'We're married, we just don't have sex' | |
A Pimp Named Slick Back User ID: 24419860 United States 11/30/2012 09:35 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | |
Anonymous Coward (OP) User ID: 28709988 Australia 11/30/2012 09:54 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Not for me. I think "sex" is disgusting and only the under-developed minds crave it and/or need it. This is the proof that you're not coming from a spiritual place regarding your avoidance of sex. If you you saw sex as something beautiful, but something you've decided to not participate in, then it would be different. Nope, it's simply low testosterone which means you have a highly elevated risk of cancer later on. There's probably not enough fat in your diet, which means your brain will also become diseased. this AC nailed it here. You can tell alot about someone, how they describe themselve's. Someone who thinks one of our greatest pleasures and a way to physically become emotionally entangled with their partner is disgusting, is not playing with a full deck of cards. That AC was way off the mark. |
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Anonymous Coward User ID: 21738912 United States 11/30/2012 09:58 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | ... Quoting: Anonymous Coward 28709988 Not for me. I think "sex" is disgusting and only the under-developed minds crave it and/or need it. Sorry, but that's just wrong. I've got a genius IQ and have done many valuable things in my life. Sex is EVERYTHING as far as enjoyment and fulfillment. WTF is the point of getting married if you don't have sex? That is the reason most guys get married at all, other than to have someone to cook and clean. As a married guy, you have a right to sex from your wife. That's the "valuable consideration" that she brings to the marriage contract. Otherwise, there's nothing there, and if there's no consummation, then you are technically not married. You're spiritually stagnant . ^ this. i told my fiance if the sex was that damned important go find a fuck buddy. I want love. He gets sex when he gets the love part right. He seems to think being engaged obligates my pussy to his peewee. |
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Anonymous Coward User ID: 21738912 United States 11/30/2012 10:26 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | ... Quoting: Anonymous Coward 28709988 Not for me. I think "sex" is disgusting and only the under-developed minds crave it and/or need it. You are afraid of sexual intimacy you should get some therapy before your body doesn't work any longer. Sex is the act of creating life but also creates great pleasure for the body and mind and also builds confidence and the clouds also look really fluffy when you getting some coochie on a regular basis. You should embrace this life while you are here not avoid it. It is a learning experience, well for those of us aren't turned into mindless media spoon fed dribbling idiots. I'm not afraid of it, I just find it no way appealing or pleasant. I honestly, find even the thought of it disgusting. My husband and I have developed beyond that basic animal instinct, and our lives with each other are perfect. Plus, if you can only build confidence though such acts, you are a seemingly dormant "human" being. People can absolutely be in love without sex. That is possible. But, it's very unlikely that this marriage will last without sex. One of you, most likely your husband, will eventually want it, which is normal and healthy. You're missing out on the one thing that can bring the 2 of you even closer together. Instead of completely shutting your mind off to it, try working on it as it is a healthy part of a marriage. I have never met a man that didn't want sex. I think something is wrong with this scenario. I hope it works out for you tho OP. Maybe you really did meet the 1 man on the face of the earth that hates sex, but I"m having a hard time believing that. Who knows. I actually know a dude that had sex with one person really and preferred asexual in general. To think of sex was gross to him, whether it be straight, gay, or lesbian sex. He loved/obsessed over this one woman but he was fine with rarely having sex with her too because the thinking of sex repulsed him so much. I think for me it is as someone else said. Sex is an extension of my love for someone. I like fucking but when it isnt fun anymore, thats it. I just cant have sex willy nilly until the love component catches up. I want the connection and not just banality of sex because he will just die without it. cant just spend three hours gaming hop on for a go and nod off to dreamland and expect sex to continue with your chick, guys. Lmao. |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 27242616 United States 11/30/2012 10:26 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I feel like this is a simple example of why the world will never get along.....way too many points of view... I am all for freedom, freedom of thought , expression etc....but take a simple thing like sex and see how differently people react and we depend on these same people to tell us what is right and wrong in our own lives, pass laws , go to war etc. I love that people have different points of views on things it makes for wonderful discussions..but how are we as a whole going to ever accomplish anything on this planet if we can't get past something as primitave and natural as sex? |
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071676 User ID: 28709102 United States 11/30/2012 10:30 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I dunno man... reproduction is an instinct. One you can supress yes, but totaly? I dunno man. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 27428056 Make love to you lady's mind, not her body :) I tried, but she wouldn't take it in far enough. The truth is, my wife and I haven't had sex in eight years. I am old, she is old, and by the time we finally crawl into bed, all we want is sleep. She is also the best reason for declining sex. The biggest question I have about sex is why it is suppose to be so damn exciting. I have never understood why GOD would put an recreation center right next to a toxic waste dump., unless it isn't suppose to be an recreation center. |
Urban User ID: 6566746 United States 11/30/2012 10:31 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | i told my fiance if the sex was that damned important go find a fuck buddy. I want love. He gets sex when he gets the love part right. He seems to think being engaged obligates my pussy to his peewee. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 21738912 The better question for you is: why is this person your fiance if you aren't even sexually compatible? You clearly still have issues in that department. I for one would certainly not be engaged to someone in those circumstances. "There wouldn’t be such a thing as counterfeit gold if there were no real gold somewhere." -–Sufi Proverb |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 27242616 United States 11/30/2012 10:34 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I am human...I am female...I am animal....I have instinct....I am lioness.....HEAR ME ROAR when my husband , my best friend, my soulmate, my lover , ..... wants to get all tangled up! :) |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 27242616 United States 11/30/2012 10:36 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | My husband and I have developed beyond that basic animal instinct, and our lives with each other are perfect. