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cRoSS FiRe User ID: 32431416 United States 02/04/2013 05:07 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Good grief, EAT. I leave for a few months, and you go all Negative Nellie. Here. Aasana. Just. Do. It. [link to www.youtube.com] Last Edited by cRoSS FiRe on 02/04/2013 05:07 PM "Nothing is as far away as one minute ago." --Jim Bishop :gameizovar: It's DO:OM o'clock. WAKE UP! |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 33687287 United Kingdom 02/04/2013 05:08 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Count me in. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 331367 Born ugly .. i grew up to be ugly and fat .. and developed baldness. All of it in my youth. At least .. as nobody gave a f.. about me and women ran away on sight i had at least plenty of time to make money. Today i am kinda wealthy and i have all the toys and a huge house with an big park like garden. Everything is paid for, no debts and some nice stash of reserves. Chicks dig me now. I do not care. Sorry .. i have seen trough .. and i will not spend the rest of my live next to a gold-digging whore. I have way to much fun doing what i like to do when i want it to do and piss away as much money as i like on something i do. |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 19653424 Canada 02/04/2013 05:11 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | LOL LOL LOL Facebook. Not all us broads are on facebook. Never ever been on facebook. OK opened an account so I could see pictures of my Neices and nefs but only done so less than 10 times in many years. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 19653424 I am single and don't care either. I am very capable and do everything required around my Mountain Top Farm without the assistance of a man. If I need help from time to time then I hire someone but its not very often. I am not the usual female either. I run Equipment. Plumb. Carpentry. Frame. Build whatever even weld. Tom Boy Forever. I just turned 49 and have been living on my Mountain Top for 13 years by myself. I never worry about anything. Not Scared but have 5 big German Shepherds. I find most men aren't men anymore. Don't know how to be the Knight in Shining Armor. Actually most are lazy and looking for a mother for their children from broken relationships and somebody to look after them. I would not mind that so much but most of the Men these days don't know how to do anything. No Skills. Makes it hard when you can do more than they can and most men don't like that. They want helpless females even if their helpless themselves. I just find it easier to live alone. I don't mind it at all. I like it actually. Its easy. NO. I'm not Fat and Ugly Either. You and I sound very similar... we should get together and form a sexy single girl shtf compound. Yes and you can fly your Gay Pride "rainbow coalition flag" over the compound so men will know to stay away. . Not gay. Thats what some of you Men always think when the WOMEN get too independent and can do things for themselves. Your just insecure. Probably don't really like women much either. Control freak I bet. Thats why so many of us choose to stay single and figure shit out for ourselves. I hate jealous type control freaks and there are alot of you out there. If I was to post a sign it would be this. Saw it on another site. " Do you believe in Life after Death? Tresspass here and find out " |
Children of the Atom User ID: 20257839 United States 02/04/2013 05:22 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I am going to be single for the rest of my life. I have to accept it, deal with it, and continue on with my life. There are pros and cons to the single life. Quoting: ººEATºº Woman have really changed over the last 10 years and in my opinion it has to do with Facebook and the new dimension of 'life' that Facebook opens up to the woman. Woman are living in a 'Facebook Fantasyland' . Like this thread? Lol Dude you nailed it. My current ex, tried snooping through my facebook account when I was in the shower Sunday. So, when I was with my Uncle at the bar Sunday night watching the Super Bowels, er Bowl, I get a text from her asking if I had been talking to an old friend of mine that I had known since she was fifteen. Needless to say, my current ex has two kids, by two separate guys. The youngest, a boy - his father is gone in prison for an unknown amount of years now for trafficking guns. We were supposed to be taking it slow - but real life circumstances have expedited her expected responses from me. Such as us moving in together. Which ain't happening because April 2012 - I just got out of a five year long term relationship that nearly cracked me mentality. I had a great job and now I'm struggling to keep my internet and lights on. So this old friend comes along and yes she is a female and yes I do have feelings for her. I confront my ex telling her that I need some time to think because she has so many expectations on me. I want kids and she already has two and how selfish is it of me to expect her to have two more? Secondly, I cannot accept her children as my own because, it is REALLY hard. The oldest is a girl who HAS a dad in her life and the children treat me like a rug. So, I back out of it this weekend reconsidering everything. Naturally Saturday she wanted to drink and party, so we did, lightly, end up back at my place and of course naturally she wants a little more of me. I give because, I do like her but there is too much history with her. Also the first night we met, I had picked her up and we went to our usual watering hole. Later that night her ex shows up stalking the scene and