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Anonymous Coward User ID: 19656291 Canada 09/20/2012 07:55 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Go seek marriage counseling and try to fix your family for your kids. And for Goodness sake, don't go listening to the people on here telling you to dump your husband. Be aware that this advice has a better than even chance of coming from a mother's basement, from a 30 something, no-family of their own, dysfunctional hermit. My wife and I have been married for 28 years and have 2 grown kids who are now living on their own. Marriage is tough but if you brought kids into this world, it's worth fighting to keep it together because it's more than just 2 people involved. |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 22552125 United States 09/20/2012 07:58 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I wish i did not marry so young 0R CHOOSE my (now husband) who was my bestfriend over my boyfriend back in those years. I was blinded,confused, and STUPID. Quoting: WHY ME? 10936183 I married the guy, who fucked my bestfriend. Who critisizes me. He "WAS" everything to me, he was sweet, kindhearted and he was what I thought , was the one. I wish i had married my boyfriend instead of my bestfriend. Because now my boyfriend is my bestfriend. So many times I want to kiss him, hug him but im restricted. IM MARRIED!! AND HAVE 2 KIDS. HELP! i am not happy. but i do not want to hurt my children. They are still young. and need us as parents. I HATE MY LIFE. THE END!!! Welcome to the club honey! I married my husband and I hated my life for a few years but I stuck it out and we have been happily married for 42 years! We are very happy and well adjusted. We have 2 wonderful children! We now have a gorgeous granddaughter now in her first year of college and happy in her dorm. She will be helping children with special needs! No matter who you marry to make a good marriage it takes time. You would probably feel the same with the other guy. My husband and I are so close now that I dread the day I lose my husband. I love him and he loves me! (corny but true) You are unhappy because you are dwelling on something better. You can divorce this husband but the next one might find you in the same situation. You have to work at having a good marriage. This means making your partner happy. |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 24108157 Ireland 09/20/2012 07:59 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Yeah... real shame. But the bottom line is you got kids, so cowboy up and deal. When they're 18 you can ditch the loser and go get some young beefcake. In the meantime you could always encourage him to fuck off... Ways and means, ways and means, be a bitch, put him down, nag him and deny him sex. If he leaves then he'll have to cough up dough and he'll be the bad guy who walked on his family. If you're not ruthless enough to do that then you obviously aren't suffering that much anguish so stfu whiner. |
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eaglewolf User ID: 1925758 United States 09/20/2012 08:13 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | dear poster you sound like a self centered immature bitch you say you are restricted then say you have kids so you feel restricted because you have kids? grow up you spread like peanut butter get knocked up and have the nerve to only think of yourself i feel sorry for your kids not you and yes, you were and still are stupid |
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Anonymous Coward User ID: 23940512 Turkey 09/20/2012 08:29 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | "I wish I wasn't so stupid. My husband was my bestfriend, and he fucked my bestfriend, so I married him. I should have married my boyfriend instead, because he is my bestfriend. Damn, how I hate being so dumb!" Quoting: WHY ME? 10936183 Can you please explain your situation again, really slowly? He married to his husband because he fucked her boyfriend. |
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Anonymous Coward User ID: 13250526 Australia 09/20/2012 08:39 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | You're a fucking loser going through life like a selfish piece of shit fucking with other peoples lives. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 23812935 and you are an asshole who doesnt consider people at all. That is not even advice...it is a judgement....that is bullshit because it has nothing to help....just condemnation. You are an idiot. You could lose that mantle by learning to be a councellor. |
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Anonymous Coward User ID: 13250526 Australia 09/20/2012 08:55 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | You just hit the 7 year itch. Your previous boyfriend was not the one for you, you didnt feel the best friend connection that you did with your now husband....hence why you stuck with your best mate. You are placing crap on the now husband of doing your best girlfriend because its a way to explain your disaffection. You love your children, that much is clear and you dont want to stuff that up BUT....you dont want to stay married.....that is fine...divorce for freedom is fine. I think that you have forgotten that te world is full of men. You dont have to use your ex as a catalyst for change. In fact...you dont need a man at all to be happy. Were you ever single? Could you be single with kids? Yes you could and they dont need a replacement father! String it along if you must but divorce doesnt mean having to go for a friend to protect your arse. In fact you should make it your aim to be single.....no exes, just you and the kids and visitation rights...so you can go out and date new people occassionally. If you toss the hubby and start dating the ex.....you are just going back to square one. You need to find yourself....new spirit that doesnt include old baggage. PS the kids arent baggage....only the men are. |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 24114452 United States 09/20/2012 09:08 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Try kind of a Independent Therapy with XTC. (MDMA) Quoting: the mighty Atom This will open the (last?) Emergency Exit, when you are unable to safe your Relationship try something new! Definitely what ^^^this ^^^ guy says. XTC will change your relationship FOREVER. It'll open pathways of love you never dreamed possible. And it might cure you of your narcissism. |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 24114452 United States 09/20/2012 09:21 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | You just hit the 7 year itch. Your previous boyfriend was not the one for you, you didnt feel the best friend connection that you did with your now husband....hence why you stuck with your best mate. You are placing crap on the now husband of doing your best girlfriend because its a way to explain your disaffection. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 13250526 You love your children, that much is clear and you dont want to stuff that up BUT....you dont want to stay married.....that is fine...divorce for freedom is fine. I think that you have forgotten that te world is full of men. You dont have to use your ex as a catalyst for change. In fact...you dont need a man at all to be happy. Were you ever single? Could you be single with kids? Yes you could and they dont need a replacement father! String it along if you must but divorce doesnt mean having to go for a friend to protect your arse. In fact you should make it your aim to be single.....no exes, just you and the kids and visitation rights...so you can go out and date new people occassionally. If you toss the hubby and start dating the ex.....you are just going back to square one. You need to find yourself....new spirit that doesnt include old baggage. PS the kids arent baggage....only the men are. This person obviously does not have kids. When you kick the dad to the curb you mind fuck the kids for life. For what, your petty little fantasies? Those children are people, not dogs. They need a father to grow up healthy just as much as a mom. In your case the dad should get full custody. If your sloppy vagina wants to leave then go. But don't fuck the kids cause you gotta flick your bean. Selfish whores. |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 1310816 United States 09/20/2012 09:36 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | OP maybe this will give you some insight... [link to feeds.feedburner.com] Marriage Matters is a comprehensive workshop that will help you work towards building or rebuilding a healthy God-honoring relationship with your spouse. 1 Foundations for Healing and Growth 2 The Fall 3 Love Languages 4 Communication 5 Boundaries 6 Meeting Each Others Needs 7 Forgiveness |
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