so my gf talks to some guy friend on my phone and deletes the texts,... but i read one | |
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OhlongJohnson User ID: 22690246 United States 12/15/2012 11:47 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | move on man she doesnt feel the same way about you as you do to her. This world is fading away along with everything it craves, but if you do the will of god you will live forever. 1 John 2:17 For everything comes from god alone.Everything lives by his power, and everything is for his glory. Romans 11:36 |
IssueX User ID: 14348632 United States 12/15/2012 11:47 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | It said something like, I like the way you make me feel. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 1020585 Is this enough reason to break up with her? I don't want to continue dating her if she's trying to build another relationship with someone else.. My gut says to let her go, I feel a conversation like that is inapropriate and unfaithful in a way, she shouldn't be talking like that unless she's trying to tell the guy she's interested in him, no? follow your gut most times, when people begin to suspect infidelity it turns out they were right if you're not a suspicious person by nature but you begin to think something is wrong, you're probably right just my .02c |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 21037792 United States 12/15/2012 11:48 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | She's gotta go or else you're going to get hurt, man... think about yourself because getting cheated on and all this shit will devastate you. She'll realize she fucked up and beg for fogiveness and all that after you say goodbye, just don't fall for it... |
Truth User ID: 29121050 United States 12/15/2012 11:49 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | It said something like, I like the way you make me feel. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 1020585 Is this enough reason to break up with her? I don't want to continue dating her if she's trying to build another relationship with someone else.. My gut says to let her go, I feel a conversation like that is inapropriate and unfaithful in a way, she shouldn't be talking like that unless she's trying to tell the guy she's interested in him, no? Ignore your feeling. Emotions are irrational for the most part, unless it is love. Think nothing of it until you have any evidence of anything unfaithful. Question. Was the text from her to him, or from him to her? I don't mean to sound harsh, but generally, if you are going to be in a mortal relationship, you need to be more dense. Jealousy and paranoia are some of a human's most negative emotions. |
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OhlongJohnson User ID: 22690246 United States 12/15/2012 11:50 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | She's gotta go or else you're going to get hurt, man... think about yourself because getting cheated on and all this shit will devastate you. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 21037792 She'll realize she fucked up and beg for fogiveness and all that after you say goodbye, just don't fall for it... ^this This world is fading away along with everything it craves, but if you do the will of god you will live forever. 1 John 2:17 For everything comes from god alone.Everything lives by his power, and everything is for his glory. Romans 11:36 |
Useless Cookie Eater User ID: 29696048 United States 12/15/2012 11:50 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | It said something like, I like the way you make me feel. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 1020585 Is this enough reason to break up with her? I don't want to continue dating her if she's trying to build another relationship with someone else.. My gut says to let her go, I feel a conversation like that is inapropriate and unfaithful in a way, she shouldn't be talking like that unless she's trying to tell the guy she's interested in him, no? Assuming you are not trolling. 1) She has no trust in you...deletes texts she doesn't want you to see. 2) She's having text conversations with unknown guys 3) She says to the other guy..."I like the way you make me feel" Suggestion.....PACK YOUR BAGS NOW YOU ARE ALREADY GONE. Last Edited by Useless Cookie Eater on 12/15/2012 11:51 PM |
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~Spaze*Man~ User ID: 29997582 United States 12/15/2012 11:51 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | lol yah actually. The only reason I didn't take that into consideration either is because you would have to be stupid to use your BF's phone to cheat on him with. And erase the messages LOL. didn't even come into my mind. Cuz who would do that to cheat? |