naturally she ran back to him and slept with him. Sadly, though, she pleaded how she cared and how she fucked up and I was pretty forgiving and let it go. But now, it's like no. You're not going to tell me who I can and cannot talk to! You sit on facebook all the time talking to people! How is this any different? Ya know, those kind of feelings. So anyways, she texts me Sunday saying 'Has that XXXXXXX chick tried talking to you.' Well shit... What was I to say? This is one of those... damned if you do, damned if you don't. I am not sure why she would just randomly ask me this, but I stew on it for a min before giving an answer. Prior to this, I had sent a text to the friend on Friday, because of the things I am involved in, I don't have much time anymore to be a partyer, not that I ever was, but I notice - chicks love to 'dance'. But regardless, I simply asked, 'Would I even have a chance of being with you?' Naturally, she did not answer this which I took as good or bad. Prior to this episode, her and I go back a min when a similar event like this happened. Now, it is like replay all over again. I know the chick I was with (as of yesterday) was playing me, I couldn't put my finger on it but I knew some how some way she was pulling the wool over my eyes. Any how, the other never responded back to the text and when I was asked 'Has that XXXXXXX chick tried contacting you?' I said, naturally, no - why? She said, don't lie. I said, what has you believing otherwise? She says, because I know. Great, dug in a hole and mind you ANY time she has found a moment to doubt - she has. And I have been nothing but supportive up until she basically forced me into a corner of making a decision of whether I would raise her kids as my own - while the one father 'sits' in prison and the other smokes green all day but doesn't pay child support. I said - fuck it. I told her that, we are done. There is no point in doing this anymore honestly. Naturally, I feel set up. Was the other girl talking to her? The same kind of shit happened a few months back with her! So I forward the other girl the text and she says how does she know me and all these other questions. Honestly, I am as confused as her, but I like this chick a lot and if I could have a chance to slowly be with her - I would. Nope, that shit blows up in my face too. She tells me I'm a piece of shit and a worthless friend. The other says I'm a liar, while she sits and talks to guys on Facebook. These bitches are fucking insane. They think their pussies made of gold! Last Edited by Children of the Atom on 02/04/2013 05:26 PM |
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Anonymous Coward User ID: 16213681 United States 02/04/2013 05:40 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Married 10 years, divorced one week after my ex relinquished custody of my 3 month old son. I thought giving up child support was a fair tradeoff for strife and violence he brought to the table. Packed up the car 4 months pregnant, traveled 1,000 miles away from him and had my son alone. All for the sake of less pointless drama. I was cauterized at that time from ever trusting anyone or giving some schmuck the opportunity to derail my peace and life off the tracks into a kind of prisonlike hell. Took me another decade to quit jumping at bushes. My ex brought nothing to the relationship, no desire to be a father (to become a responsible adult), make a home (we rented) and would never help reach a decision that effected us both...nope, he handed over all the power of decision making to me then went into escalating rages and serial cheating for giving me no choice but to carry it all myself and get angry for handing over the power he himself refused to take. So no, I have a visceral impulse to run from men, I can't help it. I actually love men, but have experience only with one that was the equivalent of dragging someone by the ankle through what could have been a reasonable and kind partnership. I have no problem nursing a man through his problems and owies, but not when he's riding my coattails coasting and using violence and abandonment to distract from how useless he is. Not having that distress is a gift that keeps on giving to this day. My son is the best a mother could ask for, and looks like my side of the family which is a plus (even though however my boy 'looked like' wouldn't have mattered. |
Children of the Atom User ID: 20257839 United States 02/04/2013 05:46 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | These bitches are fucking insane. They think their pussies made of gold! Quoting: Children of the Atom lol good for you, once the women find out they cannot manipulate a guy with that box, they move on to the next sucker. I'm glad I learned this at twenty-six and not thirty or forty. |
Anonymous Trix User ID: 28057136 Netherlands 02/04/2013 05:49 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I will stay single forever. Had my part of wrong relationships. But if I ever would marry someone it has to be Eat... He could protect me from at least all earthquakes... Be careful when you fight the monsters, lest you become one. (Friedrich Nietzsche) |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 16213681 United States 02/04/2013 05:54 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | These bitches are fucking insane. They think their pussies made of gold! Quoting: Children of the Atom lol good for you, once the women find out they cannot manipulate a guy with that box, they move on to the next sucker. I'm glad I learned this at twenty-six and not thirty or forty. This takes a certain type of shallow woman to match a certain shallow type of man. There won't be a shortage of either any time soon. As a woman I have to say I have not once in my life pursued a guy for money or found myself attracted for that reason. In fact there is no one who gets to be friend status with me of either sex who are that soulless inside. |
