Young men giving up on marriage: ‘Women aren’t women anymore’

Well, I've had a best friend and she's perfect in every way, but honestly she's ugly. I really don't mean to be mean about it, but it's true. I don't know if I can wake up to that every day. She makes 6 figures, but money doesn't matter to me. She'd marry me in a second. She's so cool, but super type A personality (I honestly don't know if I could keep up because I'm a quiet guy). She's so sweet, never been married, mid 40's, no kids, sweet as can be.

I'm in the confused category. I have hot young ladies in their 20's and early to mid 30's hitting on me quite frequently, but I've just lost interest, because every time I've tried they want to know my facebook account (have none) or loves to text (not me). Now that I'm in my mid 30's, personality seems to be more important, but the face.... I know that sounds bad, but she is about a 2/10 in looks and 10/10 in personality. I just don't know what to do.

I got really screwed over in my last marriage, but I know this other lady would never do that to me. And, she's at her sexual prime in her 40's, so I won't complain about that.

Confused AC.

You would be a fool to pass her up.

Hi Zoo,

I've been thinking about it, and I'm starting to agree with it. If you met her, you'd be very surprised. Not that annoying constant annoying talking that makes you fall asleep, but she has real things to say. She's a Libertarian, anti-gov, so sweet (but I'd have to take her cat in) but it may be worth it. Or I could go my own way. Still thinking about it. Yes, I might be a fool, but you're right, if I lose her now, I'll never get someone like her again. Thanks.

What's happened is that Marriage has been basically taken over by the G-v. There's zero advantages and tons and tons of disadvantages for the guy. The only one's that benefit are the woman and the g=v. And guys are getting wise to this now. Because divorce has basically been incentivized. If you're a woman and you divorce you win! And if you're the g0v you win too! Even a pre nup won't help you much now a days. The point is anything the g=v touches gets ruined unfortunately. And men are just not gonna stand for it anymore. It's not only that but most women are far more subseptiable to the brainwashing of g-v so they go along with anythng and everything the g=v and MSM is telling us. They've believe it ALL! And the guys who often are more rational and know better end up in fights or have to go along with the woman on issues that they've been brainwashed by MSM to believe are the absolute truth, when they're not! I'm not saying marriage is bad, just the dynamics have changed. it's less advantageous for a man. I'd like to get married but when I see how big bro and msm have ruined it, it just scares me.

Most sexually repressed and financially oppressed bottom feeder men are continuously reduced to having sex with genetically mutated women because they cant afford to lease any beautiful liars...Pretty cool huh?...But like it or not,admit it or not,thats the brutal truth...

The name of their evil game is the defeminization of women and the demasculinization of men as the easily misled sheeple are herded further astray down into the bottomless abyss of greed driven denial...

You are talking to a modern "liberated" women. What the hell does she care about her children? She is number 1 and number 2 and number 3, the kids might be number 4 but I seriously doubt it.

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I know women who have 3 or 4 kids from 3 or 4 different men and those women threw out everyone of those guys,one by one,after lying and saying they loved them just to get pregnant and more free ride child support,of course and the damn state and government actually backs them up and if i was running the show,those women would be forcibly sterilized because those emotionally warped women are a menace to normal society...

My ex-wife is on her fourth marriage (at age 32). I was the first, because I don't deal with baggage. She was banging two guys behind my back. I was the bread winner, she was a stay-at-home mom, and spent like crazy when I was asleep. She called the cops one day when I came home from work (worked graveyard) and said that I abused her. She literally hit herself with pots and pans and set our gun next to the bed saying that I was going to kill myself or her.

Never ever ever am I getting married again. Women are complete psychos. She got the brand new car, 75% of our savings (which was a lot) when our house was sold.

Now, I have a domestic violence record, which I never did. My last job laid me off, and can't find a new one because of this false record. When I try to explain it, they just laugh in my face.

FUCK WOMEN!

Why buy the land when you can constantly rent ?

Rather a women with whom my heart rest's with rather then a bunch of short lived thrills of excitement. Home is most warm roaming the land is an adventure but one always seeks to return home.

What do they expect when Harlot holes are chomping at the bit everywhere you turn?

Seriously,women might actually be demons in disguise,luring in men with overrated sex and stealing their souls while ruining their lives at the expense of spitting out evermore fatherless children,just so the greedy bitches can have their cake and eat it too,which the damn state and government allows them to do,because for some hushed up evil reason,the modern day witch hunt is the demasculinization and elimination of middle class men...

