The situation

I would say touch

Love languages

Words Do: listen ---------- Don't: be a woman expert
Touch Do: refrain from sex ---------- Don't: be cold
Gifts Do: express gratitude ---------- Don't: be unenthusiastic
Time Do: get away together ---------- Don't: push
Service Do: make breakfast ---------- Don't: prioritize for you

I'm having a low ebb day today, I really miss my kids, I was thinking about the times we spent together, before the kids, just us two, really nice times, and to turn to this, I can be fixed, I'm not going to beg, but I will do something grandiose.

wrong answer.
That's a man's love language.

Women are usually words or service.
Kids are time and gestures.

hahahah. stop talking about your pecker being grandiose. heh.

just apologize. listen to her rip you apart. apologize again. go to therapy and tell her your progress.

So what do you reckon?

See... a woman usually pulls the weight in a marriage. And a man doesn't bring 100%. happens with age.

So she doesn't need you. Unless you are 100% a person and giving that to the relationship.

Truth shouldn't offend anyone. Be honest with her.

Atta boy..

you're welcome.

I did, I sent her a text earlier, long ass one, poured my heart out.


Shes my princess, and I forgot that.

After my wife died of a heart attack I didn't want to settle down again straight away. I wanted to have some fun first. So I went online to find a young girl with big tits that I could have casual sex with.

Needless to say, my in laws weren't impressed. They thought I should have called an ambulance first.

Fair fucks old boy.

Don't listen to the cat lady.

Ok, one more thing.

If someone is trying to convince (rather than convey) they are lying.

If your words seem like you are trying to convince her to take you back, sounds of desperation, anything other than realizing your mistakes, anything other than apology and a plan that shows that YOU WILL CHANGE and HOW... then words are useless.

Convey words she wants and needs to hear. (empathy and honesty).

Meow.

You see this is score right here

Two young kids 3 and 6, both who do not listen, fight all the time, and scream constantly, and the 3 year old sleepwalks, and and sleeps screams... All fucking night.

We both work full time.

The in-laws provide baby sitting mon-fri for the school runs, and the mum picks them up.


So we don't get much time in the evenings together, and weekends we are shattered from work, but no one is willing to care for the kids so we can spend time together.

I donthe majority of the house work, she just preps the kids for school, uniforms etc, and mainly handles the 3 yearold for bed time, but all cleaning, cooking, getting up early at the weekends, thats me.


Normally in the evenings when the kids are down, she will chill on the sofa reading, and I will potter about the kitchen.


We don't argue, we do bitch and get stressed, bit that's life.


And I don't show her much affection as I could of done, and I dont interact much with her family, which she said other members of her family aren't too pleased about.


Then all this shit


I have been saying I feel neglected in the relationship, feel like a little bitch sometimes, but that's not to say I don't pop off, and handle it.

Like now, I miss her, I miss the kids, but that shit needs to stop, all of it, and that's a job and half.



Make the most of this, as this is getting personal, I dont normally open up like this.

Well I fucked that post up, that was hard to do on an android

thank you for sharing this.

night terrors are from childhood trauma.
I had them for many years, as a result of a pedo father.

Do you trust the in-laws? Does the young one have toileting issues?

more info please.

you're fine. I hear you.

Holy fucking shit babe.

She does yes, and but there's no trust issues with the in-laws they all adore her, this is not the case im sure.

let's explore this.

is your wife uninhibited sexually?

Are the in-laws either Aries (April), Leo (August) or Sagitarius (December)?

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she has her moments I would I say.

I have not got a clue, ha

we can do this in private message if it's uncomfortable.

Not true, I am ‘not’ a ‘nobody’.

I actually dont know their birthdays





But I'm going bed in a min sweet, drop me a pm

In my experience, the pedo will isolate the kid, make anyone who is a threat (you) a bad guy. Use your wife as a flying monkey (she is turned against you), and then have access to the child.

anything ring a bell?

Fucking hell I can't be thinking like that.


Good lord, I will fucking kill them all

Ha!