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Anonymous Coward User ID: 85038092 Finland 01/03/2023 04:38 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | |
Seer777 (OP) Ride the wings of the mind User ID: 81740670 United States 01/03/2023 04:38 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Maybe what it really comes down to, is being able to trust someone when you’re totally vulnerable. Without that trust it becomes a terror experience. Quoting: Seer777 Within fantasy you are safe..going out and actively seeking those experiences are not safe. Placing yourself in compromising situations, walks that line. Whenever you’ve explained your terror experiences to me, they didn’t sound sexual. This is why people seek professionals. Submission guaranteed. Very good point. Consent is key. Even professionals might change their mind and choose not and that’s okay too. Difficulties strengthen the Mind as labor does the body... ~Seneca |
Sol-tari User ID: 76086843 Australia 01/03/2023 04:38 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | |
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Anonymous Coward User ID: 84032112 United States 01/03/2023 04:39 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Maybe what it really comes down to, is being able to trust someone when you’re totally vulnerable. Without that trust it becomes a terror experience. Quoting: Seer777 Within fantasy you are safe..going out an actively seeking those experiences are not safe. Placing yourself in compromising situations, walks that line. Whenever you’ve explained your terror experiences to me, they didn’t sound sexual. Yes. You are absolutely right about that. The issue stems mainly from compromised judgement about whom you can trust to dom. In a non-traumatized person, this is easier. For someone whose sexual preferences arise from trauma, they tend to make this mistake a lot, and not necessarily because they want to. Sexual preferences like mine, when known, can make a person very easy to manipulate. Oh, I should probably add, because I didn't fully comprehend what you said Seer Yes, the terror experiences were generally not sexual, almost never Here's the thing, the Terror experiences, the Trauma is generally not sexually arousing But after it is over, I seek sexual experiences or fantasies that replicate what happened in the trauma and pain fits the bill so it's more of an aftereffect |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 85038092 Finland 01/03/2023 04:40 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | |
Sol-tari User ID: 76086843 Australia 01/03/2023 04:41 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | ... Quoting: Sol-tari Lol like anything it's not just about how it's approached, but everyone views things differently Perspective I mentioned that yesterday, I believe I'm just talking though I have no idea about what :) Shhh *Glitches May Occur. Consume(D) At Own Risk |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 67206197 Canada 01/03/2023 04:41 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 84032112 United States 01/03/2023 04:42 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Maybe what it really comes down to, is being able to trust someone when you’re totally vulnerable. Without that trust it becomes a terror experience. Quoting: Seer777 Within fantasy you are safe..going out and actively seeking those experiences are not safe. Placing yourself in compromising situations, walks that line. Whenever you’ve explained your terror experiences to me, they didn’t sound sexual. This is why people seek professionals. Submission guaranteed. Very good point. Consent is key. Even professionals might change their mind and choose not and that’s okay too. Yes, without being too scandalous I will say that I have once had a professional experience, and professionals are very adherent to terms/boundaries. It is generally a good experience if approached in the culture of the scene. |
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Anonymous Coward User ID: 85038092 Finland 01/03/2023 04:43 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Maybe what it really comes down to, is being able to trust someone when you’re totally vulnerable. Without that trust it becomes a terror experience. Quoting: Seer777 Within fantasy you are safe..going out an actively seeking those experiences are not safe. Placing yourself in compromising situations, walks that line. Whenever you’ve explained your terror experiences to me, they didn’t sound sexual. Yes. You are absolutely right about that. The issue stems mainly from compromised judgement about whom you can trust to dom. In a non-traumatized person, this is easier. For someone whose sexual preferences arise from trauma, they tend to make this mistake a lot, and not necessarily because they want to. Sexual preferences like mine, when known, can make a person very easy to manipulate. Oh, I should probably add, because I didn't fully comprehend what you said Seer Yes, the terror experiences were generally not sexual, almost never Here's the thing, the Terror experiences, the Trauma is generally not sexually arousing But after it is over, I seek sexual experiences or fantasies that replicate what happened in the trauma and pain fits the bill so it's more of an aftereffect Do it with girls. Nice girls. Just a suggestion. |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 84032112 United States 01/03/2023 04:45 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | |
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Anonymous Coward User ID: 85038092 Finland 01/03/2023 04:47 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Fetishes are born of pleasureable experiences that are not directly percieved as sexual. Perversion is usually born of excitement induced by unconventional practices. ......yeah. No... Ok give us the official textbook version. |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 84032112 United States 01/03/2023 04:49 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | ... Quoting: Anonymous Coward 67206197 Fetishes are born of pleasureable experiences that are not directly percieved as sexual. Perversion is usually born of excitement induced by unconventional practices. ......yeah. No... Ok give us the official textbook version. per·ver·sion /pərˈvərZH(ə)n/ Learn to pronounce noun 2. sexual behavior or desire that is considered abnormal or unacceptable. "his book revolutionized ideas about sexual perversion" Similar: deviance deviancy deviation unnaturalness corruption depravity as you can see, abnormal and unacceptable are extremely subjective |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 85038092 Finland 01/03/2023 04:51 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 84032112 United States 01/03/2023 04:53 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Like they´re trying to normalize child abuse these days... Quoting: Anonymous Coward 85038092 Just moving the goalposts of "normality" for their own agendas and benefits. what's wrong with two consensual adult partners having weird sex if the terms are agreeable to both and it is done in a healthy way with clear boundaries? I know it can go badly, but it can also be fine. |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 85038092 Finland 01/03/2023 04:55 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Like they´re trying to normalize child abuse these days... Quoting: Anonymous Coward 85038092 Just moving the goalposts of "normality" for their own agendas and benefits. what's wrong with two consensual adult partners having weird sex if the terms are agreeable to both and it is done in a healthy way with clear boundaries? I know it can go badly, but it can also be fine. Sure. But anything with vulnerable adolescents is out of line if you ask me. That´s brainwashing/abuse. |
