Today after some minor argue my girlfriend wanted to jump out of the window..

Next she will be calling the cops saying you abused her, shes a crazy bitch, toss her

what was the argument about?

Let me be the first:


Obviously you intend on chucking your girlfriend out the window, did she cheat or have you realized you like sucking dick too? Why do you want to kill her?

If I was you...I would just leave and never return.

You have only one life...one chance...at happiness.
Dont waste it and throw it away on a nutter.

Dont be fooled by emotions and curves.

Been there done it learnt the hard way.

RUN..WHILE YOU STILL CAN.

Don't let the sash hit you in the ass !!

My job. I am I.T. guy. I was working really hard last year and I saved a lot of money. On January I quitted my job (not very friendly atmosphere, shitty boss) and started new programing language. She is mad at me that I don't have job right now. I have a lot of money saved, I am taking some programing courses right now and I am getting ready for a new job. But she says that her friend thing it's crazy and she is mad at me though I have money, I pay more than her on our apartment etc.

....I'm not trying to be callous, but could she be premenstrual and her hormones are running amuck, making her batshit?

How long have you been on Glp? There have been a lot if threads that address similar stituations. Yes, your girlfriend is mental. Get her help then get away. If you are living together, get another place, move out, and don't tell her where you are going. Your life will be full of drama if you stay with her. Call her parents. I hope she gets help.

Nah, she's about 1.5 week after her last period. How do I know this? I like to know this because we don't want to have children and the more I know about her body the more I am in control

I am here for 10 or more years but I have never created thread about my life :)

Insurance policy paid up?


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Okay....but it does sound like you two need to go your separate ways. Not because she thought about killing herself, but because you guys argue so much and to the point she wants to kill herself.

Neither of you need that kind of bullshit in your lives....and you're both responsible, if you don't do something fast.

She's mad because you quit your job though you are paying your share? Are you saying that she is not supportive of you and your dreams for the future? She is trying to manipulate you through her bad behavoir.

She is laying a guilt trip on you. She is jealous that you are not working and she is? Does she trust you? You are not responsible for her mental well being. Encourage her to get professional help.

Read the narcissist threads.

Shitty situation. I really love her. I care about her. Maybe I should take some professional help? Jesus, it drives me insane, I really want to spend my life with her. I wish there were some cure, some fix.

Wow. Seriously, aren't you my best friend who know the whole situation? You just desribed all in 100%.
Seriously, what do you suggest more? I don't know how to talk with her about professional help.. She will say that she is allright, that she was nervous and that's all... but in her behaviour there was something really odd. Ive never seen her like that..

Maybe this friend of her told her devious things that may happen because you don't have a job, who knows...

Okay, but you don't love her enough not to argue with her and to find a rational way of discussing your issues....and I'm assuming, neither does she with you.

Counseling is a very long and tedious process....but I suppose you could go that route.

Heh, I'm glad I'm not in your position, though.....

I am going to hope you find the wisdom to get this relationship fixed up quickly, or to let go of it.

Life is too precious to be living the way youse two are living.

Last Edited by cosmicgypsy on 06/15/2019 04:20 PM

I was just going to write you back and tell you to ignore my advice because I don't know you or your stituation.

You might actually be a nice guy!

Next time tell her to wait a minute
Run downstairs saying you will catch her and break her fall.
Make a quick left and go to the nearest bar for a couple of hours.

That's because she was at an emotional breaking point. Not good.

Get married.
Thread: Wife pissed me off for the last time... Just threw Turkey out kitchen window

I dated a bi polar once lol

I remember we got in an argument and i tried to leave to cool down and she jumped in the truck .

I told her i was going to the movies and she was going to be waiting on me to get out if she she stayed in the truck . she wouldnt get out . So I start driving and she said to turn around I was like nope bitch I told you what was going to happen so now your stuck for a few hours .

She opened the do and jumped the fuck out at 35mph . I jammed on the brakes and because of this she was still in full frame cartwheeling down the road inside the doorframe view as the door was still open lol .

Ill never forget looking out the door from the drivers seat and seeing her retarded body cartwheeling down the road . hahahahah

shes a single mother now lol not my kid either

Read the narcissist threads. If she is one, get away fast and don't look back.

If she is just mental, then try counseling. Just remember that, unless you deliberately do something to hurt her, you are not responsible for her actions. She needs to learn to make sound decisions not rash hurtful decisions. If she seeks to bring harm to herself, she has issues that you cannot blame yourself for.

Gotta go. Good luck to you. I hope it works out.

Stop arguing with her, listen to what she is saying, get her to listen to what you are saying, explain you have faults, but that you want to be better for her.

Talk about this situation so you both understand the triggers, so you can interupt it before it happens again.

You both need to fight for the relationship, it is sometimes hard, but learn to hate fighting each other. Make your relationship the goal in everything.

Sometimes it just becomes just normal to argue, this is a bad place to be, but old habits can be changed so you then hate arguing.

Talk with her about this and all the fights, then talk more, as much as you can.

Pray for help, for both of you. I will also.

The simple solution is to hand her a packed bag and tell her to get the fuck out if she won't change her ways and that you refuse to put up with her bullshit.

Definitely don't listen to this guy. NEVER ever marry a woman that is mental, because you will spend the rest of your life regretting it.

I agree she reached a breaking point. Modern life is increasingly stressful and people are dealing with all manner of mental issues.

The person you love is supposed to be a refuge from all that. It sounds to me like you both need to decide whether to keep pursuing this relationship or to move on.

If you want to work it out, you need to man up and be everything for her (if you haven't). Take care of her physically and mentally, stop taking her for granted, and don't start petty arguments. She needs to do the same.

Not passing judgement as I don't know the circumstances, but I'm just saying this is how it has to be.

Last Edited by P.L.U.R. on 06/15/2019 04:39 PM

She needs help, not you. You're just stupid bc pussy. You'd better walk away if you have any common sense. She's bad news.