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 27242616 I am human...I am female...I am animal....I have instinct....I am lioness.....HEAR ME ROAR when my husband , my best friend, my soulmate, my lover , ..... wants to get all tangled up! :) ** edit** The top part of that was a quote from op....the later half was my response |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 21738912 United States 11/30/2012 10:45 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | i told my fiance if the sex was that damned important go find a fuck buddy. I want love. He gets sex when he gets the love part right. He seems to think being engaged obligates my pussy to his peewee. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 21738912 The better question for you is: why is this person your fiance if you aren't even sexually compatible? You clearly still have issues in that department. I for one would certainly not be engaged to someone in those circumstances. Because i still feel like there is hope and under the right circumstances im a nympho, he is just so dense -.- mainly on the loving me part. we could be so compatible if some efforts were made. He sees all this as punishment whereas i just see it as an extension of my love which i cant extend right now. The other side of this is im on some pretty bad meds right now for epilepsy that make me really terrible to deal with such that small things turn into big deals but i dont want to leave because of medication. |
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Urban User ID: 6566746 United States 11/30/2012 11:10 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Because i still feel like there is hope and under the right circumstances im a nympho, he is just so dense -.- mainly on the loving me part. we could be so compatible if some efforts were made. He sees all this as punishment whereas i just see it as an extension of my love which i cant extend right now. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 21738912 The other side of this is im on some pretty bad meds right now for epilepsy that make me really terrible to deal with such that small things turn into big deals but i dont want to leave because of medication. That can only work if both of you make a genuine attempt to think and act in a way that is different from your ordinary self. Otherwise, you are simply going to butt heads until your strength runs out, and with no energy to maintain the relationship it will disintegrate. I say this out of personal experience, I was in a very similar situation to you guys in a past relationship. Everything's clear in hindsight of course, I was both right and wrong, she was both right and wrong, and both of us wanted to change the other person into someone different so we wouldn't have to change ourselves. We really loved one another but after 4 years of pushing, all the energy had been used up and we went our separate ways. Not a fun experience, I wish you guys good luck. "There wouldn’t be such a thing as counterfeit gold if there were no real gold somewhere." -–Sufi Proverb |
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Anonymous Coward User ID: 1327743 Canada 11/30/2012 01:07 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Not for me. I think "sex" is disgusting and only the under-developed minds crave it and/or need it. Whoa! You're all fucked up! See a doctor...and report back. I don't think so :) EXTREMELY overated!!!! Grow UP! I've had love, and sex, THOUSANDS of times, and LOVE it is THE best, sex well, it's for animals, period. EVOLVE!!!!!!!!!!!! note the the word 'Love' IS in there ... . |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 26369344 United States 11/30/2012 01:10 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | ... Quoting: Anonymous Coward 28709988 Not for me. I think "sex" is disgusting and only the under-developed minds crave it and/or need it. Whoa! You're all fucked up! See a doctor...and report back. I don't think so :) EXTREMELY overated!!!! Grow UP! I've had love, and sex, THOUSANDS of times, and LOVE it is THE best, sex well, it's for animals, period. EVOLVE!!!!!!!!!!!! note the the word 'Love' IS in there ... . |
Anonymous Coward (OP) User ID: 28709988 Australia 11/30/2012 01:10 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | ... Quoting: Anonymous Coward 28709988 Not for me. I think "sex" is disgusting and only the under-developed minds crave it and/or need it. Whoa! You're all fucked up! See a doctor...and report back. I don't think so :) EXTREMELY overated!!!! Grow UP! I've had love, and sex, THOUSANDS of times, and LOVE it is THE best, sex well, it's for animals, period. EVOLVE!!!!!!!!!!!! note the the word 'Love' IS in there ... . Underdeveloped humans generally feel the way you do. Have a flower |
Anonymous Coward (OP) User ID: 28709988 Australia 11/30/2012 01:13 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | EXTREMELY overated!!!! Grow UP! I've had love, and sex, THOUSANDS of times, and LOVE it is THE best, sex well, it's for animals, period. EVOLVE!!!!!!!!!!!! note the the word 'Love' IS in there ... . Underdeveloped humans generally feel the way you do. Have a flower If I misinterpreted your post, I apologise |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 17579430 United States 11/30/2012 01:31 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Yeah, really, sex is for the proles!! Quoting: Anonymous Coward 28540064 Truth is, you are impotent and unable to get it up. Sex disgusts you because you are unable to pleasure a woman. You knew that, you just needed to hear it from someone else. A real man takes care of his wife's pussy. He fulfills her needs. Women's' libbers marry pussy men who cannot do a real day's work. A real man can work all day and take care of a woman at night, even if he has an office job. A liberal pussy man worries about whether or not his ancestors perpetrated injustice on anyone. He has been intellectually castrated by white guilt, even though he works 10 hours a day so the government can take his wages and give them to people who were never oppressed. A real man and a real woman have sex. They care for each other and they satisfy each other. Liberals bathe in their guilt, and are neutered by it, even though they never did anything but read bad things about their ancestors, who built the country. A real man doesn't give a shit about giving pleasure to a woman. U R just pussy whipped. |
Anonymous Coward (OP) User ID: 28709988 Australia 11/30/2012 01:36 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Thinking the reproductive process is "disgusting" is a form of phobia. I'll venture to say that the OP was abused as a child in some form. Quoting: Chip In fact, any of you who are trying to say that sex is overrated, gross etc...are really off your rockers. The human mind is so complex that he term "can't see the forest through the trees" becomes an understatement. Seriously...perhaps the globalist mind fucking, poisons in your food, and the idiot box has finally fucked us up! OP probably also believes the earth is over populated. You simply do not have the aptitude to understand And I was blessed enough to not ever have been abused, bullied, tormented etc as a child/adolescent/adult :D. I do understand why underdeveloped humans would jump to this conclusion though |