Huginn User ID: 77992378 United States 01/03/2023 04:56 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Like they´re trying to normalize child abuse these days... Quoting: Anonymous Coward 85038092 Just moving the goalposts of "normality" for their own agendas and benefits. what's wrong with two consensual adult partners having weird sex if the terms are agreeable to both and it is done in a healthy way with clear boundaries? I know it can go badly, but it can also be fine. Sure. But anything with vulnerable adolescents is out of line if you ask me. That´s brainwashing/abuse. No one is suggesting this, thus far d00bious |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 67206197 Canada 01/03/2023 04:57 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | ... Quoting: Anonymous Coward 67206197 Fetishes are born of pleasureable experiences that are not directly percieved as sexual. Perversion is usually born of excitement induced by unconventional practices. ......yeah. No... Ok give us the official textbook version. Read above and note the seperation. The difference between rough tickling or a nipple tweak causing energetic tension and release; or, Lawrence of Arabia being raped by multiple arabs and upon his arrival in England ordering several rowdy boys to rough him up and sodomize him as often as his lower extremities could heal up for another session. |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 84032112 United States 01/03/2023 04:57 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Like they´re trying to normalize child abuse these days... Quoting: Anonymous Coward 85038092 Just moving the goalposts of "normality" for their own agendas and benefits. what's wrong with two consensual adult partners having weird sex if the terms are agreeable to both and it is done in a healthy way with clear boundaries? I know it can go badly, but it can also be fine. Sure. But anything with vulnerable adolescents is out of line if you ask me. That´s brainwashing/abuse. No one is suggesting this, thus far Absolutely would never even dream of putting a kid in that arena. What I am speaking of is adult sex only. |
Huginn User ID: 77992378 United States 01/03/2023 04:58 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | ... Quoting: I Am Setsuna what's wrong with two consensual adult partners having weird sex if the terms are agreeable to both and it is done in a healthy way with clear boundaries? I know it can go badly, but it can also be fine. Sure. But anything with vulnerable adolescents is out of line if you ask me. That´s brainwashing/abuse. No one is suggesting this, thus far Absolutely would never even dream of putting a kid in that arena. What I am speaking of is adult sex only. I know. I just thought it was an odd pivot d00bious |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 85038092 Finland 01/03/2023 04:59 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | ... Quoting: I Am Setsuna what's wrong with two consensual adult partners having weird sex if the terms are agreeable to both and it is done in a healthy way with clear boundaries? I know it can go badly, but it can also be fine. Sure. But anything with vulnerable adolescents is out of line if you ask me. That´s brainwashing/abuse. No one is suggesting this, thus far Absolutely would never even dream of putting a kid in that arena. What I am speaking of is adult sex only. How was this fetish/condition born? |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 84032112 United States 01/03/2023 04:59 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | ... Quoting: Anonymous Coward 85038092 Sure. But anything with vulnerable adolescents is out of line if you ask me. That´s brainwashing/abuse. No one is suggesting this, thus far Absolutely would never even dream of putting a kid in that arena. What I am speaking of is adult sex only. I know. I just thought it was an odd pivot yeah, it is... no need to slippery slope the situation |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 84032112 United States 01/03/2023 05:00 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | ... Quoting: Anonymous Coward 85038092 Sure. But anything with vulnerable adolescents is out of line if you ask me. That´s brainwashing/abuse. No one is suggesting this, thus far Absolutely would never even dream of putting a kid in that arena. What I am speaking of is adult sex only. How was this fetish/condition born? It depends on the person. Yes, I may have childhood sexual trauma, but that doesn't mean I can't be a healthy masochist, if I do the work on myself to confine it to proper situations and trustworthy partners. At least, I hope. |
Sol-tari User ID: 76086843 Australia 01/03/2023 05:00 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Like they´re trying to normalize child abuse these days... Quoting: Anonymous Coward 85038092 Just moving the goalposts of "normality" for their own agendas and benefits. what's wrong with two consensual adult partners having weird sex if the terms are agreeable to both and it is done in a healthy way with clear boundaries? I know it can go badly, but it can also be fine. Sure. But anything with vulnerable adolescents is out of line if you ask me. That´s brainwashing/abuse. Lol withdrawn Last Edited by Sol-tari on 01/03/2023 05:01 PM *Glitches May Occur. Consume(D) At Own Risk |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 85038092 Finland 01/03/2023 05:03 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Absolutely would never even dream of putting a kid in that arena. What I am speaking of is adult sex only. How was this fetish/condition born? It depends on the person. Yes, I may have childhood sexual trauma, but that doesn't mean I can't be a healthy masochist, if I do the work on myself to confine it to proper situations and trustworthy partners. At least, I hope. It shouldn´t happen in the first place. Is my point. But the consequences are subjective, yes. |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 84032112 United States 01/03/2023 05:04 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | ... Quoting: I Am Setsuna Absolutely would never even dream of putting a kid in that arena. What I am speaking of is adult sex only. How was this fetish/condition born? It depends on the person. Yes, I may have childhood sexual trauma, but that doesn't mean I can't be a healthy masochist, if I do the work on myself to confine it to proper situations and trustworthy partners. At least, I hope. It shouldn´t happen in the first place. Is my point. But the consequences are subjective, yes. Agree, childhood sexual abuse should never happen. |
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