How can I tell the source of porn I found in husband's stash.

How can I tell when he last looked at it?

the OP isnt lesbian,


she's Asexual


She does not want sex, any sex, at all,

which honestly is fine.


The problem though is COMMON SENSE would say ok you're asexual, so be by yourself,


but women like the OP want to find a man to PLAY HOUSE with,

and then go into ASEXUAL Mode,

which is evil, and sneaky, and shady,

more than anything the guy looking at porn is doing,

in my opinion.


Asexuality (sometimes referred to as nonsexuality),[1][2][3] in its broadest sense, is the lack of sexual attraction to others[4][5][6] or the lack of interest in sex.[6][7] It may also be considered a lack of a sexual orientation.[8] One commonly cited study published in 2004 placed the prevalence of asexuality at 1%.[8][9]
Asexuality is distinct from abstention from sexual activity and from celibacy, which are behavioral and generally motivated by factors such as an individual's personal or religious beliefs;[10] sexual orientation, unlike sexual behavior, is believed to be "enduring".[11] Some asexual people do engage in sexual activity despite lacking a desire for sex or sexual attraction, due to a variety of reasons, such as a desire to please romantic partners or a desire to have children.[6]
Only recently has asexuality started to become accepted as a sexual orientation and a field of scientific research,[4][6][12][13] and a growing body of research from both sociological and psychological perspectives has begun to coalesce.[6] While some researchers assert that asexuality is a sexual orientation, others disagree,[12] and various asexual communities have started to form since the advent of the Internet and social media. The most prolific and well-known of these communities has been the Asexual Visibility and Education Network (AVEN), which was founded in 2001.

I was married for a long time....

My now ex wife, never really liked sex... she was frigid. We went to lots of different kinds of counseling, but none of it seemed to help.

During counseling I found out that she had never masterbated or had an orgasm, up to the age of 30, before we met.

For years I tried to be understanding.... and went along with trying to make things better for her, but she didn't do her part.

Eventually I understood my part in it, I always chose women that were unavailable to me....

But over time I got sick and tired of her constant complaints, and dis satisfactions with the world...

So I divorced her. And though it cost me lots of money, and years of being raged at in court and on the phone, it was worth it to be free of her....

and now many years later she still doesn't understand why I divorced her... and a few years ago demanded an explanation...

She still doesn't get it...

So my advice is, open up and enjoy, Marriage can be a great place to explore sexuality, don't let hang ups ruin it.

Honey...you NEED to believe me when I tell you your husband IS a lying dog.... YOU DO NOT GET 7 FOLDERS OF PORNO FROM A VIRUS!!... He rhinks you are so dumb that you will not know that THERE IS NO VIRUS!! Want further verification... call your local pc repair service and ask them..then confront your husband and ASK HIM HOW MANY AFFAIRS HE HAS HAD SINCE YOU'VE BEEN MARRIED! If he says "none" ....pack his clothes up for him and send his sorry butt to the nearest hotel. You can install a program on you're computer that is hidden and will tell you EVERYTHING he does online. Check your history on the pc and see where he has been surfing...if the history is deleted after he has been online you have all you need to know!!

another American female,


enraged that a husband who gets no sex is looking at porn


ahahah


seriously how did women in the USA get so fucking obnoxious and stupid

I was married for a long time....

My now ex wife, never really liked sex... she was frigid. We went to lots of different kinds of counseling, but none of it seemed to help.

During counseling I found out that she had never masterbated or had an orgasm, up to the age of 30, before we met.

For years I tried to be understanding.... and went along with trying to make things better for her, but she didn't do her part.

Eventually I understood my part in it, I always chose women that were unavailable to me....

But over time I got sick and tired of her constant complaints, and dis satisfactions with the world...

So I divorced her. And though it cost me lots of money, and years of being raged at in court and on the phone, it was worth it to be free of her....

and now many years later she still doesn't understand why I divorced her... and a few years ago demanded an explanation...

She still doesn't get it...

So my advice is, open up and enjoy, Marriage can be a great place to explore sexuality, don't let hang ups ruin it.

Fuck you.

here is my advice from being in a relationship with a woman

EXACTLY Like your ex wife, and narrowly averting a marriage with her where i would of also been raped financially in a divorce;


These women WILL NOT Change, they are very happy being blood sucking evil bitches, who refuse sex, and look at men as an ATM machine;


learn to sniff them out and avoid them;


from my ex:


1. way way way too into dogs. Those Obnoxious little Paris Hilton dogs that women like to carry around with them.


2. way way way too into shopping. Her life was shoe shopping and buying handbags.

3. She thought her life was an episode of Sex In The City, and would actually quote the show at times.


^ those were the weird sort of red flags you'd get without getting to know her


Once you got to know her, the CRAZY started little by little til it was a raging river;


4. Daddy Issues; always talking about Daddy, and crying for no reason.

5. admitting to seeing many psychiatrists, having Eating Disorders, cutting herself, being suicidal.

6. admitting to faking being happy to MEET A GUY

7. admitting to being on a shit ton of psychiatric medicine

8. Then Full Fledged CRAZY



Now, I know there is a mangina beta guy out there right now probably readign this thinking,


Im CAPTAIN Save a bitch,

i'll rescue the crazy lady,


trust me, the only thing that will happen is you'll end up as crazy as she is,

and a lot poorer,



Learn to spot them,


and run,


and google MGTOW while you re at it.

I am obviously a woman and I have never understood the reason why most women get so upset over their men looking at porn.

I honestly do not see the big deal.

Honey...you NEED to believe me when I tell you your husband IS a lying dog.... YOU DO NOT GET 7 FOLDERS OF PORNO FROM A VIRUS!!... He rhinks you are so dumb that you will not know that THERE IS NO VIRUS!! Want further verification... call your local pc repair service and ask them..then confront your husband and ASK HIM HOW MANY AFFAIRS HE HAS HAD SINCE YOU'VE BEEN MARRIED! If he says "none" ....pack his clothes up for him and send his sorry butt to the nearest hotel. You can install a program on you're computer that is hidden and will tell you EVERYTHING he does online. Check your history on the pc and see where he has been surfing...if the history is deleted after he has been online you have all you need to know!!

About a year ago i found porno images on my computer.

My husband explained it was probably a computer virus.

I believed him.

Well, tonight, I found a CD with several files on it that are very similar (if not THE SAME) as the pics I found about a year ago.

I am trying to figure out which came first....if the CD was his and therefore the pics on my computer came from porn he already had...

OR.....

If the virus came first and he saved the pics.

Either way, the fact that he has this CD at all is fucked up.

The CD contains 7 folders.

If it originally came from a virus, would it already be organized by folders?

The last time it was ''modified'' was in spring of 2011, and I can't remember exactly when it was that I found the pics on the computer.

Does ''last modified'' mean that's the last time he looked at it?

Or just the last time he saved something on it?

Also, any way to tell the origin of these pics.

OP, you need to give it up more often in more ways. How about making his dreams come true?

Pornagraphy is the devil's canduy

what a bunch of douchers....

intelligent, healthy men are not addicted to porn. they are repulsed by it. there are HUGE problems with porn addiction, it is a real issue, so fuck you all for making it like OP is the one with an issue.

WTF? You have a problem with your husband watching porn? Jesus. Poor guy.

As someone said, mind your own business. Your husband pleasuring himself is his perfectly natural and his business only.

It makes some of us women feel bad, like we're being cheated on and we are, they're having fantasies about other women. It's not good for a marriage.

Pornagraphy is the devil's canduy