abeliever Members User ID: 17868616 United States 02/04/2013 06:06 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I am going to be single for the rest of my life. I have to accept it, deal with it, and continue on with my life. There are pros and cons to the single life. Quoting: ººEATºº Woman have really changed over the last 10 years and in my opinion it has to do with Facebook and the new dimension of 'life' that Facebook opens up to the woman. Woman are living in a 'Facebook Fantasyland' . Like this thread? Lol Men have changed too .... internet porn has corrupted how they perceive women emotionally and sexually. Talk about Fantasy Land.... For this reason I will probably remain single too. Agreed. Woman have facebook, and men have porn. Facebook and porn have corrupted men and women... This. You need to start a new thread with this. The debate and thoughts would abound. |
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Little Miss Sunshine User ID: 27735096 United States 02/04/2013 06:31 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | EAT- FASTING and PRAYER change everything!! If you want a Godly Woman take it to him and ask him to search the world over and bring that woman to you!! Oh ye of little faith...more things have been wrought by prayer& fasting than anything else!! You serve the LIVING KING!! He KNOWS what we have need of BEFOREwe ask!! ....GOD IS ABLE!!!!! |
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Anonymous Coward User ID: 1462016 Canada 02/04/2013 07:34 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | There are things about yourself you know you have to change. Quoting: Holy_Diver Bad Habits, Vices, Health, Motivation...you cling to Entropy, and as a Man you find it comfortable. Women cannot stand Entropy. Women, the kind you want, are of the Earth and crave the things it provides. An Entropic Man will prevent her from acquiring these things. Everything you currently do and are is a giant billboard for your Entropy. Clean up your Temple, Learn to Love Yourself, Persue constructive goals and Women will be beating down your door. Otherwise, your only other option will be to settle for a woman you don't really want, the kind who feel they can change you. So, change yourself before some harpy nag tries to do it for you. entropy. i had to look it up, are you sure thats the word you were looking for the meaning seems different , no? unless you were getting really deep and heavy (quantum physics) lol |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 1462016 Canada 02/04/2013 07:34 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | There are things about yourself you know you have to change. Quoting: Holy_Diver Bad Habits, Vices, Health, Motivation...you cling to Entropy, and as a Man you find it comfortable. Women cannot stand Entropy. Women, the kind you want, are of the Earth and crave the things it provides. An Entropic Man will prevent her from acquiring these things. Everything you currently do and are is a giant billboard for your Entropy. Clean up your Temple, Learn to Love Yourself, Persue constructive goals and Women will be beating down your door. Otherwise, your only other option will be to settle for a woman you don't really want, the kind who feel they can change you. So, change yourself before some harpy nag tries to do it for you. entropy. i had to look it up, are you sure thats the word you were looking for the meaning seems different , no? unless you were getting really deep and heavy (quantum physics) lol from the dictionary ---------- en·tro·py [en-truh-pee] Show IPA noun 1. Thermodynamics . a. (on a macroscopic scale) a function of thermodynamic variables, as temperature, pressure, or composition, that is a measure of the energy that is not available for work during a thermodynamic process. A closed system evolves toward a state of maximum entropy. b. (in statistical mechanics) a measure of the randomness of the microscopic constituents of a thermodynamic system. Symbol: S 2. (in data transmission and information theory) a measure of the loss of information in a transmitted signal or message. 3. (in cosmology) a hypothetical tendency for the universe to attain a state of maximum homogeneity in which all matter is at a uniform temperature (heat death) 4. a doctrine of inevitable social decline and degeneration. |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 33287704 United States 02/04/2013 07:34 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I am going to be single for the rest of my life. I have to accept it, deal with it, and continue on with my life. There are pros and cons to the single life. Quoting: ººEATºº Woman have really changed over the last 10 years and in my opinion it has to do with Facebook and the new dimension of 'life' that Facebook opens up to the woman. Woman are living in a 'Facebook Fantasyland' . Like this thread? Lol are you that fat, ugly and dull? |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 1462016 Canada 02/04/2013 07:43 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I am going to be single for the rest of my life. I have to accept it, deal with it, and continue on with my life. There are pros and cons to the single life. Quoting: ººEATºº Woman have really changed over the last 10 years and in my opinion it has to do with Facebook and the new dimension of 'life' that Facebook opens up to the woman. Woman are living in a 'Facebook Fantasyland' . Like