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AceHole User ID: 46970364 United States 02/03/2014 05:40 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Wow I use to party with Hundreds of people every day when i was younger. Then Out of no ware i switched. TO YOU. And i do not talk to anyone only close family. It is Peaceful and i would not trade it for one of my party days. JUST ME:If i don't know you odds are i don't like you but meet somewhere and talk i will be very friendly and HAPPY. But i am not looking for Friends LOL. |
K.Kool User ID: 24119449 Australia 02/03/2014 05:42 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I love my solitude too OP, and find people madness disturbing, tiring and sometimes even detrimental to my health and wellbeing. But - the challenge grows me in ways alone-ness never can, so I keep stepping out, heart on my sleeve, fortified by a good pair of running shoes, lol. |
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Anonymous Coward User ID: 46242398 Canada 02/03/2014 05:42 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I love not being bothered by people during the weekends. I love not having my phone blown up every 2 minutes with texts. I love being alone and able to relax without someone yapping their mouths. I literally love being alone. It makes me happy because I don't have to deal with anyone. Walking into an empty house, travelling by myself, driving in a car with only me in it - I love it. Even when I was in school I used to work on projects by myself rather than pairing up with someone else. People are just too...irrational, selfish, and evil. Being alone is such a peaceful, wonderful thing. It's independent. I do not understand why such is diagnosed as a mental disorder. It is completely normal and OK to just want to be alone and away from the madness. Afterall, we can only really trust ourselves. I currently have no desire to date. I do see attractive men once in a while, but have no desire to build a relationship. I cannot deal with the drama , dependency, and disruption of peace that comes along with friendships and relationships. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 2611180 And do not get me wrong, if one of my family members calls me, I'll talk to them. If someone comes up to me and starts a conversation, I'll converse with them. I smile at people and ask them how their day is, so it is not like I am some sort of hermit crab hiding in its shell. I just prefer and absolutely love to be alone. When I'm done talking on the phone or conversing with someone, I like to walk away alone or sit quietly in a quiet house. Most women are ashamed of such and are desperate to cling on to someone in fear of loneliness. I do not fear it at all. I just want to try to enjoy life without people intruding. To sit on my patio and look up at the sky without someone yapping in my ear and showing me their latest tweet or whatever. Nor do I want a boyfriend who will bother me with sex and clinginess. I just want to be alone and do my own thing. That's what works for me and I LOVE it. 100$ agreed ! |
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Anonymous Coward User ID: 45722508 Netherlands 02/03/2014 05:46 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I love not being bothered by people during the weekends. I love not having my phone blown up every 2 minutes with texts. I love being alone and able to relax without someone yapping their mouths. I literally love being alone. It makes me happy because I don't have to deal with anyone. Walking into an empty house, travelling by myself, driving in a car with only me in it - I love it. Even when I was in school I used to work on projects by myself rather than pairing up with someone else. People are just too...irrational, selfish, and evil. Being alone is such a peaceful, wonderful thing. It's independent. I do not understand why such is diagnosed as a mental disorder. It is completely normal and OK to just want to be alone and away from the madness. Afterall, we can only really trust ourselves. I currently have no desire to date. I do see attractive men once in a while, but have no desire to build a relationship. I cannot deal with the drama , dependency, and disruption of peace that comes along with friendships and relationships. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 2611180 And do not get me wrong, if one of my family members calls me, I'll talk to them. If someone comes up to me and starts a conversation, I'll converse with them. I smile at people and ask them how their day is, so it is not like I am some sort of hermit crab hiding in its shell. I just prefer and absolutely love to be alone. When I'm done talking on the phone or conversing with someone, I like to walk away alone or sit quietly in a quiet house. Most women are ashamed of such and are desperate to cling on to someone in fear of loneliness. I do not fear it at all. I just want to try to enjoy life without people intruding. To sit on my patio and look up at the sky without someone yapping in my ear and showing me their latest tweet or whatever. Nor do I want a boyfriend who will bother me with sex and clinginess. I just want to be alone and do my own thing. That's what works for me and I LOVE it. This could have been my thread lol...I'm exactly the same. |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 52899832 United States 02/03/2014 05:48 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I love not being bothered by people during the weekends. I love not having my phone blown up every 