Are wives/girls leaving their husbands/boyfriends in droves right now?

Thanks women of GLP! You have reaffirmed my conviction that the real "usery system" begins with women's attitude towards men!

haha I hope you daughter is a super model.

with no kids or stds

I agree in part.......1/20th.......to be exact.


5% high quality women out there.......and 5% high quality men.

this times one million

I was on that thread of women's cycles going wild...maybe this is part of it, too. Very interesting! I don't think men are suddenly becoming unlovable. I think the world is losing its collective mind. Where are our moarals and values? Our desire for a loving, committed relationship? Lots of people have brought up lots of valid points on this thread. Facebook, porn, acceptance of taboos, mental health issues, the economy, selifishness...Eeeeeek!!!!!

The earth may need a good cleansing....

Lots more class.......in the old days.

You got that right!!!!!! It baffles me....

I have been with my husband since we was 16 and we were each others first everything. We both came from strong family's with old fashioned values. We are in our late twenties and nearly everyone we know our age is on at least their second marriages. Most people now days do not value marriage, if they have money problems or a attractive person flirts with them off they go to greener pastures. Me and my husband has have our ups and downs, illnesses and money issues but we stayed together and prayed any time we needed quidence. Neither one of us believes in divorce unless the spouse is abusive to their spouse or children. Sad times we live in

You can spot progressive degradation in the culture......by studying film/movies......and comparing one decade to the next.


40's
50's
60's
70's
80's
90's
and Now

For example, the great majority of movies and TV shows shown today........would not even have been permitted in the 40's and 50's.

Indeed. But congratulations that you are one of the "lucky" ones! Though I will not really put it to luck, but to two people who have awareness, values and integrity.

Yes, they are leaving and arriving into my wide open arms.

You're a good soul, I pray you make it. I know a single guy in his early 30's and he says ALL of his married friends are cheating. What a sick world

Sorry you had to deal with it. What is wrong with some men these days? Seems to be a recurring theme as far as not taking care of your family and being a general asshole.

Not all men of course, some are great husbands and fathers and I don't want to lump you all together but I see what your describing more and more and I've been around more then a minute.

Just wanted to add that it seems a lot of young people don't want to work on their relationships. They are very quick to sign the divorce papers.

Last Edited by geminilion on 12/11/2012 07:15 PM

About sums it all up right here. Excellent post.

All material/worthless relationships are coming to an end.
Im seeing people all around me separating! its awesome in a way, the all end up happier!

You go girl!!!! I love hearing the success stories!!!! Sooo happy for you and yours that you were both mature enough to stick together through it! That's exactly how it should be! You and your spouse against the world. :-)

Lots more class.......in the old days.


Women, please get it through your young naive heads.
People did not have "lots more class" back then.

Sin has always been the same. Men have always been the same.
Fornicating men just find new ways to hide their fornicating ways, different places to hide.

Women did not have "more or less" class back then. Had nothing to do with these things. Women have class, remain constant, faithful, have love, grace, beauty regardless of whether they leave of stay with an unfaithful abusive spouse.

What women did have is - no - read please -
They had no options!!!! They had no freedom!!!

They did not have the options to leave a fornicating, cheating, lying, abusive husband.

They had to live with it and put up with it.

Women over the last 150 years have fought hard for women's rights so they would have freedom .. freedom to come and go if things got bad, freedom of speech, freedom to vote, freedom to write, freedom to earn money.


Back then they could not do it. They had no choices.
They had no where to turn.
Get it through your heads.

It has nothing to do with people living more graceful lives with class and dignity. That is bs and bunk!
They could not leave. They were financially dependent on their husbands. Study your history. Read some of the 19th century women writers.

I think lots of these posters who pretend to be women are really men posting bs.

Wake up and smell the stench of a barnyard full of pig dung.

That is what all these threads are.

May women have the noses to seperate the goods guys from the pigs.

oh well, you can't blame the men. These things and drugs are quite powerful and women just aren't there for men anymore.