this thread? Lol Men have changed too .... internet porn has corrupted how they perceive women emotionally and sexually. Talk about Fantasy Land.... For this reason I will probably remain single too. Agreed. Woman have facebook, and men have porn. Facebook and porn have corrupted men and women... its actually a bit more sinister than just facebook and porn. woman watch porn also, just like men use facebook. in all honesty though, technology has been used for nefarious ways. as pretty as it is on the outside, the center of it's rotten. |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 33670853 United States 02/04/2013 07:46 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I am going to be single for the rest of my life. I have to accept it, deal with it, and continue on with my life. There are pros and cons to the single life. Quoting: ººEATºº Woman have really changed over the last 10 years and in my opinion it has to do with Facebook and the new dimension of 'life' that Facebook opens up to the woman. Woman are living in a 'Facebook Fantasyland' . Like this thread? Lol I did that about 20 years ago. Then met my husband a few years later LOL. Neither of us were looking LOL. |
rainlover User ID: 25273903 United States 02/04/2013 08:12 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I don't know if I've 'resigned' myself to be single, but there are definitely pros and cons of being married (I am divorced.) From a woman's point of view, most older guys have zero sense of humor. I can't stand being with guys who cannot crack a smile. But, I have faith that if I'm to be married again, God will arrange the right guy to be there. If not, no biggie. I miss dinner out conversations, though. That was always fun. Thanks for the thread, EAT. |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 33585147 United States 02/04/2013 08:31 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | There are things about yourself you know you have to change. Quoting: Holy_Diver Bad Habits, Vices, Health, Motivation...you cling to Entropy, and as a Man you find it comfortable. Women cannot stand Entropy. Women, the kind you want, are of the Earth and crave the things it provides. An Entropic Man will prevent her from acquiring these things. Everything you currently do and are is a giant billboard for your Entropy. Clean up your Temple, Learn to Love Yourself, Persue constructive goals and Women will be beating down your door. Otherwise, your only other option will be to settle for a woman you don't really want, the kind who feel they can change you. So, change yourself before some harpy nag tries to do it for you. I've been working on this for the last 50 years and I'm still single. What the hell are you talking about? There are not many 18-30 girls that seem to be interested anymore, so all the effort was a waste of time. Give up now - |
beeches User ID: 28167778 United States 02/04/2013 08:40 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I am going to be single for the rest of my life. I have to accept it, deal with it, and continue on with my life. There are pros and cons to the single life. Quoting: ººEATºº Woman have really changed over the last 10 years and in my opinion it has to do with Facebook and the new dimension of 'life' that Facebook opens up to the woman. Woman are living in a 'Facebook Fantasyland' . Like this thread? Lol EAT, I am responding to you and not to the thread, wherever it may have wandered. Threads do that. Many, many women have not changed in the ways you are describing. They enjoy real life ( including GLP). They sew. They read. They worry about inflation. And they wish for a man. I was alone not by choice for a LONG time. Mutual friends led us to a blind date - the wedding was 5 years ago. So do not lose hope for the kind of life you wish to lead. There was a thread a while back about a woman who was a shepherd somehere in the British Isles. Sounds like a nice life to me! Liberalism is totalitarianism with a human face – Thomas Sowell |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 33693629 Germany 02/04/2013 09:01 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I am going to be single for the rest of my life. I have to accept it, deal with it, and continue on with my life. There are pros and cons to the single life. Quoting: ººEATºº Woman have really changed over the last 10 years and in my opinion it has to do with Facebook and the new dimension of 'life' that Facebook opens up to the woman. Woman are living in a 'Facebook Fantasyland' . Like this thread? Lol Men have changed too .... internet porn has corrupted how they perceive women emotionally and sexually. Talk about Fantasy Land.... For this reason I will probably remain single too. Agreed. Woman have facebook, and men have porn. Facebook and porn have corrupted men and women... |
Earth Daughter User ID: 33704894 United States 02/04/2013 09:16 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | One was enough for me. I can't imagine doing all that over again. "Arrows of hate have been shot at me too, but they never hit me, because somehow they belonged to another world, with which I have no connection whatsoever." - Albert Einstein |