2 minutes with texts. I love being alone and able to relax without someone yapping their mouths. I literally love being alone. It makes me happy because I don't have to deal with anyone. Walking into an empty house, travelling by myself, driving in a car with only me in it - I love it. Even when I was in school I used to work on projects by myself rather than pairing up with someone else. People are just too...irrational, selfish, and evil. Being alone is such a peaceful, wonderful thing. It's independent. I do not understand why such is diagnosed as a mental disorder. It is completely normal and OK to just want to be alone and away from the madness. Afterall, we can only really trust ourselves. I currently have no desire to date. I do see attractive men once in a while, but have no desire to build a relationship. I cannot deal with the drama , dependency, and disruption of peace that comes along with friendships and relationships. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 2611180 And do not get me wrong, if one of my family members calls me, I'll talk to them. If someone comes up to me and starts a conversation, I'll converse with them. I smile at people and ask them how their day is, so it is not like I am some sort of hermit crab hiding in its shell. I just prefer and absolutely love to be alone. When I'm done talking on the phone or conversing with someone, I like to walk away alone or sit quietly in a quiet house. Most women are ashamed of such and are desperate to cling on to someone in fear of loneliness. I do not fear it at all. I just want to try to enjoy life without people intruding. To sit on my patio and look up at the sky without someone yapping in my ear and showing me their latest tweet or whatever. Nor do I want a boyfriend who will bother me with sex and clinginess. I just want to be alone and do my own thing. That's what works for me and I LOVE it. wow me and u might get along. but we'd prolly just sit there staring at the trees not talking which is fine. when you grow up you realize that friends are not worth the trouble. Youll have to go pick them up, or lend them money, ur just "on-call" whenever really. i've thrown 5 cell phones in my pond. i have no phone , and thats the way i like it. i dont like for people to be able to even call "my" number. they dont even know my number, or how to get it, or where i am, because my number doesnt exist. my last girlfriend broke my heart, and left me. at the last minute i told her i wouldnt love again, as i had wasted all my energy to love her, and the pain to watch her leave was too much. now i dont hate girls, and im not gay. but im a man. " A young man contemplating marriage sought advice from Diogenes. "Should I marry?" "Marriage is too soon for a young man" "Would you have me wait then until I am old." "Oh no, Marriage is far too late for an old man." "What am I to do then? I love the girl." "Love is a luxury no one can afford. It is for those who have nothing better to do." "What should we be doing then?" "To seek freedom. But it is not possible to be free if you have a wife and children." "But having a wife and family is so agreeable." "Then you see the problem, young man. Freedom would not be so difficult to attain were prison not so sweet." "You mean to be free is to be alone?" "We come into the world alone and we die alone. Why, in life, should we be any less alone?" "To live, then, is terrible." "No, not to live, but to live in chains." you may have become enlightened. |
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Anonymous Coward User ID: 4139824 United States 02/03/2014 06:01 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Most women are ashamed of such and are desperate to cling on to someone in fear of loneliness. I do not fear it at all. I just want to try to enjoy life without people intruding. To sit on my patio and look up at the sky without someone yapping in my ear and showing me their latest tweet or whatever. Nor do I want a boyfriend who will bother me with sex and clinginess. I just want to be alone and do my own thing. That's what works for me and I LOVE it. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 2611180 I also dig the alone vibe... However, when you get older you will need someone around to turn off the coffee pot or the water faucet after you finally croak and give up the ghost. You don't want to leave behind a decomposing corpse to gross out the first responders! |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 46648510 United States 02/03/2014 06:02 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I'm with you on that op. My life was a nightmare when I was swamped with friends. More friends = more problems. I get like two phone calls a week and that rules. I'm perfectly content and happy living like a recluse with my four leg buddies in the rural outskirts of Appalachia. |
Bogan Bread User ID: 53789003 Australia 02/03/2014 06:04 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Most women are ashamed of such and are desperate to cling on to someone in fear of loneliness. I do not fear it at all. I just want to try to enjoy life without people intruding. To sit on my patio and look up at the sky without someone yapping in my ear and showing me their latest tweet or whatever. Nor do I want a boyfriend who will bother me with sex and clinginess. I just want to be alone and do my own thing. That's what works for me and I LOVE it. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 2611180 I also dig the alone vibe... However, when you get older you will need someone around to turn off the coffee pot or the water faucet after you finally croak and give up the ghost. You don't want to leave behind a decomposing corpse to gross out the first responders! Some loners just walk into the wilderness when they think their body is close to dying...sad but natural I guess. |