God hates divorce (Malachi 2:16)


Therefore, I will never get one.



However......I might spend some time up on the roof top......or in the wilderness.


"It is better to dwell in the wilderness, than with a contentious and angry woman. (Proverbs 21:19)


"It is better to dwell in a corner of a housetop, than in a house shared with a contentious woman. (Proverbs 25:24)



Contentious:

1. tending to argument or strife; quarrelsome

2. causing, involving, or are characterized by argument or controversy

Did a new model of "The Rabbit" come out?

LOL, I thought this too. Can't stop a divorce once the other person has filed. Not one thing can be done about it...If one person files for divorce, the outcome is divorce. Period.

yeh, man, I have been living in the roof terrace conservatory for the last 4 years now.

I did not actually intend for this topic to turn into a male/female bashing fest. I titled it the way I did because of my personal observance of a river of women leaving men that I have seen, but there could be as many men leaving women. I believe abuse and betrayal are sufficient deal-breakers for a relationship. A lot of times people leave others for no particular reason, and this is what I've been seeing a lot of lately. People being driven apart inexplicably, usually preceded by a period of confusion and erratic behavior. I have noticed as I said this especially in regards to women leaving men in the last month or two, and when I combined it with the thread about all the strange menstruation abnormalities, mood changes, etc. If people have been noticing an unusual amount of men leaving women at this time as well that is very significant to note as well.

Animals are famed for freaking out before storms and earthquakes and such. Nobody has ever really figured out why particularly.

Perhaps human behaviors is freaking out ahead of something big as well, or perhaps just the fear of something big.

Is there a web site where I can claim a young super-model, now that she has given up or otherwise cast away her old boyfriend? The form on the site is going to have to have some places for me to check stuff like...I want a very moral super-model. I want her to be wealthy...yet, she has to be very accepting that I am not wealthy. I want her prim and proper every day...but, accepting that I may "accidentally" leave toenail clippings around. I want her to be totally infatuated with me...but, I want her hot super-model friends to hang around with us...in case I get bored with her. I am probably twice as old as her...close to her parents' age...so she doesn't need them filling our time all year long. Stuff like that...anybody know a web site...anybody?

"LOL, I thought this too. Can't stop a divorce once the other person has filed. Not one thing can be done about it...If one person files for divorce, the outcome is divorce. Period."


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Perhaps there is nothing that you can do to stop it.......but on one is forcing your hand to sign anything.


In any case.......God would know that a person is opposed to it.....


The two are both married in God's eyes......forever......no matter what a human judge determines.


Forcing someone into a divorce.......can put both of them into a future state of adultery.....in God's eyes.

Good for you.

I have seen so many "friends" talk their friends out of a wonderful life.

Few understand this is it, this moment, gone now, here again life, gone. Most when they meet and habitat with another are drawn in some manor, some need some desire, yet they let the little things build up somehow and get in the way, they forget.

If people had more friends to remind them of that time, that spark, that thing they told them about this person in the first place, if they had more friends less willing to hear only the bad stuff.

More partners less willing to go to friends and only speak when it is bad, and never tell others of the beauty, the joy they experience.

Women, perhaps men (I dont) seem to work on this level, running to friends when the going gets tough, looking for the friend they left sitting alone, who most likely would ultimately like to know if there were a problem that could be remedied.

If they somehow would not let "life" get in the way, and continue to connect as they once did.

Nowadays most women want: money, go shopping, be posers, avoid reminders of their age, do nothing, and fuck like a turtle : that is doing nothing.

Even 45-60 years old just want to think "oh i am so fine and sexy", when in fact, most of them are ruined, poor, ugly, fat, and a piss poor excuse for an guy to want to fuck them.

honestly, teens or matures, it's just a fuck and bye bye game.

I ain't using my money to please your low life needs.

:)

best of all to anyone married and trusting these bitches. :P