fools and the dead don't change their minds. Fools won't and the dead can't. When you tear out a man's tongue, you are not proving him a liar. You are only telling the world that you fear what he might say. Quoting: CountryWise Amos 5:13 - Therefore at such a time the prudent person keeps silent, for it is an evil time. |
~Jazzy~![]() Forum Administrator 10/11/2018 01:50 PM ![]() Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Prayers for comfort OP. ![]() To know where your heart is, look where your mind goes when it wanders. A rock in bad hands killed Abel. A rock in good hands killed Goliath. It isn't about the rock. A true warrior fights not because he hates the one in front of him, but because he loves those behind him. INTP-A |
tcs User ID: 77022882 ![]() 10/11/2018 02:24 PM ![]() Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Father, we pray for Brian McFry's mother, that she be comforted and relieved of all of her pain. If it be Your will, Father, please restore her to perfect health. Reverse her cancer everywhere it is found. May Your will for Her be done today in Yeshua's Holy Name Amen. Quoting: Just Being ![]() ![]() ![]() Yes Lord; let it be done according to Your Word. Amen. "When evening had come, they brought to Him many who were demon-possessed. And He cast out the spirits with a word, and healed all who were sick" (Matthew 8:16) "But when Jesus knew it, He withdrew from there. And great multitudes followed Him, and He healed them all." (Matthew 12:15) "When the sun was setting, all those who had any that were sick with various diseases brought them to Him; and He laid His hands on every one of them and healed them." (Luke 4:40) ![]() " Thus saith the Lord; Cursed be the man that trusteth in man, and maketh flesh his arm, and whose heart departeth from the Lord." ~ Jer. 17:5 "From that time Jesus began to preach, and to say, Repent: for the kingdom of heaven is at hand" |
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Only Me Strawberry Girl User ID: 29487835 ![]() 10/12/2018 12:05 PM ![]() Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Our hearts go out to you Op. Quoting: Niamh There is nothing you can do now bar keep her as comfortable as possible. Her own pillow would help. Hospital pillows are awful. You are there with her and that is the biggest blessing to her and you. Da died of the same he was 57, again too young. Funny story though, he went around the room telling us that he loved us but he forgot to tell Ma. Ma piped up "Kerry, I love you too you know" Da "Sure, why wouldn't ya!" Funny right up until the end, we all broke our hearts laughing in the room. He died that night. She was so annoyed it kept her going right through the funeral. That's a sweet memory. I am so glad you had that moment :) Goodbye, halcyon days... There is a theory which states that if ever anyone discovers exactly what the Universe is for and why it is here, it will instantly disappear and be replaced by something even more bizarre and inexplicable. There is another theory mentioned, which states that this has already happened. |
Evangelina User ID: 74476876 ![]() 10/12/2018 12:19 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Heartfelt condolences to you OP It's a difficult part of life. I remember when my mom passed.. literally the entire world came to a screeching halt. It was weird watching everyone go about their daily routines when my life was seemingly in a vacuum. It's good that you have shared with people on here. Even though it's the "internet" there are truly amazing souls on here that will hold you and your family in their thoughts and prayers. May the Peace of God Surround You All ![]() You say there is no God.. but I KNOW there is, experience will "Trump" theory every time ~ Evangelina It is not the greatness of my faith that moves mountains but my faith in the Greatness of God TRUTH has Nothing to do with the Number of People Who are Convinced of it. Silence in the face of evil is itself evil; God will not hold us guiltless. Not to speak is to speak. Not to act is to act. -Dietrich Bonhoeffer NO AMOUNT OF EVIDENCE WILL EVER PERSUADE AN IDIOT ~~ MARK TWAIN |
ol' scratch User ID: 77013241 ![]() 10/12/2018 12:29 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Very sorry to hear about the cancer. I know how it is to lose a parent, and to cancer to boot. There are 2 important impressions. First ones, and last ones. I will think good thoughts for you and your mom and Kin as you go through this time. This is the real deal, not a rehearsal. Do your best and don't screw it up. |
tangoman55 User ID: 77005097 ![]() 10/12/2018 12:32 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Cancer has spread to multiple organs. Further treatment is futile. She's being taken to hospice today to make her last days more comfortable than the ICU which would only prolong the inevitable. She's only 52... I'm the only child... Her parents will outlive their second child, their first born son died not long before I was born, 25 years ago. After helping them through that grief, it looks like I am meant to help them through this grief, also. This will be my first experience losing a close relative. Nothing could have prepared us for this day. Quoting: BrianMcFry It's a horrid experience losing a parent but remember your grandparents are about to lose their second child and that should never happen. Be strong for eachother and time will heal the pain not totally but will make your sad loss more bearable. tangoman55 |
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OneThought User ID: 77026815 ![]() 10/12/2018 01:08 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Thank 'yall for the support; I hurt with her. It hurts to see her struggling, she doesn't have long to live. The cancer has infected her liver, the kidneys, and her spine. Her breast cancer had a resurgence, and she refused to get help the past few weeks/months. It wasn't until she was seriously ill that she made it to the hospital. Thankfully she did, so that we can have these precious, last few moments to share. The memories hurt, the good and the bad, it all hurts and comes in waves. We only just found out yesterday, and because I am her closest living relative, it was put on me to make the choice. It is the right choice. Quoting: BrianMcFry She has a history of alcohol abuse, and I am sure that it has contributed greatly to the condition she is in now. She has had multiple warnings in the past with hospital visits, and now the time has finally come. I feel a certain amount of guilt, but I shouldn't. It was the choices she made, not mine. I just wish this was all a dream, but its not. It is all a dream , nobody ever dies in truth and one day you will come to this realisation . Search GcMAF , never too late . IrishLad |
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