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Trillion User ID: 47214540 United States 02/03/2014 06:07 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I love not being bothered by people during the weekends. I love not having my phone blown up every 2 minutes with texts. I love being alone and able to relax without someone yapping their mouths. I literally love being alone. It makes me happy because I don't have to deal with anyone. Walking into an empty house, travelling by myself, driving in a car with only me in it - I love it. Even when I was in school I used to work on projects by myself rather than pairing up with someone else. People are just too...irrational, selfish, and evil. Being alone is such a peaceful, wonderful thing. It's independent. I do not understand why such is diagnosed as a mental disorder. It is completely normal and OK to just want to be alone and away from the madness. Afterall, we can only really trust ourselves. I currently have no desire to date. I do see attractive men once in a while, but have no desire to build a relationship. I cannot deal with the drama , dependency, and disruption of peace that comes along with friendships and relationships. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 2611180 So do you feel the walls closing in with all the friends you made in this thread? |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 6632281 United States 02/03/2014 06:09 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | The less people you have cluttering your life, the less BS you have to put up with. One thing I've learned over the years is that most "friends" really don't give a shit about you and will abandon you when the going gets tough or when you have nothing to offer that they want. After college, I got rid of all of my fake "friends" and don't regret it one bit. It has been quite liberating, to be frank. I focus my energy socializing with a few select family members and that's about it. |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 52955363 New Zealand 02/03/2014 06:21 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | One thing I've learned over the years is that most "friends" really don't give a shit about you and will abandon you when the going gets tough or when you have nothing to offer that they want. After college, I got rid of all of my fake "friends" and don't regret it one bit. It has been quite liberating, to be frank. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 6632281 this is my exact same experience. I look back and regret that I had those school and uni "friends" and didn't wise up sooner |
K.Kool User ID: 24119449 Australia 02/03/2014 06:22 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Most women are ashamed of such and are desperate to cling on to someone in fear of loneliness. I do not fear it at all. I just want to try to enjoy life without people intruding. To sit on my patio and look up at the sky without someone yapping in my ear and showing me their latest tweet or whatever. Nor do I want a boyfriend who will bother me with sex and clinginess. I just want to be alone and do my own thing. That's what works for me and I LOVE it. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 2611180 I also dig the alone vibe... However, when you get older you will need someone around to turn off the coffee pot or the water faucet after you finally croak and give up the ghost. You don't want to leave behind a decomposing corpse to gross out the first responders! Some loners just walk into the wilderness when they think their body is close to dying...sad but natural I guess. I'd do that, if I'm still alone at the end. Appeals to me, being close to nature at the moment of death, instead of in a hospital bed, or being concerned with my family's grief. |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 36028555 United States 02/03/2014 06:58 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | One thing I've learned over the years is that most "friends" really don't give a shit about you and will abandon you when the going gets tough or when you have nothing to offer that they want. After college, I got rid of all of my fake "friends" and don't regret it one bit. It has been quite liberating, to be frank. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 6632281 this is my exact same experience. I look back and regret that I had those school and uni "friends" and didn't wise up sooner I agree with both of you. Back in the day when I smoked weed, friends were always around. Quit, and they disappeared. Recently I met two people I really liked, after moving into a new apartment complex. It didn't take long to realize they were hoping I was just a soft touch and would give my money up, or pain pills (needed) etc. I enjoy my solitude with my animals. |