Most women say what they think men wanna hear,but its not what they're thinking and scheming...

All of a sudden, the Garden of Eden story makes perfect sense:

The 'woman' listened to the smooth talkin' ways of the 'serpent', who was all along trying to destroy the 'man'. All the characters fit the bill.

So, this is life then? There is always an 'anti-man' (faceless pie hole spewing silver tongued deceit) around to tempt the 'weaker half' of the life 'union'?

Is everyone playing their role perfectly, or what?

(btw- not 'religious', just pointing out!!! cheers)

Of course you could be in the garden right now, buck nekkid, inquiring about the cold draft in the area...

Actually,if your a guy whos stupid enough to get married in this empathyless compassionless loveless greed driven modern day society,then you deserve whatever happens to you,dont get married,women are manipulating liars luring men into financial death traps with their overrated sex...

Bullshit.

I have seen a woman get married at 13, stay home and raise 8 children. Take wonderful care of her husband, we are talking he says jump and she says how high. She never had a job, he didnt even ever teach her to drive.

When she turned 53, he left her for a 27 year old (moron). She couldnt drive and had no work experience.

She was fucked because she was dependent. Sucks to be her.

Women that are this stupid deserve it.

I hope it all works out for you stay at home women, but the odds are against you, by a long shot.

Well while no longer being interested in their bread and butter, women still have an inordinate amount of sympathy. Especially against the "Domineering abuse, restrictive male" who was oppressing her for so long.

Anyway, if you are any indication, sympathy exists.

Now, to go warn the younger woman about the pimping old man's money and abusive ways, only supporting his last leech until his spirit gave out, and her body was still going...

Most men I know are like that.

I always say what I think...well, that must be the reason for me not being married...

It used to be a fortunate thing to have a man that would survive whatever minor wars occurred in your nation. Now any man who exists long enough to tire of his wife, usually gets put down by her and her umbilical at the State.


Isn't nation-building grand?

Of course if a woman tires of you, it is entirely your fault for not adding an inch to your penis daily, changing your wife's history, reading her mind or making as much money as every single man she will ever meet.

The only thing it has to do with is old ancient ways that are no longer palpable in the new paradigm.

Time for women to provide the man's dowry. They should probably start making their own smithys so that they can hammer out some swords too.

The story you describe just proves that the man didnt prized her, got deceived himself or the woman got deceived herself through out life.


The relationship of people from 50 years ago that I know were all successful, married until this day, or separated only by death.


People with 70 years more were much less deceived in regards to relationship and family than people who were born just 53 years ago.

Even the people who were born 53 years ago, ended up being highly influenced by the deception.

So its not enough just to follow the Ways of the Ancient blueprint for a never ending relationship, but also BE AWARE OF NEW CORRUPTED ENVIRONMENT and take heed against it.

Why do you think "things changed"? because people failed at spotting the deception and defending their ways.

So a 53 year old woman on your example, is as much a victim of the woman with 45, or 35 years old to ALL EXTERNAL INFLUENCES/ DECEPTIONS AROUND.


The chance for a woman to find a man willing to accept her self willed, independent, rebelious, disobedient nature beyond the point of her youth/beauty is less than 1 in a 100.

The man would have to stick with the woman due to legal reasons, fear of judicial/economic/financial aftermath, fear of losing the child tutelage, etc... RATHER THAN THE FACT HE LOVES HER AND WANTS TO LIVE THE REST OF HIS LIFE WITH HER.



There is two types of man and two types of woman.
Old man, Modern Man, Old Woman, Modern Woman.

All 4 are still human beings and all 4 still want to love and be loved, BUT.

Modern Man were deceived/endocrinated/incentivized to not marry, to not create a stable family unit, to not take risks, to not take responsability, to not have children, to not share his patrimony, to no invest BEYOND FINDING A YOUNG ATTRACTIVE SEXUAL PARTNER that also works as social trophy.

And that is all because the way Modern Woman were designed to think/behave/evaluate.


Both Modern Man and Modern Woman are not compatible with each other or with either Old Man or Old Woman model.


The only design that work is the Old Man + Old Woman gender roles.

Now, you are rebelious and self willed "Modern Man" or "Modern Woman" and you were taught to "do what thou wilt".

But the consequences and limitations are obvious and negative.

Modern Woman are seen by Modern Man as having a validity date and as having to be a slave of beauty. Wich is a little ship going against the unstopable flow of the river wich is TIME / AGING.

