A letter I just left for my Ex. I AM FREE!!!

I'm FREE! I left this letter on the kitchen table. She gets back tonight but I will be gone. I feel so great.



Anne,

I’m writing this letter to you in hopes that it will help clarify a few things that you’ve no doubt become aware of since you arrived home. The situation is exactly as it seems, I have left you. The plain truth is, I am no longer attracted to you. For the past few months I can safely say that I have felt physically ill in the morning when I wake up and see your face next to mine. Everything about you has become sour in my mind, even the way you smell. To be honest I find being around you draining, both physically and emotionally.

These issues are only surpassed by your negative and hateful attitude, which I might add has become progressively worse over the past year. You have become an egotistical, selfish and unimaginative person who rarely asks me what I need or want, in fact I cannot remember the last time you offered me anything of value. It baffles me that you show more passion for something like Dancing with the Stars or Idol than you do our relationship and our future. It stuns me that you cannot see how far you have fallen, how much dignity you have lost.

My limits have been reached and I have had enough. Your attempt to deprive me of my masculinity and sovereignty will no longer be tolerated. So this is where you find yourself, standing in the living room, stunned. Stunned because you never expected this, because you thought you owned me, you thought only you had the power to do something like this. The 46 inch flatscreen that you enjoy so much is no longer a prop for your moronic addiction. Go and buy your own. I have taken everything that I paid for (except the things which I bought for you). Keep the fridge (I’m getting a nice big one to reward myself for this amazing decision I have just made).

Finally I want you to look up the word Misandry as it’s something you are unequivocally guilty of. You should be glad that for the first time in your life someone has actually called you out on your bullshit. You can either lie to yourself as usual or you can pick up the proverbial mirror and take an honest look inside.

Good luck

D

Why?


So he can get screamed at and treated like absolute shit for one last time??


Fuck that. He did her a favor.

You seem so proud of yourself! The fact that you posted that Letter on a public forum proves that you weak. So weak that you couldn't be a man and sit her down and express your feelings towards her without being hurtful and demeaning. Furthermore it's sad to see the responses supporting this low life behavior. Indeed it's a sign of the times when the love of many have grown cold. This is a sad day for you. ... the day that you have become nothing more then a pathetic excuse for a man.
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I'm FREE!

Funny:How I gullible most are here on this site.

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What a chicken.A wimp if you ask me. Shows he doesn't have communication skills.

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What a bunch of unintelligent morons who will of course be offended and defend and resort to name calling me. I thought there was more intelligence here but of course not.

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What a wimp.

You seem so proud of yourself! The fact that you posted that Letter on a public forum proves that you weak. So weak that you couldn't be a man and sit her down and express your feelings towards her without being hurtful and demeaning. Furthermore it's sad to see the responses supporting this low life behavior. Indeed it's a sign of the times when the love of many have grown cold. This is a sad day for you. ... the day that you have become nothing more then a pathetic excuse for a man.
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Sometimes when you are drained and beaten down by another its good to purge. Learn from your previous mistakes and do not repeat them.Me and my wife live like great friends who fuck all the time.Its the only way to really respect each other. We do not expect anything from each other. We do things for each other because we want to.Be careful on your search for a partner.

Yea good one o.0 nob head

Hopefully she has a big brother that will give you a bit of a slap. Clearly she deserves better than a cock muncher like yourself.

Maybe you are gay?? Physically sick at the sight of a female body??? Thanks for coming out to us all at GLP

Thanks for your words. I acknowledge that I should have taken action sooner however the big changes in her personality have come fairly rapidly. She took a new job about 7 months ago and started to associate with people I can only describe as sociopaths. To me it's as simple as the "real her" came out, slowly at first and then like a tidal wave. You're right I was in denial for a while but I also made serious attempts to fix things. In the end it became apparent that it was always going to be about "her" and so I planned my escape, making sure I had an apartment to move into on the other side of town, etc.

My beef is not with women it's with this particular woman. That being said I am really sick and tired of this culture of feminism and misandry. It is poison. As for my confidence it just raked in a monster pot. Now to set up the new Man Cave.

At least have the balls to read it to her in person...

Wait until OP finds out that there is nothing but a bunch of FAT,UGLY,TATTOOED UP SLOBS out there to choose from...

Nice letter but I would bet she will be relieved to see it.
Sounds like she had lost interest in you sometime ago and probably didnt know how to make the break.Maybe has a new guy.
Its a big job to move and can get expensive.This way she still has a place to live and can start over fairly easy or move her new man in when she gets one if she doesnt have one already..
Glad you will be happier but she most likely will be too.
Sounds as if you assume she cant survive without you.I bet she will

Not on this side of the pond.
And thats de facts.

You have made the biggest error of your life

Tell her you are sort and want to get back asap

Thanks for clearing that up and being honest. I like your style and glad you saw fit to make sure you had a suitable home before making your escape. I also appreciate your effort, but enough of that and glad you left.

OP even though I am female, as I said earlier, I have to agree with your words that I bolded above. I have a couple of friends that I avoid right now because of that very reason - guess I should say, I no longer associate with them. Any fellow female who doesn't follow their steps is given the same treatment as the men in their lives - one of them was my best friend. She can only spew venom and is capable of nothing else. Her husband and she have permanently split now and divorcing. I feel so bad for this guy....his wife changed from a kind, charming, yet formidable woman to a crazy vile creature that even I didn't recognize. I'm not getting what is going on, but I've seen this happen to two other more distant friends also. I don't get it, even as their fellow female and friend, I couldn't understand what was going on inside their heads, they just lost it....Seriously, they should give a name to this.

You made a good decision OP. Best of luck and enjoy your Man Cave.

One day I waited for my husband of 11 years to come home from work. It took everything in me to stand up to him and tell him to his face that I was done. Done with his lying, cheating, and abuse. He was stunned, then he cried. Then he started to pack and went to his mother's house and a year later we divorced.

He didn't think I could live life on my own. He wanted me to be dependent on him and stay home with the kids. He wanted all of the control over every aspect of my life.

The day I was free, I felt like I could do anything with my life. It's a good feeling, and I commend the OP for taking charge and doing this. Life is too short to live with someone that kills your spirit and does not really love you.

anytime you feel the need to dig the knife in as hard as OP did, you still have feelings for that person.

hate is not the opposite of love. indifference is.

i predict OP will be crying for forgiveness before his side of the bed gets cold.

he's not over her. not by a long shot.