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Anonymous Coward User ID: 49531429 United States 02/03/2014 07:02 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I love not being bothered by people during the weekends. I love not having my phone blown up every 2 minutes with texts. I love being alone and able to relax without someone yapping their mouths. I literally love being alone. It makes me happy because I don't have to deal with anyone. Walking into an empty house, travelling by myself, driving in a car with only me in it - I love it. Even when I was in school I used to work on projects by myself rather than pairing up with someone else. People are just too...irrational, selfish, and evil. Being alone is such a peaceful, wonderful thing. It's independent. I do not understand why such is diagnosed as a mental disorder. It is completely normal and OK to just want to be alone and away from the madness. Afterall, we can only really trust ourselves. I currently have no desire to date. I do see attractive men once in a while, but have no desire to build a relationship. I cannot deal with the drama , dependency, and disruption of peace that comes along with friendships and relationships. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 2611180 So do you feel the walls closing in with all the friends you made in this thread? |
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Anonymous Coward User ID: 53223582 United States 02/03/2014 07:07 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I love not being bothered by people during the weekends. I love not having my phone blown up every 2 minutes with texts. I love being alone and able to relax without someone yapping their mouths. I literally love being alone. It makes me happy because I don't have to deal with anyone. Walking into an empty house, travelling by myself, driving in a car with only me in it - I love it. Even when I was in school I used to work on projects by myself rather than pairing up with someone else. People are just too...irrational, selfish, and evil. Being alone is such a peaceful, wonderful thing. It's independent. I do not understand why such is diagnosed as a mental disorder. It is completely normal and OK to just want to be alone and away from the madness. Afterall, we can only really trust ourselves. I currently have no desire to date. I do see attractive men once in a while, but have no desire to build a relationship. I cannot deal with the drama , dependency, and disruption of peace that comes along with friendships and relationships. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 2611180 And do not get me wrong, if one of my family members calls me, I'll talk to them. If someone comes up to me and starts a conversation, I'll converse with them. I smile at people and ask them how their day is, so it is not like I am some sort of hermit crab hiding in its shell. I just prefer and absolutely love to be alone. When I'm done talking on the phone or conversing with someone, I like to walk away alone or sit quietly in a quiet house. Most women are ashamed of such and are desperate to cling on to someone in fear of loneliness. I do not fear it at all. I just want to try to enjoy life without people intruding. To sit on my patio and look up at the sky without someone yapping in my ear and showing me their latest tweet or whatever. Nor do I want a boyfriend who will bother me with sex and clinginess. I just want to be alone and do my own thing. That's what works for me and I LOVE it. i absolutely love it too! i have no friends that want to call and talk my ear off, i dont have to be dragged down by drama UNLESS i choose to, by watching tv or reading the internet news. the internet is PERFECT for me.i get just the right amount of social interaction if i need it. im the same as i always was...love to be alone. |
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Bogan Bread User ID: 53789003 Australia 02/03/2014 07:15 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Most women are ashamed of such and are desperate to cling on to someone in fear of loneliness. I do not fear it at all. I just want to try to enjoy life without people intruding. To sit on my patio and look up at the sky without someone yapping in my ear and showing me their latest tweet or whatever. Nor do I want a boyfriend who will bother me with sex and clinginess. I just want to be alone and do my own thing. That's what works for me and I LOVE it. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 2611180 I also dig the alone vibe... However, when you get older you will need someone around to turn off the coffee pot or the water faucet after you finally croak and give up the ghost. You don't want to leave behind a decomposing corpse to gross out the first responders! Some loners just walk into the wilderness when they think their body is close to dying...sad but natural I guess. I'd do that, if I'm still alone at the end. Appeals to me, being close to nature at the moment of death, instead of in a hospital bed, or being concerned with my family's grief. Yeah, I'd rather spend my last day on earth leaned up against a tree by a creek, watching the sun set, instead of taking my last breath in a four walled room. And as for my body, I don't really mind if animals eat it and scatter my bones across the country :). I would actually prefer that instead of being put in a box and buried, or cremated. |
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Anonymous Coward User ID: 19275249 United States 02/03/2014 07:18 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Wow Quoting: AceHole 46970364 I use to party with Hundreds of people every day when i was younger. Then Out of no ware i switched. TO YOU. And i do not talk to anyone only close family. It is Peaceful and i would not trade it for one of my party days. JUST ME:If i don't know you odds are i don't like you but meet somewhere and talk i will be very friendly and HAPPY. But i am not looking for Friends LOL. exactly, me too. |