What to do when your BF says "go make me a sandwich" ? | |
Barbie Chaos (OP) User ID: 13212703 Puerto Rico 12/24/2012 07:54 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Instead of being all sneaky about it and trying to get advice from people on the internet, why don't you TALK to him? He can't read your mind, tell him how you feel, and make sure he's paying attention. We tend to drift away when we feel as if we're approached in a negative tone, at least I've caught myself doing the same thing. Quoting: Se7en Just be straight with him. Damn. exactly women are sneaky dumb creatures, their only purpose is being fucked by men, nothing else Die. |
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Barbie Chaos (OP) User ID: 13212703 Puerto Rico 12/24/2012 07:58 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I was talking to my boyfriend about something very important and all of a sudden he interrupted me and said "go make me a sandwich" ... I was so annoyed by that! I tried to keep a serious face but like I said before I cannot keep a straight face.... umm ... so I just ignored him for the rest of the day and he had to sleep alone. ... umm what should I do the next time? Quoting: Barbie Chaos Ask about the preferred ingredients, whether to toast the bread or not, etc, and go make it. nah... too much work. |
Barbie Chaos (OP) User ID: 13212703 Puerto Rico 12/24/2012 07:58 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Why is this even a question? You go make him his sammich....and some pie while you're at it. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 30108220 I only do that when i feel like doing that. Doesn't sound like a good relationship. A healthy relationship requires sacrifices on both ends. yes but he is just my boyfriend |
Barbie Chaos (OP) User ID: 13212703 Puerto Rico 12/24/2012 08:00 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I was talking to my boyfriend about something very important and all of a sudden he interrupted me and said "go make me a sandwich" ... I was so annoyed by that! I tried to keep a serious face but like I said before I cannot keep a straight face.... umm ... so I just ignored him for the rest of the day and he had to sleep alone. ... umm what should I do the next time? Quoting: Barbie Chaos wash your hands and make the MAN HIS SANDWICH not with that attitude ! |
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Barbie Chaos (OP) User ID: 13212703 Puerto Rico 12/24/2012 08:01 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I was talking to my boyfriend about something very important and all of a sudden he interrupted me and said "go make me a sandwich" ... I was so annoyed by that! I tried to keep a serious face but like I said before I cannot keep a straight face.... umm ... so I just ignored him for the rest of the day and he had to sleep alone. ... umm what should I do the next time? Quoting: Barbie Chaos A really good guy NEEDS a woman for food, sex, and nurturing. Generally it's much better to do the feminine thing and provide food, sex, and cleanliness, while he works his ass off keeping you in house and home. This pattern works for a lifetime. The others don't. NEVER withhold sex over an argument, or it will get completely out of hand. I understand.... but we are not married and we do not live in the same house lol and if we get married I will have a job too .... I don't want to be a housewife ... at least not for now.... i want to be a scientist. I wish you all the best with this dream! I have had a wonderful and satisfying career as engineer/scientist. Go for it!! Thank you :) , I am studying Industrial Biotechnology |
geminilion User ID: 12895036 United States 12/24/2012 08:01 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | You can never go wrong when bacon is involved, unless he's a Muslim of course. ..."The soul is dyed the color of its thoughts. Think only on those things that are in line with your principles and can bear the light of day. The content of your character is your choice. Day by day, what you choose, what you think, and what you do is who you become. Your integrity is your destiny ... it is the light that guides your way." Heraclitus |
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Life and Love User ID: 26735250 United States 12/24/2012 08:02 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | ... Quoting: Anonymous Coward 30600881 A really good guy NEEDS a woman for food, sex, and nurturing. Generally it's much better to do the feminine thing and provide food, sex, and cleanliness, while he works his ass off keeping you in house and home. This pattern works for a lifetime. The others don't. NEVER withhold sex over an argument, or it will get completely out of hand. I understand.... but we are not married and we do not live in the same house lol and if we get married I will have a job too .... I don't want to be a housewife ... at least not for now.... i want to be a scientist. I wish you all the best with this dream! I have had a wonderful and satisfying career as engineer/scientist. Go for it!! Thank you :) , I am studying Industrial Biotechnology I taught electrical engineering at two universities years ago... they didn't even have Industrial Biotechnology then! Sounds fascinating! We become like that to which we are devoted. - Choose wisely. |