The remaining Old Woman are ceized by the great majority of new Modern Man, wich will never evaluate them as they deserve, wich will bound her to unnatainable standards.

This is the old possible fate, because these woman will invest everything they have during their 18-30 years into a man who will not REALLY MARRY HER. She is emotionally invested and bound to a man who just uses her for sex.

And thats the woman fault for choosing this glorified stereotype of Modern Man, because she should have chosen the "Old Man" type.

If the woman goes for the "popular", "trending" male, wich is just part of the deception wich is the type of man that the media/movies sold to woman in the last 50 years.
She falls as well NO MATTER IF SHE IS THE "OLD WOMAN" TYPE.

So what we have is a huge majority of women being/falling for "Modern Woman" like man "Modern Man". These people relationship only work up to their 30's. Thats the kind of people who think that you have to "keep trying".

Modern Woman believing they have to find a man that ADDAPTS/FITS TO HER. While Modern Man wants no serious relationship compromise at all, mostly in for the sex/party =i.e. good times.

Basically, Modern Woman think they are independent, but they are just being evaluted as trophies and sexual objects.

If they happen to find an "Old Man", they are most certainly going to be disobedient, rebelious, manipulative, etc... and end up breaking the relationship themselves.

The smart woman is the one who realizes she has to find an Old Man and she has to behave as close as possible to the Old Woman. Like in their granddaddies time.

The smart man is the one who realizes he has to find an Old Woman who he knows will be 100% for him from start to finish.

What works is so easy to spot once one realize the truth at its most reduced/simplified level. You can get in a place and know right away whether someone is a Modern or Old version of the gender roles.

If you are female still insisting in this Independent Modern Woman and you are on younger than 30 years old you might scoff at this truth, because your own youth/beauty fools you.

If you are Modern Male, you will likely evade any serious/compromises in a relationship, avoiding legal marriage, children, etc. Leeching as much deceived young/beauty woman you can without none of the PERCEIVED risks.

Because you were incentivized to not commit, to not give, to not stand by, but just take it and leave it, just to hit and run.

Now, if you are an Old Male, you are very afraid of the times, afraid of woman might divorce you, take your children, your money, etc. You want to invest all your love in a relationship, but the majority of woman around are "Modern Woman" and if you dont know, you will likelly find yourself in a situation where you wasted everything and now you are alone, without your kids, without the wife you loved, etc...

See, most of the "old male", "old woman" types, from the old paradigm, if they mix/blend with the new "modern male/woman" paradigm, it will not work out.

Im pretty sure if "Old Man" meets "Old Woman" and they are aware of this whole deception/design that changed the paradigms and the gender roles in the last 50-60 years, they can STAND STILL STRONG AND NOTHING OR ANYTHING WOULD SEPARATE THEM, only death.

I once went on a date with a women in Silicon valley and at dinner she wanted to know how many stock options I had in a high tech firm.

Over 60% of marriages end in divorce and of the 40% left most are unhappy. A few get lucky and find a good partner. Men are just as shallow and full of ego just like odern women. Why get married or live with someone when you can end up paying for it financially and emotionally.

We live in a shallow world of materialism, reality TV, and service to self. Until more lift their level of consciousness you are foolish to enter into any contract with incpmplete people. Be single and be happy.

I highly doubt it....however Chinese women = damn great. It's the only thing I have to look forward to when China takes us over.

If the woman does not let man be the Flagbearer of the relationship, then the man will not do so.

Wich is much worse.

Its either Flagbearer or Evasive. Either 100% or nothing.

There is only 50-50 if the woman is a fruit ready for the ripping, when man and woman get deceived by physical appearance/youth/beauty.

Woman thinks man is giving her 50% share on the ship. When in fact its the man tolerates woman just for the sex they are going to have within a few hours.

I agree!

But what if you are a mixture of old and modern? I think that's a problem too. Trying to be a modern type but in your heart longing for the old one. A lot of people are playing a role to fit in society and go with the flow of their 'group'. Instead of being who they are and love the other (old or modern) for who he/she is...

If we all were more ignorant and less awake (like in the old days) relationships would be a lot less complicated...

I cannot wait until it is just me again.

I am happily dating right now, so I have no issues this way.
But from my experience, it seems like women deal better with being alone, than men do.
Women have more social supports with family and friends. Men tend to isolate themselves when alone, and have long benefited from being with women to have the social community.
You can see it here on glp. Men who are alone and lonely, who then blame their social problems on women....and then post ll those women bashing threads. lol