Anonymous Coward (OP) User ID: 1020585 Canada 12/15/2012 11:52 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Got sent away for repair. And another thing, Thursday, she said she was going to take her gf out for a late bc dinner, she then came home all stoned from smoking sponsor with the guy at a park. I hate how she thinks its ok, I've told her before, leave me if you ever want to date someone else becUse I've went through shit like this before.. Well, time for akward conversations tomorrow, you all know how these will go, probally somehow be all my fault, etc etc, ... |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 30010320 United States 12/15/2012 11:52 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | It said something like, I like the way you make me feel. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 1020585 Is this enough reason to break up with her? I don't want to continue dating her if she's trying to build another relationship with someone else.. My gut says to let her go, I feel a conversation like that is inapropriate and unfaithful in a way, she shouldn't be talking like that unless she's trying to tell the guy she's interested in him, no? Assuming you are not trolling. 1) She has no trust in you...deletes texts she doesn't want you to see. 2) She's having text conversations with unknown guys 3) She says to the other guy..."I like the way you make me feel" Suggestion.....PACK YOUR BAGS NOW YOU ARE ALREADY GONE. I gotta go with this one. Stop the bleeding now. |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 30010320 United States 12/15/2012 11:54 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Got sent away for repair. And another thing, Thursday, she said she was going to take her gf out for a late bc dinner, she then came home all stoned from smoking sponsor with the guy at a park. I hate how she thinks its ok, I've told her before, leave me if you ever want to date someone else becUse I've went through shit like this before.. Well, time for akward conversations tomorrow, you all know how these will go, probally somehow be all my fault, etc etc, ... Let her |
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Anonymous Coward User ID: 18236950 United States 12/15/2012 11:55 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | It said something like, I like the way you make me feel. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 1020585 Is this enough reason to break up with her? I don't want to continue dating her if she's trying to build another relationship with someone else.. My gut says to let her go, I feel a conversation like that is inapropriate and unfaithful in a way, she shouldn't be talking like that unless she's trying to tell the guy she's interested in him, no? Dude... OF COURSE she's giving the other guy the green light. You need to DROP her like a hot potato, and let HER do the whining and crying. Otherwise, I guarantee it's going to be YOU. |
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Anonymous Coward User ID: 18236950 United States 12/15/2012 11:57 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | It said something like, I like the way you make me feel. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 1020585 Is this enough reason to break up with her? I don't want to continue dating her if she's trying to build another relationship with someone else.. My gut says to let her go, I feel a conversation like that is inapropriate and unfaithful in a way, she shouldn't be talking like that unless she's trying to tell the guy she's interested in him, no? Let the OTHER guy have her. She will do the exact same thing to HIM. |
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Truth User ID: 29121050 United States 12/15/2012 11:58 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | The general consensus here is to just leave. Which does not surprise me, humans are generally very weak and emotionally immature, no matter how old they are. All I have to say, is, if you start this trend of being very thin (skinned), irrational, and defensive, it will only get worse later on life with all of your decision making processes. Do not just break up with her. Allow the reality to come to you, and if you are hurt, embrace the pain and learn from the experience. If you are afraid to experience being hurt? Then don't get into a relationship. |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 2319293 United States 12/15/2012 11:58 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Got sent away for repair. And another thing, Thursday, she said she was going to take her gf out for a late bc dinner, she then came home all stoned from smoking sponsor with the guy at a park. I hate how she thinks its ok, I've told her before, leave me if you ever want to date someone else becUse I've went through shit like this before.. Well, time for akward conversations tomorrow, you all know how these will go, probally somehow be all my fault, etc etc, ... And you haven't dumped this stupid cunt's bitch ass yet? the fuck are you waiting for? |
Anonymous Coward (OP) User ID: 1020585 Canada 12/15/2012 11:59 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Without swearing. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 17332110 Without yelling. Without name calling. Keep your cool no matter what. And leave her. ASAP. In a few years the depression will kill her. Yeah.. this is not ok... What she is doing is wrong.. and she comes home and calls me babe, like she can do this, I'm just grateful I caught on to this asap.. who knows how long shed milk this. I have to bring this up somehow.. maybe tomorrow, she will say she's going out, I gots to think of a way to say it.. Like oh, ok, hope I can find a woman who makes me feel the way your new man does.. or something, some way to hint her to let this shit unravel... This sucks... |