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Barbie Chaos (OP) User ID: 13212703 Puerto Rico 12/24/2012 08:05 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Sounds like you need to put your foot down now. You are are supposed to be his girlfriend, not his slave. If you allow him to boss you around now, then there is no hope for you too in the future. Unless of course you like being treated like a slave. In that case, you lose the right to ever complain about it. Quoting: samanthasunflower If you weren't busy and he asked nicely, then go ahead and make the sandwich. He of course should be changing the oil in your car and doing other manly things to hold up his end of the bargain. Either he respects you or he doesn't. Sounds like he doesn't. Well... you have opened my eyes a bit more ... you're right i do my part and he does his part (but manners first).... i never thought about it that way. |
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Saratonin User ID: 6418504 United States 12/24/2012 08:06 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I silently make it but the next time he wants sex you take your dildo out when he is doing you and ram it in his ass. He wont ask you for a sandwich anymore ;) My Blog - [link to blog.emergencyoutdoors.com] Online Survival Store - [link to www.emergencyoutdoors.com] Heirloom (Non-GMO) Survival Seeds - [link to www.emergencyoutdoors.com] |
Life and Love User ID: 26735250 United States 12/24/2012 08:06 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Sounds like you need to put your foot down now. You are are supposed to be his girlfriend, not his slave. If you allow him to boss you around now, then there is no hope for you too in the future. Unless of course you like being treated like a slave. In that case, you lose the right to ever complain about it. Quoting: samanthasunflower If you weren't busy and he asked nicely, then go ahead and make the sandwich. He of course should be changing the oil in your car and doing other manly things to hold up his end of the bargain. Either he respects you or he doesn't. Sounds like he doesn't. Well... you have opened my eyes a bit more ... you're right i do my part and he does his part (but manners first).... i never thought about it that way. A thought just occurred to me: In 40 years of marriage, I cannot remember ever saying to my wife, "Go make me a sandwich." We become like that to which we are devoted. - Choose wisely. |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 2169888 United States 12/24/2012 08:07 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I was talking to my boyfriend about something very important and all of a sudden he interrupted me and said "go make me a sandwich" ... I was so annoyed by that! I tried to keep a serious face but like I said before I cannot keep a straight face.... umm ... so I just ignored him for the rest of the day and he had to sleep alone. ... umm what should I do the next time? Quoting: Barbie Chaos You remind him to say "please" and then go make him a sandwich with love. Be certain to tell him that when you do things for him it's because you love him, not because it's what he expects you to do. |
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Anonymous Coward User ID: 2426721 United States 12/24/2012 08:11 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I was talking to my boyfriend about something very important and all of a sudden he interrupted me and said "go make me a sandwich" ... I was so annoyed by that! I tried to keep a serious face but like I said before I cannot keep a straight face.... umm ... so I just ignored him for the rest of the day and he had to sleep alone. ... umm what should I do the next time? Quoting: Barbie Chaos Be humble and go make him a sandwich! The worst thing that can happen to a person is pride - God is pleased with humility! Btw (respectfully) quit living in sin - quit sleeping out of wedlock and get married! Surrender fully to Jesus Christ! |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 30718241 United States 12/24/2012 08:12 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Make him a samich and bring back a bj while you are there? Quoting: Anonymous Coward 30718241 just guessing. I don't think sex and food are a good combination. You might be giving yourself way too much credit there, I would think the sandwich would be gone before the zipper was down. But then if you cant make a sandwich, most likely not very good with zippers either, so could be there all night anyway doing nothing. |
Barbie Chaos (OP) User ID: 13212703 Puerto Rico 12/24/2012 08:13 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | ... Quoting: Barbie Chaos I understand.... but we are not married and we do not live in the same house lol and if we get married I will have a job too .... I don't want to be a housewife ... at least not for now.... i want to be a scientist. I wish you all the best with this dream! I have had a wonderful and satisfying career as engineer/scientist. Go for it!! Thank you :) , I am studying Industrial Biotechnology I taught electrical engineering at two universities years ago... they didn't even have Industrial Biotechnology then! Sounds fascinating! Yeah they don't have it in many universities. It is very interesting.. I can't believe all of the things i've learned. |
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