'We're married, we just don't have sex'

Was it really that awful?

Yes.

Was it with your husband? There are classes that can fix that, you know.

A little bit of tastefully done porn can spark some ideas as well.

naaa... all of you wimpy fucks who tout how live is good without sex are just trying to justify in your own minds why you can't get laid.

here's a clue - look in the mirror, you unattractive dorks.

This is a two way street. There is an ability to transmute desire to higher faculties. Sublimating the sexual impulse to ones will, in other words riding the horse instead of it taking you where it wants.
I know of a married couple who like the OP have gotten so close that they get extremely telepathic at times.
The saying that "two become one" can be realized in marriage or a truly loving relationship. It can be accomplished with sex or without. There are benefits to both. Either way it's Shiva and Shakti.

It is posts like this that the OP thinks she is so much more evolved than the rest of us lowly life forms. Don't give her anymore ammunition.

see now you are getting judgmental against the people who enjoy hot sweaty sex with their partners, nothing wrong with laying in bed together ready to go to sleep and feeling your spouse next to you, I as a woman love the scent of my husband and the sound of his deep voice that TURNS ME ON AND MAKES ME WANT HIM...sex is disgusting with strangers, one night stands, no respect for one's self but with the person you love its amazing...maybe you guys don't love each other?

I think some here don't understand what you exactly mean when you speak about 'disgusting'.

From my own experience, i can tell that the longer you didn't indulge in physical sexual activities (which means no orgasms at all while practicing sexual abstinence) - consciously - the more disgusting the act itself becomes. The more your energy-level rises, through abstinence, the more you begin to see the 'disgustingness' of sex.

Following my 'theory' it becomes clear that having sex and creating a new living being is indeed a very serious sacrifice leave alone the act of sex for recreational purposes without having the creation of a child in mind.

The 'civilized' view of sexuality is an abomination.

then please explain the feeling of sexual arousal when all I have to do is lay next to my husband?, isn't that normal? is that civilized?

I will assume the wife has brainwashed the hubby into believing he doesnt really want/need sex. She probably has had plenty of cock stuffed into her anus and vagina and mouth. She is essentially 'fucked out'. As well, she may even have hideous herpes or other std sores/scabs/scars/lesions that she needs to hide, hence its tough to explain how she used to gangbang the brothas back in day. Or...she is a tranny/hermaphrodite and needs to hide that malformed snausage dangling into her five oclock shadowed vulva.

OP.... you have been duped by a defective wife...she is messed up somehow down south. You need to check her cooter asap.

No. It was with my ex-boyfriend. One day later, our relationship was over. And then two years later I met the most perfect human being ever, who is now my husband. We have never had any sort of sexual experiences with each other :D.

By the way, we don't need fixing, but YOU and the rest of the like-minded people need modifying.

OP don't listen to this douche^^ you are not abnormal, you are fine.

I know, AC ;)

OP is a woman.

Men that don't want sex are probably repelled by the smell of pussy. For others its an aphrodisiac.

I agree with the exception that OP thinks that sex is disgusting. We don't think of it as disgusting.

No such thing, guys.

My husband and I are just evolved humans.

Look, whatever you and your husband choose to do or not do is up to the two of you. What I meant by "fix" in that post was that if the two of you had some bad sex, there are classes that can help that.
In terms of "fixing" you and your husband, I simply think that you two are missing out on a great gift of Nature and God. The intimacy that I experience when with my husband (such as last night, on the spur of the moment) is an amazing experience of intimacy.
When the two of us are together, we focus on one another, not on ourselves. Truly, it's a moment of complete giving and receiving; complete trust.

No, it isn't what you think. The whole act of "sex" is disgusting, animalistic, and completely unnecessary for having an extremely spiritual and connected intimate relationship. You have NO idea how much I am in love with my husband, and he with me.

I completely understand the OP. In fact, for some reason, I've always regarded people who dwell on sex, or who want to talk about boobies or "hot guys" as being simpletons/dullards. I am not saying that to be rude towards others here who feel differently,so please don't take it as such. I don't know why I feel this way, I just do, and always have. To me, people who go gaga over strip clubs, or think constantly about "getting some" or constantly thinking about "boys or girls" not only didn't interest me, it actually turns me off and made me think somewhat less of them. Girl or guy, man or woman.


I'm married, I don't make a point of abstaining from sex, I have a child. It has nothing to do with not having had "good sex" or being ill in some way, it's just not THAT interesting to me.

You can post as many hearts and flowers that you like, but you're being quite rude. You post your business here and expect people to what, not disagree? I assumed you wanted an open discussion but you've been very disrespectful and narrow-minded. I never called you odd, nor any other name, nor maliciously criticized you in any way.

Lighten up sweet cheeks and ponder the thought 'to each their own.'

Or you're just a troll and an obnoxious one at that. If that it then you are a sad, sad individual.

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it is normal when you have a 'normal' sex life as 'defined' by the culture you grew up in/with, which is very one sided or very much tainted and corrupted by religious doctrines.

For a reason i don't would like to unfold, at a certain time in my life, i began to stop to follow the 'normal' path such an 'arousal' would implicate - 'normally' physical sex and eventually one or several orgasms. I was curious and i would like to know more about that 'arousal', i would like to know what IT really is. The more time that went by without indulging, the harder it got to not follow the 'normal' path, but i 'succeeded'. I began to see that IT, this 'energy', is only sexual at a certain level of frequency, and that this 'energy'/IT is something completely different at a 'higher' level, something very very precious, not sexual in the common sense at all. I have no words to describe the beauty of IT.

For many people nowadays sexuality is the only way to lower ones 'energy'-level to be able to function within 'civilized' society, this society which is defined by limitations. There are less and less options to express this energy, to follow its 'higher' aspirations without being ridiculed from all sides.

This energy i speak about doesn't know any limitations, it doesn't accept any limitations, whatever those limitations are or may be.

It's not complicated to understand the reason why sexualization runs rampant in our 'civilized' society.

You have delusions of grandeur. If you are a woman OP, then I can say if your hubby seems content without having sex with YOU then he is either secretly gay and using you as a cover. And/or he is a pedophile too. Hookers can get expensive, even cheap ones add up over the course of a week/month pretty fast. So unless your're rich and he can hide the fact he spends hundreds or thousands a month on hookers, then its gotta be he is on the down low. You seem smug and proud and almost bragging how you and your hubby are so superior that you dont need to fuck. Joke is on you, as he is plugging a fecal encrusted sphincter somewhere else. Eventually, he will grow tired of the cover of marital bliss and just shack up with his male cornholer. Or somehow he will get busted when you come home early one day and see him taking a load of cocksnot in his tonsils. You wont be so fucking superior then, will you?

I'm sorry you can't handle the truth.

Completely inaccurate.

I really understand what you said here, great post Switzerland

The good news?

As per OP's testimony, evolved humans are FINALLY here!

The bad news?

They are only here for one generation. : (




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I hope not :(

Yes, it does ;).