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stillhere User ID: 72031485 United States 10/09/2019 04:13 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | If you choose a woman for her looks you will be disappointed. Looks fade, beautiful women are high maintenance. $$$ Other men will be coming on to the woman and if you don't live up to her expectations she will leave you. As she ages she will lose her looks and you both will be upset. Choose a mate for their personality, character and common goals and beliefs. Choose a mate that is funny, good company, honest, loyal. If they happen to be good looking-- fine, but that should not be your first criteria. "You can bend it and twist it... You can misuse and abuse it... But even God cannot change the Truth.” Michael Levy |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 61629722 United States 10/09/2019 04:17 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | If you choose a woman for her looks you will be disappointed. Quoting: stillhere Looks fade, beautiful women are high maintenance. $$$ Other men will be coming on to the woman and if you don't live up to her expectations she will leave you. As she ages she will lose her looks and you both will be upset. Choose a mate for their personality, character and common goals and beliefs. Choose a mate that is funny, good company, honest, loyal. If they happen to be good looking-- fine, but that should not be your first criteria. all that is true but you don't want to vomit when you look at them either..or her you. Stay in shape at least. You control that |
How do you solve a problem? User ID: 77987291 United Kingdom 10/09/2019 04:18 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Do not get sexually involved until you are happy together ...maybe 6 months to a year .... I was told ...by a Granny all men are the same in the dark ...someone told me this was not correct ... Anyway I was lucky and met my husband when I was 17.5 years old and he was 18 ... Looks fade boys in both men and women ... It is a matter of getting on and watching the other partners back ... I expect what is ugly to one person is not to another and actually it is really shallow and childish to think beauty on the outside is the same as being kind and helpful and decent .... Vanity and so preening is actually a deadly sin .. I have noticed on the American films the young ones are fairly mean and spiteful ...not a good look. |
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Anonymous Coward User ID: 78066008 United States 10/09/2019 04:31 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Me. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 76512891 I have absolutely no attraction to her. I'm 39 years old with Asperger's; although I'm over 6' tall, fit/muscular (I work out) and have above average looks... Socially I'm a complete retard. I get lots of IOI's from pretty girls but have never been with a fit/attractive woman in my entire life. At this point it's ingrained into my very being, and aside from girls checking me out, attractive women avoid me. For many years i tried to change myself- that's how I got into keeping physically fit and healthy- I've given up now and focus my energy into accepting myself as who i am: someone who will never have a high SMV. I've settled for an extremely unattractive woman who is friendly, pleasant, and treats me very well. This may be the most pathetic posts that I've ever read. |
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Anonymous Coward User ID: 78065742 United States 10/09/2019 05:01 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Me. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 76512891 I have absolutely no attraction to her. I'm 39 years old with Asperger's; although I'm over 6' tall, fit/muscular (I work out) and have above average looks... Socially I'm a complete retard. I get lots of IOI's from pretty girls but have never been with a fit/attractive woman in my entire life. At this point it's ingrained into my very being, and aside from girls checking me out, attractive women avoid me. For many years i tried to change myself- that's how I got into keeping physically fit and healthy- I've given up now and focus my energy into accepting myself as who i am: someone who will never have a high SMV. I've settled for an extremely unattractive woman who is friendly, pleasant, and treats me very well. This may be the most pathetic posts that I've ever read. I can dig where he's coming from, though. I have a similar issue, I don't project the right facial expressions, etc, and often misinterpret others, and women are so fucked up to being with that the net situation is unworkable. I quit dating completely in 2011 and now I'm exploring pay-for-play option. . |
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Anonymous Coward User ID: 77893442 United States 10/09/2019 05:14 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | If you're smart, you'll go UBERFAG and don't look back. There are few women left these days worth even the "price of admission", the rest will either suck you dry, mentally or financially one way or another. (or even physically and head right on to the next man...) Current divorce rate is also at 50%, a pretty lousy crapshoot. Soooo yea, no thanks! I'll just patiently wait for my future robo-babe... |
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cosmicgypsy User ID: 74619032 United States 10/09/2019 08:44 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | ........... You never change things by fighting the existing reality. To change something build a new model that makes the existing model obsolete. -Buckminster Fuller ...I adapt to the unknown, under wandering stars I've grown, by myself, but not alone... [link to www.youtube.com (secure)] |
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Anonymous Coward User ID: 77349451 Canada 10/09/2019 10:54 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Me. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 76512891 I have absolutely no attraction to her. I'm 39 years old with Asperger's; although I'm over 6' tall, fit/muscular (I work out) and have above average looks... Socially I'm a complete retard. I get lots of IOI's from pretty girls but have never been with a fit/attractive woman in my entire life. At this point it's ingrained into my very being, and aside from girls checking me out, attractive women avoid me. For many years i tried to change myself- that's how I got into keeping physically fit and healthy- I've given up now and focus my energy into accepting myself as who i am: someone who will never have a high SMV. I've settled for an extremely unattractive woman who is friendly, pleasant, and treats me very well. same reason women settle for men with small pensis's why not even this game out a bit |
DuckNCover User ID: 77927596 United States 10/09/2019 10:59 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Yeah I have an "ugly girl" a chance and she got egotistical and narcissistic and thought she was hot shit. She literally thought that if I dated her, she could hook up with a guy who was rich AND handsome. She fucking blew it with her gold digging ways, berating me for not having her last be in a two million dollar condo despite us being in college, me working a min wage job, and having 80 of every check go to her. These ugly girls turn on you, they think they can do better and will eventually look for another guy to give them attention, despite me giving her all that I can. I have been single for three years since her and I haven't looked back. I don't even talk to women or acknowledge them, because they are evil creatures. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 77368364 That's true with a lot of pretty women too. Lot's of Narcissistic women will just use a decent looking guy as eye candy. When a better one comes around, they leave for greener pastures... It's very rare to find a good woman who will stay with a man. Many crazy women are on Psych Meds for depression or schizoid. They play the game of good girl to entrap a good guy, then it's off to divorce court and they get half... I don't see any benefit of marriage. Best to just date and have good friends... |
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DuckNCover User ID: 77927596 United States 10/09/2019 11:04 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I did a few times. Back in college in the late 70's when our frat parties were ending and there wasn't much left for the picking!! One was so bad I made her go out the window in the morning so the other guys didn't see her. Well, one of the guys did see her climbing out the window and I got the hog of the week award. To this day, when I go back for our golf outing, they still bring it up. Quoting: lechmo You mean she actually fit out the window...lol Hell, I once dated a woman that weighed over 300 lbs... when she got on top, the bed made a V and I couldn't breathe....lol She definitely couldn't fit out a window. Maybe a bay window....lol |