Dating at 40 is horrible...fuck boys everywhere

Woman have so much power in society, but the media drives home relentlessly that they are oppressed. This leads to women never being satisfied, always feeling persecuted and not understanding the damage they cause. They don't understand the world waits on them hand and foot and then they feel justified in asking for more, even destroying what they have because they're sure they deserve more.
This is true in politics, family, finance and in work, except in the workplace it's too much pressure to ask for a raise, so they get the government to do it for them using their false narrative of oppression.

What ever. I'm in my mid 30s and I can't see any other option than ghosting. I got the game and swagger I didn't have in my 20s and not a single woman makes settling down seem worth while. I wish we could find a solution though. I would've had a family by now

who wants to date someone that they can't have a kid with? there is a reason ur 40 and single and it isn't because of "fuck boys" you are just used up trash waiting for menopause. good luck in ur next lifetime because you failed hard in this one.

Yup ur a confirmed male!

Knowing how to deal with women is better than a sex doll. Keep that door open and eject her ass the moment she gets disrespectful.

That said try to banter and see if she can take a playful shot or two if she sends them at you, a challenge for dominance is fun, since after all she ISNT a sex doll, but if all she wants is to dominate you then she'll learn her lesson when you leave her alone on the curb and drive off

God women are so fucked up she'll probably blow you for stranding her. Women are so insecure now a days the last thing they want is actual compassion.

I tried flowers and chocolates a long time ago, I learned my lesson fast.

OP put ton of mileage on her vagina and have ton of kids
and now she want a single guy , no baggage , no kids,
tall, handsome , have lots of $$ , .........

gtfo

Its rough out there. A lot of men and women living in persistent adolescence. Most of my single male friends act like their 16 and looking for a sex and a mom to do everything. Most of them are closeted narcissists looking for a weak one to latch onto and haven't expanded their egos past a high school level.

The females are no prizes either. 40 year old single women worried about tattoos and what bands a a guy listens to like their 16. Then taking the crash drama to social media, why cant i meet a nice guy/provider. Dating is a shit show on all sides right now. Im so glad Im married. If I wasn't i'd be screwed at 5'4. There's a shit ton of soulless 30 year old fuckboys.

None of that convinces me a sex doll isnt better. Sounds like a lot of bullshit to put up with to get your dick wet.

So how much time do you give the previous father with their children?

I am not claiming this is you, but being in your situation maybe you could shed some light on this one for me. Why do single mothers try with all of their might to cut the fathers our of their children's lives after separation? Why is there no honor or integrity in this aspect of allowing equal time? I have seen it time and time again.

Single mothers are scumbags. You should have supported your husband, filth.

A lot of men in your age/availability bracket -

Got treated badly by women they committed to
Got milked for a couple of kids, whereupon wife lost interest
Got used for majority of their income with minority say in how it got spent
Found out the hard way, in the modern world, there is little if any benefit to the man in a marriage relationship where the investment of decades of his life, love and money counts for little or nothing in the eyes of a wife who is "bored now!" and is looking for greener pastures.


You are finding yourself competing against a lot of other women in your age/availability category, most of whom treated their former husbands (or baby-daddies) as listed in the forgoing. And against a growing number of women who are disillusioned to learn that men are learning the deck is solidly stacked against them finding long-term happiness in a marital relationship.

I understand, totally, that in the pre-liberation era, women had some problems and unfairness to contend with. These days, the problem is turned on it's head... most of the REAL problems women faced in the 40's & 50's have been dealt with but the trade-off is, men have been placed in such a position of profound disadvantage that the more successful of them are saying "enough" and opting out of marital bondage in favor of more "flexible" arrangements... and only the "loser" males who can't make it on their own, or who haven't yet woken up to smell the coffee, are still out there looking for the kind of commitment you are talking about. It simply costs them TOO MUCH for the perceived benefit (which in many cases, never lived up to it's promise by a long shot).

Women don't realize it yet... but (mostly) they have done it to themselves.

give this man an applaud, can't be said any clearer

And you spend every penny of it on them, right?

I don't even bother dating anymore...
It's all just a string of hot mess stories for my eventual autobiography.

pics?

So, you want to be supported and financially pleasured by a partner but don't want to pleasure in return the way your partner wants?

Now who's the whining little entitlement narcissist?

Must include legs and ass without camouflage, and be recent without retouching

Agreed. I'm totally fine just co-parenting and enjoying my 50-60% time I get with my sons. The other 40-50% of the time their Mom has them I have accomplished so much more then when I was married to the wrong woman and constantly arguing and beating myself up over stress. I dated my ass off when I was young, I then plunged into marriage got the T-shirt, and now all I want to do is just make sure my sons are gentlemen, they're safe, and turn out better than me. Doing that in todays society is literally a full time job with what's in pop culture now and I would not be able to do this dating...even though sometimes I do miss the companionship. Anyway I'm gonna step off my soapbox now. Cheers everybody.

Did I say I wanted any of that.. no, I don’t care if he has kids, I just don’t want to hear about how a guys ex screwed him over etc. I don’t talk bad about my kids’ father because after all, I chose to be with him. I didn’t say anything about money either. So you gtfo

So you kicked his ass out so he would not have to put up with your lies and cheating anymore eh?

Fancy that...a woman with a concience.

No pics..

No man in his right mind would 'settle down' with you. You have nothing worth the cost of doing that. Not one thing. I'm going out on a limb (sarcasm) and gonna say you have a bit of an ego problem.

a decent dildo with mega batteries and a good sexy book dear thats what you get no dinner no show no man to hold your hand for eternity

do you at least do Anal?

Who said anything about anyone taking care of me. I want a committed relationship. Someone to do things with. To grow old with, that I can trust and abide in, that I would take care of in every way possible. Not someone that wants down my pants for probably 5 minutes and it wouldn’t even be worth my time or effort to take off my clothes. It’s not they type of men I pick. It’s every man. I have talked to construction workers, a male nurse, an attorney, a painter and a guy that owns his own business. They all have said the same, just want to hit it and quit it due to being recently divorced. I am not spreading my vagina for every jerk that says hi to me, so after I told them no, they didn’t speak to me. This is why I am saying I will remain single. You are all jaded and it’s not my fault