Hq okc User ID: 1852209 United States 02/04/2013 09:37 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Sorry to brag here but I have to say after reading this that I felt the same 17 years ago before I met my husband. I was only 27 then but wanted a monogamous relationship and all the guys I seemed to be interested in were losers. I hate to be harsh, but my taste kind of sucked. My husband is wonderful. He works, he's brilliant, he's kind and encourages my dreams. He's great with the kids (most of the time) helps out around the house and we have the same goals in life. The one thing I wanted to mention, is that he has aspergers. I think if I ever lost him, I'd have to be with another aspie. He's in the back room playing world of Warcraft right now, but its no worse than me on here. I think now, it's harder to find a quality mate because people seem to be looking for fun and stuff, you know, the boat on the weekend kind of life. But that's not what makes a home. It's the (boring) guy who pays his bills before he takes you out for a pricey dinner. It's the guy who goes home to feed the dog before going to happy hour. He's the guy who will make a home. I don't think my female friends appreciate those guys enough. Just my 2 cents. Hq okc |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 1324238 United States 02/04/2013 10:00 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I am going to be single for the rest of my life. I have to accept it, deal with it, and continue on with my life. There are pros and cons to the single life. Quoting: ººEATºº Woman have really changed over the last 10 years and in my opinion it has to do with Facebook and the new dimension of 'life' that Facebook opens up to the woman. Woman are living in a 'Facebook Fantasyland' . Like this thread? Lol Dude you nailed it. My current ex, tried snooping through my facebook account when I was in the shower Sunday. So, when I was with my Uncle at the bar Sunday night watching the Super Bowels, er Bowl, I get a text from her asking if I had been talking to an old friend of mine that I had known since she was fifteen. Needless to say, my current ex has two kids, by two separate guys. The youngest, a boy - his father is gone in prison for an unknown amount of years now for trafficking guns. We were supposed to be taking it slow - but real life circumstances have expedited her expected responses from me. Such as us moving in together. Which ain't happening because April 2012 - I just got out of a five year long term relationship that nearly cracked me mentality. I had a great job and now I'm struggling to keep my internet and lights on. So this old friend comes along and yes she is a female and yes I do have feelings for her. I confront my ex telling her that I need some time to think because she has so many expectations on me. I want kids and she already has two and how selfish is it of me to expect her to have two more? Secondly, I cannot accept her children as my own because, it is REALLY hard. The oldest is a girl who HAS a dad in her life and the children treat me like a rug. So, I back out of it this weekend reconsidering everything. Naturally Saturday she wanted to drink and party, so we did, lightly, end up back at my place and of course naturally she wants a little more of me. I give because, I do like her but there is too much history with her. Also the first night we met, I had picked her up and we went to our usual watering hole. Later that night her ex shows up stalking the scene and naturally she ran back to him and slept with him. Sadly, though, she pleaded how she cared and how she fucked up and I was pretty forgiving and let it go. But now, it's like no. You're not going to tell me who I can and cannot talk to! You sit on facebook all the time talking to people! How is this any different? Ya know, those kind of feelings. So anyways, she texts me Sunday saying 'Has that XXXXXXX chick tried talking to you.' Well shit... What was I to say? This is one of those... damned if you do, damned if you don't. I am not sure why she would just randomly ask me this, but I stew on it for a min before giving an answer. Prior to this, I had sent a text to the friend on Friday, because of the things I am involved in, I don't have much time anymore to be a partyer, not that I ever was, but I notice - chicks love to 'dance'. But regardless, I simply asked, 'Would I even have a chance of being with you?' Naturally, she did not answer this which I took as good or bad. Prior to this episode, her and I go back a min when a similar event like this happened. Now, it is like replay all over again. I know the chick I was with (as of yesterday) was playing me, I couldn't put my finger on it but I knew some how some way she was pulling the wool over my eyes. Any how, the other never responded back to the text and when I was asked 'Has that XXXXXXX chick tried contacting you?' I said, naturally, no - why? She said, don't lie. I said, what has you believing otherwise? She says, because I know. Great, dug in a hole and mind you ANY time she has found a moment to doubt - she has. And I have been nothing but supportive up until she basically forced me into a corner of making a decision of whether I would raise her kids as my own - while the one father 'sits' in prison and the other smokes green all day but doesn't pay child support. I said - fuck it. I told her that, we are done. There is no point in doing this anymore honestly. Naturally, I feel set up. Was the other girl talking to her? The same kind of shit happened a few months back with her! So I forward the other girl the text and she says how does she know me and all these other questions. Honestly, I am as confused as her, but I like this chick a lot and if I could have a chance to slowly be with her - I would. Nope, that shit blows up in my face too. She tells me I'm a piece of shit and a worthless friend. The other says I'm a liar, while she sits and talks to guys on Facebook. These bitches are fucking insane. They think their pussies made of gold! Dang. So you fucked up and now you mad? Wow. And it's "bitches" fault that you were indecisive about which broad you wanted to be with? Wow. |